{"id":22005,"date":"2018-08-17T11:55:08","date_gmt":"2018-08-17T11:55:08","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=22005"},"modified":"2022-02-10T02:38:01","modified_gmt":"2022-02-10T02:38:01","slug":"se-state-cercando-un-segno-che-vi-indichi-che-dovreste-lasciarlo-eccolo-qui","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/se-state-cercando-un-segno-che-vi-indichi-che-dovreste-lasciarlo-eccolo-qui\/","title":{"rendered":"Se state cercando un segno che vi indichi che dovreste lasciarlo, eccolo qui"},"content":{"rendered":"

C'\u00e8 un ragazzo a cui tenete molto. Il ragazzo ami davvero<\/a>. L'uomo per cui faresti qualsiasi cosa.<\/p>\n

But the truth is that he doesn’t love you back. At least, not the way you love him. At least, not the way you want to be loved.<\/p>\n

E purtroppo lei ne \u00e8 ben consapevole.<\/p>\n

For as long as the two of you have known each other, he\u2019s been leading you on. He\u2019s been playing hot and cold mind games with you and he\u2019s been sending you mixed signals.<\/p>\n

There are days when he is cold and when he acts like he doesn\u2019t even know you. And these are the days when you don\u2019t have the slightest idea of what has to be done.<\/p>\n

On other days, you become aware that you need to walk away from this guy and that you can\u2019t wait for a second longer to do so.<\/p>\n

You realize that he doesn\u2019t love you enough, that he never did and that he never will. You realize that he doesn\u2019t appreciate you<\/a> and that he doesn\u2019t deserve you.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Vi rendete conto che non \u00e8 l'uomo che avete sempre immaginato e che lasciarlo \u00e8 l'unica scelta intelligente per voi.<\/p>\n

Ma nel momento in cui prendete questa decisione, lui torna strisciando nella vostra vita.<\/p>\n

E all'improvviso diventa il ragazzo pi\u00f9 dolce di sempre. Diventa il ragazzo di cui vi siete innamorati. Diventa amorevole e premuroso.<\/p>\n

E proprio cos\u00ec, cambiate idea. Dimenticate il modo in cui vi ha trattato prima e decidete di dare un'altra possibilit\u00e0 a questa quasi-relazione.<\/p>\n

You hope that this time will be different and that he\u2019ll remain like this.<\/p>\n

But of course, this doesn\u2019t happen. Before you know it, this man goes back to his old ways and you go back to your old thoughts of leaving him.<\/p>\n

And all of this goes on for years. You see that you\u2019ve dragged yourself into an endless circle of love and hatred with this man and you simply don\u2019t know what to do with your life.<\/strong><\/p>\n

You don\u2019t know what the right decision is for you.<\/p>\n

If you stick with this guy, you\u2019ll waste years of your life in this type of relationship. You\u2019ll end up miserable and you\u2019ll blame yourself for not walking away from him sooner.<\/p>\n

But on the other hand, if you leave him, you\u2019ll always wonder what could have been of the two of you.<\/p>\n

Cosa sarebbe successo se gli avesse dato un'altra possibilit\u00e0? Sarebbe stato l'uomo che volevate che fosse? E se la sua personalit\u00e0 gentile e amorevole fosse in realt\u00e0 il suo vero volto?<\/p>\n

You simply can\u2019t make up your mind and you don\u2019t know what to think about this man. What should you do?<\/strong><\/p>\n

Volete solo qualcuno che vi aiuti a prendere una decisione definitiva. Volete qualcuno che vi dica cosa fare.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Volete che accada qualcosa che vi aiuti a vedere le cose pi\u00f9 chiaramente. Siete alla ricerca di un segno. Un segno che vi dica se dovete restare con lui o se dovete andarvene.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Ebbene, la vostra attesa \u00e8 giunta al termine perch\u00e9 questo \u00e8 il momento! Questo \u00e8 il vostro segno.<\/strong><\/p>\n

This is me telling you to walk away from this man who clearly doesn\u2019t deserve you and who clearly doesn\u2019t love you enough and to never look back.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Sono io che vi consiglio di dire l'ultimo saluto<\/a> a quest'uomo.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Sono io che vi dico che lasciando questo ragazzo<\/a> is the only choice you should make. This is me telling you that he is not worthy of you or of all the years you\u2019ve spent with him.<\/p>\n

This is me promising you that you\u2019ll never regret leaving someone like him. That you\u2019ll get over him and that you\u2019ll move on with your life, like he never existed.<\/p>\n

This is me promising you that you\u2019ll be happy without him by your side.<\/p>\n

Promising you that you\u2019ll eventually be glad that you did this and that you\u2019ll eventually realize that this was the best decision of your life.<\/p>\n

Questo sono io che ti do un segno. E questo \u00e8 il mio invito a prenderlo.<\/strong> <\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

There is this guy you care about very much. The guy you really love. The guy you would do anything for. But the truth is that he doesn’t love you back. At least, not the way you love him. At least, not the way you want to be loved. And sadly, you are very well…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":22006,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29618],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-22005","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-moving-on"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29618,"label":"moving on"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/christopher-carson-522517-unsplash.jpg",800,532,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":1,"category_info":[{"term_id":29618,"name":"moving on","slug":"moving-on","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29618,"taxonomy":"category","description":"When nothing else works - inspiring stories about moving on are bound to help you let go of people and situations you never thought you could live without.\r\n","parent":38,"count":200,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29618,"category_count":200,"category_description":"When nothing else works - inspiring stories about moving on are bound to help you let go of people and situations you never thought you could live without.\r\n","cat_name":"moving on","category_nicename":"moving-on","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/22005","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=22005"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/22005\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/22006"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=22005"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=22005"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=22005"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}