{"id":22195,"date":"2018-08-24T08:15:39","date_gmt":"2018-08-24T08:15:39","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=22195"},"modified":"2021-08-11T13:30:21","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T13:30:21","slug":"6-motivi-per-cui-lamico-cattivo-e-lamico-che-ci-tiene-di-piu","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/6-motivi-per-cui-lamico-cattivo-e-lamico-che-ci-tiene-di-piu\/","title":{"rendered":"6 motivi per cui l'amica cattiva \u00e8 l'amica che si preoccupa di pi\u00f9"},"content":{"rendered":"

Tutti abbiamo un amico che \u00e8 brutalmente onesto e, francamente, a volte ci d\u00e0 sui nervi. A volte la loro onest\u00e0 \u00e8 l'ultima cosa che vorremmo sentire.<\/p>\n

Ma ci\u00f2 di cui non siamo consapevoli \u00e8 che la honesty our \u2018mean\u2019 friend lays on us is exactly what we need<\/a> e di dover ascoltare in quel momento.<\/p>\n

Nessuno ha bisogno di un amico che sia d'accordo con tutto ci\u00f2 che dite. Questo non \u00e8 un vero amico, \u00e8 qualcuno che vuole stare dalla vostra parte.<\/p>\n

Ogni persona su questo pianeta ha bisogno di qualcuno che ci riporti a terra e ci impedisca di fare cose stupide.<\/p>\n

Un po' di amore severo ogni tanto \u00e8 qualcosa che tutti noi dobbiamo sentire.<\/em><\/p>\n

No one says it\u2019s easy to have a friend like that because it\u2019s not easy to hear something you don\u2019t want to hear. Those \u2018mean\u2019 things your friend is going to say to you borderline on being completely rude and you can\u2019t avoid getting hurt by it.<\/p>\n

But don\u2019t take it the wrong way because only your best friend is the one who will say everything right to your face. They will tell you the truth no matter how harsh it is.<\/p>\n

Ecco perch\u00e9 l'amico cattivo \u00e8 il migliore che si possa avere:<\/p>\n

1. Non vi permetter\u00e0 mai di mandare un messaggio da ubriachi alla vostra ex.<\/span><\/strong><\/h1>\n

She knows it\u2019s a huge mistake and even if you go ahead and do it, she will make you feel like shit. Firstly, she\u2019ll tell you it\u2019s a bad idea because you have to dimenticarlo<\/a>.<\/p>\n

But, of course, you won\u2019t listen and you\u2019ll get drunk and text him. Sure, since that person is your best friend, you will tell her all about it and she\u2019ll lay some really harsh truth and tough love on you.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s not something you want to hear because you want to be encouraged but it\u2019s something you have to hear and deep down you know it!<\/p>\n

2. Ti cagher\u00e0 addosso il crop top<\/strong><\/span><\/h1>\n

You will go shopping with her and you\u2019ll try it on. She\u2019ll talk you out of it but you\u2019ll go back and buy it anyway.<\/p>\n

The thing is, you won\u2019t hear the end of it. Every time you put it on, she will shit all over it once again. Listen to your friend, maybe that top was a truly risky buy.<\/p>\n

3. She won\u2019t hesitate to tell you how she feels about your new boyfriend<\/strong><\/span><\/h1>\n

You are her person. You are her best friend. She is not being jealous and she doesn\u2019t envy you about your new relationship. She just acts the way she feels.<\/p>\n

E se non \u00e8 del tutto sicura del vostro nuovo fidanzato, ve lo dir\u00e0 senza esitazione. Sta solo cercando di tutelare i vostri interessi. Sta solo cercando di salvarvi da un potenziale colpo di fulmine.<\/p>\n

Non \u00e8 cattiva in senso negativo. \u00c8 solo onesta perch\u00e9 ci tiene a te.<\/p>\n

4. She\u2019ll talk you out of cutting bangs<\/span><\/strong><\/h1>\n

You had them a few years ago and they did not look good on you. She\u2019ll say it right to your face. And what\u2019s even more important, she\u2019ll remind you that you hated bangs and you couldn\u2019t wait for them to grow out.<\/p>\n

You forgot all of that and you\u2019re in a phase where you want to change something, so the first thing you want to do that is not so extreme is change your hair a bit.<\/p>\n

Se vi ama e se stavate malissimo con la frangia, cercher\u00e0 di impedirvi di tagliarla.<\/p>\n

5. She\u2019ll tell you to go to the gym<\/strong><\/span><\/h1>\n

If she notices that you got lazy and that you went up a size, she\u2019ll tell you to lay off the sweets and junk food and get your ass to the gym.<\/p>\n

Now, isn\u2019t that something only a true friend would do? Others would keep their mouths shut and let you gain weight just so as to not hurt your feelings but she will say everything straight up and you\u2019ll thank her later.<\/p>\n

6. She\u2019ll tell you to stop whining over your ex<\/strong><\/span><\/h1>\n

She\u2019ll tell you to get over him and stop acting broken and andare avanti con la tua vita<\/a>e. She won\u2019t walk around on eggshells trying not to say something that’ll hurt you.<\/p>\n

She knows that you are a big girl and she knows how much you\u2019re worthy, so she\u2019ll try to snap you out of it and get you to forget about his sorry ass.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s love!<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

We all have that friend who\u2019s brutally honest and frankly, sometimes it gets on our nerves. Sometimes their honesty is the last thing we want to hear. But what we are not aware of is that the honesty our \u2018mean\u2019 friend lays on us is exactly what we need and have to hear at that…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":25,"featured_media":22196,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29624],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-22195","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-friends-and-family"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29624,"label":"friends&family"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/joshua-sazon-373580-unsplash.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Amy Nicholson","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/amy\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29624,"name":"friends&family","slug":"friends-and-family","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29624,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Do you want to improve your relationship with friends and family? Following these tips will help you boost your connection with your favorite people.","parent":29620,"count":316,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29624,"category_count":316,"category_description":"Do you want to improve your relationship with friends and family? Following these tips will help you boost your connection with your favorite people.","cat_name":"friends&family","category_nicename":"friends-and-family","category_parent":29620}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/22195","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/25"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=22195"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/22195\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/22196"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=22195"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=22195"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=22195"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}