{"id":22419,"date":"2018-08-31T06:33:03","date_gmt":"2018-08-31T06:33:03","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=22419"},"modified":"2022-02-27T02:33:34","modified_gmt":"2022-02-27T02:33:34","slug":"mi-mente-non-mi-mente","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/mi-mente-non-mi-mente\/","title":{"rendered":"Lui mi mente, lui non mi mente"},"content":{"rendered":"

Have you ever thought someone you trusted was lying to you, and you deserve to know the truth no matter how much it may hurt? You just can\u2019t put your finger on what it is that\u2019s being concealed, but you know there is more than what meets the eye. What is it about this person that is untrustworthy, and how can you tell you\u2019re being lied to? Why do things just feel spento<\/em>? \u00c8 voi<\/em>? Sei solo paranoico?<\/strong><\/p>\n

Gli esperti suggeriscono che anche i pi\u00f9 esperti I bugiardi possono essere facilmente individuati<\/a><\/strong> e che possono essere individuati in pochi secondi, se si sa cosa cercare. Ci sono alcuni segnali che gli altri emettono senza nemmeno saperlo. E, nonostante i loro sforzi, i bugiardi non possono sfuggire alla verit\u00e0 per sempre.<\/p>\n

Alla fine le loro storie li raggiungono.<\/strong><\/p>\n

If you know what to ask someone you\u2019re suspicious of and how to talk them into circles, you\u2019ll soon get answers. Ecco alcuni metodi per smascherare le falsit\u00e0.<\/strong> Se giocate bene le vostre carte, sarete voi ad avere in mano il mazzo vincente e a scoprire il bluff del colpevole.<\/p>\n

When engaging in conversation, start by asking a few non-threatening questions such as, \u201cIs work going well?\u201d or \u201cWhat are your plans for the summer?\u201d Small, everyday questions you would ask just about anyone. These are considered baseline conversation starters, easy-to-answer probes that will help establish comfortability.<\/p>\n

Getting another to be comfortable while talking will help you to better understand his or her natural mannerisms that are used when telling the truth or without feeling cornered. These can be later used to decipher when the person is being honest and when they\u2019re not.<\/p>\n

Next, up it a notch and begin to inquire about more personal subjects, such as, \u201cWhat time did you get to so-and-so\u2019s last night?\u201d or \u201cWhat time did you say you left the party?\u201d Inquire about things that could cause the culprit to come clean, but probably won\u2019t. More than likely, they\u2019ll only serve to help you understand what mannerisms denote an anxious alibi.<\/p>\n

This should only be done after you\u2019ve determined how the recipient reacts during the initial phase, though. Perch\u00e9 anche quando si dice la verit\u00e0 o si parla di qualcosa di relativamente poco sostanziale, le persone tendono a usare certi manierismi inconsci.<\/strong> These are unique to the individual, and what could be considered suspicious for one person could be simply second nature to another. So, just because the potential perpetrator is nervous doesn\u2019t mean they\u2019re guilty. And, just because one person is clearly lying when they do \u2018xyz\u2019 doesn\u2019t mean everyone is.<\/p>\n

Quando mascherano la verit\u00e0, molte persone tirano il busto verso l'interno come per rimpicciolirsi. In questo modo la montatura diventa meno importante da raccontare, poich\u00e9 si crede di apparire pi\u00f9 piccoli. \u00c8 frequente anche l'alzare le spalle e l'avere palmi delle mani improvvisamente agitati o tremanti o zoppicare.<\/p>\n

Take note of observable nervousness such as nostril flaring, blushing, redness around the ears, finger or foot tapping, or biting one\u2019s lip. Other common reactions are removing oneself from the tale altogether, making a story mostly about someone else entirely, or using a different tone of voice that subconsciously helps the individual to mutate into a new persona.<\/p>\n

Essere mentiti non \u00e8 mai divertente, soprattutto quando la menzogna \u00e8 fisicamente, mentalmente o emotivamente dannosa o cambia il panorama di una relazione a tempo indeterminato.<\/strong> Una volta rotta la fiducia, \u00e8 difficile, se non impossibile, ripararla. A seconda dell'entit\u00e0 della menzogna, allontanarsi pu\u00f2 essere l'unico modo per garantire la propria sicurezza.<\/p>\n

Tuttavia, L'ignoranza non \u00e8 una beatitudine.<\/strong> Una volta che una falsit\u00e0 passa inosservata, diventa pi\u00f9 facile per un individuo continuare a ripetere questo comportamento subdolo. \u00c8 molto probabile che, per quanto si pensi di essere vicini alla persona, questo comportamento continui a ripetersi. E, man mano che le bugie<\/a> cominciano a sommarsi, iniziano a tagliare un po' pi\u00f9 in profondit\u00e0. The longer you stay in a situation believing something exists when it doesn\u2019t, the harder the truth will be to accept once the false facade is finally forgotten.<\/strong><\/p>\n

It\u2019s always better to know the truth than to participate in a lie, <\/strong>and a seasoned manipulator needs to be outed to stop him or her from hurting others. There is no guarantee you can stop it altogether, but you can stop participating. Know when to say, \u2018Enough is enough!\u2019<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Have you ever thought someone you trusted was lying to you, and you deserve to know the truth no matter how much it may hurt? You just can\u2019t put your finger on what it is that\u2019s being concealed, but you know there is more than what meets the eye. What is it about this person…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":22420,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29619],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-22419","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-stories-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29619,"label":"stories"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/azlan-baharudin-798053-unsplash.jpg",800,527,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29619,"name":"stories","slug":"stories-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29619,"taxonomy":"category","description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","parent":38,"count":424,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29619,"category_count":424,"category_description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","cat_name":"stories","category_nicename":"stories-love","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/22419","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=22419"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/22419\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/22420"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=22419"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=22419"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=22419"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}