{"id":21999,"date":"2018-08-17T11:31:35","date_gmt":"2018-08-17T11:31:35","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=21999"},"modified":"2021-08-11T13:39:09","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T13:39:09","slug":"non-seguite-mai-questi-13-esempi-di-cattivi-consigli-relazionali","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/non-seguite-mai-questi-13-esempi-di-cattivi-consigli-relazionali\/","title":{"rendered":"Non seguite mai questi 13 esempi di cattivi consigli relazionali"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>The saying \u2018the road to hell is paved with good intentions\u2019 is not there without a good reason. People share relationship advice by having your best interests at heart.<\/p>\n<p>Tuttavia, questi consigli possono portarvi sulla strada sbagliata e rovinare ancora di pi\u00f9 la vostra vita sentimentale.<\/p>\n<p>Questi sono alcuni esempi di cattivi consigli relazionali che non dovreste mai seguire:<\/p>\n<h1><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\"><strong>1. \u201cDo your best to avoid conflict in a relationship.\u201d<\/strong><\/span><\/h1>\n<p>Questo \u00e8 un consiglio davvero orribile. Non parlando delle cose che vi preoccupano, non fate altro che accumulare tutti i problemi grandi e piccoli dentro di voi. Diventate una bomba a orologeria e inevitabilmente esploderete.<\/p>\n<p>But if you had argued, discussed and solved your problems right away, your problems wouldn\u2019t be as big or as devastating for your relationship.<\/p>\n<p>Good communication is the key to a successful relationship. Don\u2019t be afraid to say out loud when something is bothering you. Confronting your problems can make your relationship grow stronger.<\/p>\n<h1><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\"><strong>2. \u201cYour relationship should look like a romantic movie.\u201d<\/strong><\/span><\/h1>\n<p>It\u2019s true that most of us want that movie kind of romance, with grand gestures and emotional displays. But in reality, if someone was to exaggerate in that way, we would probably think they had a screw loose somewhere inside.<\/p>\n<p>There is a reason why romance in the movies is so amazing and it\u2019s called acting. In real life, we should be more realistic and notice romance in its more natural and realistic forms.<\/p>\n<p>A goodnight text, a cuddly Sunday afternoon, someone who makes you feel better when you are sick, someone who lights up around you, someone who hugs hard\u2026 isn\u2019t that all the romance you need?<\/p>\n<h1><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\"><strong>3. \u201cYou have every right to check their phone, social media, etc., because you are in a relationship.\u201d<\/strong><\/span><\/h1>\n<p>A relationship doesn\u2019t give you ownership papers and people are not things to be treated as such. Snooping through someone\u2019s phone, social media, etc., means invading their privacy.<\/p>\n<p>It shows that you don\u2019t respect someone&#8217;s personal space and what\u2019s even more concerning is that you don\u2019t trust the person you are with. If that is the case, you should rethink your relationship.<\/p>\n<h1><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\"><strong>4. \u201cYou expect too much from your partner\/relationship, so lower your standards.\u201d<\/strong><\/span><\/h1>\n<p>Don\u2019t let anybody tell you that there is something wrong with having standards. You have to demand respect, loyalty, and love in your relationship.<\/p>\n<p>Ci devono essere alcune qualit\u00e0 che volete che il vostro partner abbia e non c'\u00e8 niente di male a scegliere di uscire con qualcuno che le possiede.<\/p>\n<p>Siete voi a dover essere aperti e onesti riguardo ai vostri desideri e alle vostre esigenze in merito al vostro partner e alla vostra relazione.<\/p>\n<p>You alone can be the judge of whether they are realistic or not; nobody else should tell you what\u2019s good enough for you.<\/p>\n<h1><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\"><strong>5. \u201cNever go to bed angry.\u201d<\/strong><\/span><\/h1>\n<p>This is one of the most common phrases and pieces of advice you can hear. However, it\u2019s definitely not good advice.<\/p>\n<p>Some problems can\u2019t be solved instantly. Sometimes it\u2019s better to sleep on it, let your emotions calm down and talk about everything in the morning or sometime the next day.<\/p>\n<h1><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\"><strong>6. \u201cThey will change because they love you.\u201d<\/strong><\/span><\/h1>\n<p>Se qualcuno non vi tratta come dovrebbe, se vi concede solo le briciole, se non \u00e8 disposto a fare uno sforzo per tenere insieme la vostra relazione, \u00e8 probabile che <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/love\/alla-ragazza-dal-cuore-tenero-che-non-cambiera-mai\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">they won\u2019t change<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>People only change when they feel the need to change and there is nothing anyone can do about it. You can\u2019t stay in a bad thing and hope that your love will be enough to change someone.<\/p>\n<h1><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\"><strong>7. \u201cStop being so self-sufficient, it\u2019s intimidating.\u201d<\/strong><\/span><\/h1>\n<p>You can often hear that men are intimidated by strong, self-sufficient women who can stand on their own two feet. The truth is some are and others aren\u2019t, it depends and you can\u2019t generalize.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s all about the way you choose to look at things. Instead of looking at your strength as something that makes you hard to love, look at it as a more than welcome filter.<\/p>\n<p>It will keep those who are not good for you away and keep the one who is for your close. He won\u2019t be intimidated by anything, he will welcome and applaud your self-sufficiency.<\/p>\n<h1><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">8. \u201cGet married! It\u2019s time!\u201d<\/span><\/h1>\n<p>Yes, it\u2019s the 21st century and we still keep hearing this nonsense. It\u2019s like there is a time limit for marriage and if you don\u2019t get hitched by that certain time, you have accomplished nothing in your life.<\/p>\n<p>That\u2019s so wrong on so many levels. People shouldn\u2019t get married because they\u2019ve been together for a long time or because they reached a time limit that&#8217;s socially acceptable.<\/p>\n<p>Le persone dovrebbero sposarsi a loro tempo, per le loro ragioni e solo se credono nel matrimonio. Tutti gli altri commenti sono superflui.<\/p>\n<h1><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\"><strong>9. \u201cYour partner must earn at least as much as you do or more.\u201d<\/strong><\/span><\/h1>\n<p>This is not just unrealistic, it\u2019s unnecessary. You and your partner should contribute as much as you can into your household and it doesn\u2019t matter who earns more money.<\/p>\n<p>Looking at your relationship from a financial side is materialistic and has nothing to do with feelings. Discard this advice. Love can\u2019t and shouldn\u2019t be measured in dollars.<\/p>\n<p>L'unica cosa che dovreste aspettarvi dal vostro partner \u00e8 che sia un gran lavoratore e che non sia una sanguisuga che dipende interamente da voi dal punto di vista economico.<\/p>\n<h1><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\"><strong>10. \u201cIf only your partner was more like mine.\u201d<\/strong><\/span><\/h1>\n<p>Un amico che dice una cosa del genere non \u00e8 tuo amico. Sta sminuendo voi e la vostra relazione per sentirsi meglio.<\/p>\n<p>Nessuna persona \u00e8 uguale all'altra, nessuna relazione \u00e8 uguale all'altra e quindi non vanno mai paragonate.<\/p>\n<p>Everybody has a different definition of happiness in a relationship; don\u2019t allow yours to feel less just because it\u2019s not similar to somebody else\u2019s.<\/p>\n<h1><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\"><strong>11. \u201cLove will find you.\u201d<\/strong><\/span><\/h1>\n<p>Sure, love comes along in its own time. But it definitely won\u2019t find us while we are hiding in the comfort of our own home. It won\u2019t knock on our door.<\/p>\n<p>Se vogliamo che l'amore ci trovi, dobbiamo farci vedere. Dobbiamo dare al destino una piccola spinta. Dobbiamo essere proattivi. Uscire, seguire nuovi percorsi e interessi e creare opportunit\u00e0 per incontrare nuove persone.<\/p>\n<h1><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\"><strong>12. \u201cLove will fade away with time.\u201d<\/strong><\/span><\/h1>\n<p>It\u2019s really an awful and scary thought that love fades with time. We often hear that said and we often see that in real life; however, things don\u2019t have to play it out that way.<\/p>\n<p>Se due persone provano un sentimento profondo l'una per l'altra, troveranno un modo per mantenere vivo l'amore. Lavoreranno quotidianamente sulla loro relazione e si ricorderanno l'un l'altro che ci sono e che ci tengono.<\/p>\n<p>Ci sono tanti esempi di coppie sposate da trent'anni o pi\u00f9 che ci dimostrano che il vero amore non svanisce mai.<\/p>\n<h1><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\"><strong>13. \u201cLove can\u2019t exist without jealousy.\u201d<\/strong><\/span><\/h1>\n<p>Sure it can. Two people who built their relationship on trust won&#8217;t make room for jealousy. A small amount of jealousy can appear regardless of the trust but those cases are rare and have more to do with the self-confidence of the person who is jealous than with the entire relationship.<\/p>\n<p>However, extremely jealous behavior is no sign of love. It\u2019s a sign of someone who is so unsure of themselves that they become controlling. That kind of jealousy can become really damaging.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>The saying \u2018the road to hell is paved with good intentions\u2019 is not there without a good reason. People share relationship advice by having your best interests at heart. However, that advice can put you on the wrong path and make an even greater mess of your love life. 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