{"id":22294,"date":"2019-11-27T12:26:34","date_gmt":"2019-11-27T12:26:34","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=22294"},"modified":"2021-08-12T13:33:51","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T13:33:51","slug":"modi-per-cacciare-il-tuo-ex-dal-tuo-sistema","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/modi-per-cacciare-il-tuo-ex-dal-tuo-sistema\/","title":{"rendered":"7 modi per cacciare il vostro ex dal vostro sistema"},"content":{"rendered":"<h2>1. Smettere di cercare di dimenticarlo<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-52343\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/Beautiful-smiling-woman-in-park.jpg\" alt=\"Bella donna sorridente nel parco\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/Beautiful-smiling-woman-in-park.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/Beautiful-smiling-woman-in-park-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/Beautiful-smiling-woman-in-park-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>La verit\u00e0 \u00e8 che pi\u00f9 pensate di dimenticare il vostro ex, pi\u00f9 lui sar\u00e0 presente nei vostri pensieri.<\/p>\n<p>He will be all you think about and that\u2019s not what you need right now or ever.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s like when somebody says don\u2019t eat cake. Naturally, the only thing you can think about is eating that delicious slice of cake as soon as possible.<\/p>\n<p>Clearly, your ex is not as delicious as that cake or he wouldn&#8217;t be an ex.<\/p>\n<p>There is a good reason you guys broke up and that&#8217;s that.<\/p>\n<p>Perci\u00f2, invece di cercare di dimenticarlo, riorientate la vostra attenzione su voi stessi. Sii presente per te stessa e impara ad amarti di pi\u00f9.<\/p>\n<p>Trovate il modo di rendervi felici e lo caccerete dal vostro sistema prima che ve ne rendiate conto.<\/p>\n<h2>2. Datevi tempo, non esiste una corsia preferenziale per la guarigione.<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-52344\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/Sad-woman-sitting-on-the-floor-looking-outside.jpg\" alt=\"Giovane donna triste seduta sul pavimento che guarda fuori\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/Sad-woman-sitting-on-the-floor-looking-outside.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/Sad-woman-sitting-on-the-floor-looking-outside-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/Sad-woman-sitting-on-the-floor-looking-outside-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>I know you don\u2019t want to hear this but it will take time until your broken heart heals completely.<\/p>\n<p>It would be easier if you could just snap your fingers and go to that place in the future where you are feeling better but sadly things don\u2019t go that way.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s a long process, full of ups and downs. So don\u2019t expect to be all better overnight.<\/p>\n<h2>3. Rimanere occupati<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-52345\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/Group-of-smiling-friends-drinking-coffee.jpg\" alt=\"Gruppo di amici sorridenti che bevono caff\u00e8\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/Group-of-smiling-friends-drinking-coffee.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/Group-of-smiling-friends-drinking-coffee-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/Group-of-smiling-friends-drinking-coffee-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>La cosa peggiore che potete fare \u00e8 non fare nulla. Analizzare in modo eccessivo ogni singolo aspetto della vostra relazione passata e passare in rassegna tutti i \"se\" non far\u00e0 altro che peggiorare l'intera situazione.<\/p>\n<p>Pensare continuamente a ci\u00f2 che \u00e8 successo e al perch\u00e9 \u00e8 successo non fa altro che trascinarvi sempre pi\u00f9 a fondo nella tristezza e nella depressione.<\/p>\n<p>So get up and get busy. Fill your schedule and don\u2019t waste a minute.<\/p>\n<p>Chiamate i vostri amici e fate programmi con loro. Fare esercizio fisico. Fate un'escursione.<\/p>\n<p>Cucinare qualcosa di nuovo e delizioso. Prendere lezioni di ballo. Fare il volontario.<\/p>\n<p>Fate tutto ci\u00f2 che il vostro cuore desidera. Fate tutte le cose che avreste voluto fare ma che la vostra relazione ha ostacolato.<\/p>\n<h2>4. Don\u2019t let your ex still be a part of your life<\/h2>\n<h2><strong><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-52348\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/young-woman-wearing-yellow-sweatshirt.jpg\" alt=\"giovane donna felice con felpa gialla che tiene in mano un caff\u00e8\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/young-woman-wearing-yellow-sweatshirt.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/young-woman-wearing-yellow-sweatshirt-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/young-woman-wearing-yellow-sweatshirt-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/strong><\/h2>\n<p>Make sure your ex isn\u2019t stringing you along. You had that talk, you broke up but you still don\u2019t know whether it is definite or not.<\/p>\n<p>He needs time to figure things out and he doesn&#8217;t mind keeping you waiting.<\/p>\n<p>As if breaking up wasn\u2019t as bad enough, you will end up with a broken soul too if you keep dreaming of reconciliation.<\/p>\n<p>Una volta decisa la fine delle cose, non tornate mai indietro.<\/p>\n<p>Soffrirete solo di pi\u00f9 aspettando qualcosa che non sar\u00e0 mai.<\/p>\n<h2>5. Cut every tie that&#8217;s still keeping you near him<\/h2>\n<h2><strong><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-52351\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/beautiful-girl-leaving-her-boyfriend.jpg\" alt=\"Bella ragazza dallo sguardo triste e infelice, con problemi relazionali e che lascia il suo ragazzo \" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/beautiful-girl-leaving-her-boyfriend.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/beautiful-girl-leaving-her-boyfriend-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/beautiful-girl-leaving-her-boyfriend-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/strong><\/h2>\n<p>Staying friends with your ex is not a good idea. No matter what the reason for breaking up was, while everything is still fresh and your emotions are very much real it\u2019s not a good idea to stay close.<\/p>\n<p>Pretending to be someone\u2019s friend when you want something more will show you that you can be lonelier than when you are all by yourself.<\/p>\n<p>Molte donne pensano che andare a letto con il proprio ex le far\u00e0 innamorare di nuovo.<\/p>\n<p>But that\u2019s never the case. They sleep with them because the opportunity presents itself.<\/p>\n<p>It is not a matter of feelings, it\u2019s a matter of instant satisfaction and taking what they can get out of it.<\/p>\n<p>Sleeping with your ex is surely not the way you\u2019ll get over him.<\/p>\n<h2>6. Prendetevi cura di voi stessi<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-52355\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/Young-smiling-woman-enjoying-life.jpg\" alt=\"Giovane donna sorridente che si sporge dal finestrino del furgone e si gode la vita\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/Young-smiling-woman-enjoying-life.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/Young-smiling-woman-enjoying-life-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/Young-smiling-woman-enjoying-life-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s easy to seek comfort in your ex when you are overwhelmed by feelings, and you\u2019re feeling stressed, anxious and lonely.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s part of human nature to concentrate on the good things and pretend like none of the bad things happened.<\/p>\n<p>But they did and all those bad feelings will only get worse if you fall into your ex\u2019s arms or bed again.<\/p>\n<p>Per evitare che ci\u00f2 accada, \u00e8 necessario praticare la cura di s\u00e9. Trovate qualcosa che dia sollievo alla vostra mente, al vostro corpo e alla vostra anima.<\/p>\n<p>Mettete voi stessi al primo posto, tanto per cambiare. Avete bisogno di stare da soli per poter guarire e crescere.<\/p>\n<h2>7. Smettere di perseguitarlo<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-52356\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/Woman-using-smartphone-to-stalk-online.jpg\" alt=\"Primo piano di una donna che legge un messaggio di testo su un telefono cellulare online\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/Woman-using-smartphone-to-stalk-online.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/Woman-using-smartphone-to-stalk-online-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/Woman-using-smartphone-to-stalk-online-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>\u2018Out of sight, out of mind\u2019 fits perfectly with the situation you are in. You are self-sabotaging your healing process by constantly cyberstalking or, in worst cases, real-life stalking your ex.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t just delete his number, Facebook, Instagram and everything else that grants you insights into his life.<\/p>\n<p>Bloccatelo completamente sul vostro telefono e dalla vostra vita.<\/p>\n<p>Tenere traccia dei suoi spostamenti e guardare le sue foto \u00e8 una vera e propria auto-tortura che dovete smettere di fare immediatamente.<\/p>\n<p>Meno sapete di lui, meglio sarete.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Vedi anche:<\/strong>&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/life\/inseguirlo-e-stata-la-cosa-piu-stupida-che-abbia-mai-fatto\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Inseguirlo \u00e8 stata la cosa pi\u00f9 stupida che abbia mai fatto<\/a><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-large wp-image-52357\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/7-Ways-To-Kick-Your-Ex-Out-Of-Your-System-Pinterest-683x1024.jpg\" alt=\"7 modi per cacciare il vostro ex dal vostro sistema\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/7-Ways-To-Kick-Your-Ex-Out-Of-Your-System-Pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/7-Ways-To-Kick-Your-Ex-Out-Of-Your-System-Pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/7-Ways-To-Kick-Your-Ex-Out-Of-Your-System-Pinterest-768x1152.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/7-Ways-To-Kick-Your-Ex-Out-Of-Your-System-Pinterest.jpg 1000w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>1. Stop trying to forget him The truth is the more you think about getting over your ex, the more he\u2019ll be present in your thoughts. He will be all you think about and that\u2019s not what you need right now or ever. It\u2019s like when somebody says don\u2019t eat cake. Naturally, the only thing&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":23,"featured_media":52337,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29631],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-22294","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-getting-over-him"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29631,"label":"getting over him"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/beautiful-woman-wearing-a-dress-and-sunglasses.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Leah Lee","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/leah\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29631,"name":"getting over him","slug":"getting-over-him","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29631,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Getting over someone you still care about is one of the biggest challenges, but nothing is impossible when you know you're not alone, so check out our brilliant advice.","parent":29627,"count":124,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29631,"category_count":124,"category_description":"Getting over someone you still care about is one of the biggest challenges, but nothing is impossible when you know you're not alone, so check out our brilliant advice.","cat_name":"getting over him","category_nicename":"getting-over-him","category_parent":29627}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/22294","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/23"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=22294"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/22294\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/52337"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=22294"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=22294"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=22294"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}