{"id":22422,"date":"2020-07-31T06:39:32","date_gmt":"2020-07-31T06:39:32","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=22422"},"modified":"2022-01-24T21:48:20","modified_gmt":"2022-01-24T21:48:20","slug":"quando-tornera-da-te-non-lo-vorrai-piu","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/quando-tornera-da-te-non-lo-vorrai-piu\/","title":{"rendered":"Quando torner\u00e0 da voi, non lo vorrete pi\u00f9"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><strong>Quando l'uomo che amate si allontana da voi e se ne va dalla vostra vita, penserete che sia la cosa peggiore che vi possa capitare.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>You spend your days waiting for him to come back to you and thinking about ways to make this happen. You literally put your life on hold, and you don\u2019t see a way for yourself to move on.<\/p>\n<p>Mentre questo accade, ricordate solo le cose belle. Dimenticate tutto ci\u00f2 che di brutto vi ha fatto passare questo ragazzo.<\/p>\n<p>All'improvviso, dimenticate tutto il dolore e le lacrime. Dimenticate quanto vi ha fatto sentire infelici e miserabili durante tutta la vostra relazione.<\/p>\n<p>All'improvviso, vi sentite come se voi due poteste risolvere tutti i vostri problemi e superare tutte le vostre divergenze se solo le cose tornassero come prima.<\/p>\n<p>Pensi che la tua relazione e questo ragazzo <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/4-tipi-di-ragazzi-a-cui-avreste-dovuto-dare-una-seconda-possibilita\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">meritano una seconda possibilit\u00e0<\/a> e che questa volta voi due riuscirete a far funzionare le cose.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-104338\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/worried-pretty-woman-thinking.jpg\" alt=\"una bella donna preoccupata che pensa\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/worried-pretty-woman-thinking.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/worried-pretty-woman-thinking-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/worried-pretty-woman-thinking-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/worried-pretty-woman-thinking-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/worried-pretty-woman-thinking-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Pensate che la vostra vita sia pi\u00f9 forte di ogni ostacolo e volete solo avere di nuovo quest'uomo nella vostra vita.<\/p>\n<p>Vuoi solo baciarlo ancora una volta. Volete addormentarvi tra le sue braccia e svegliarvi accanto a lui.<\/p>\n<p>But that isn\u2019t happening, despite all of your wishes and efforts.<\/p>\n<p>And I know I you don\u2019t think this way now but trust me, it\u2019s better this way.<\/p>\n<p>I know you won\u2019t believe me, but you only think that having this man back in your life would put you out of your misery.<\/p>\n<p><strong>You only think you want him back but trust me\u2014you don\u2019t. And you would understand all of this the moment he came back to you.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-104339\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/lonely-woman-sitting-outdoor-and-thinking.jpg\" alt=\"donna sola seduta all&#039;aperto a pensare\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/lonely-woman-sitting-outdoor-and-thinking.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/lonely-woman-sitting-outdoor-and-thinking-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/lonely-woman-sitting-outdoor-and-thinking-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/lonely-woman-sitting-outdoor-and-thinking-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/lonely-woman-sitting-outdoor-and-thinking-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>The truth is that you idealize this guy just because you don\u2019t have him anymore.<\/p>\n<p>The truth is that you\u2019ve managed to forget all about his flaws and negative sides and that you\u2019ve focused on his positive qualities just because you miss him.<\/p>\n<p>The truth is that you romanticize him and your relationship and that you don\u2019t look it realistically.<\/p>\n<p>But the two of you took separate ways for a strong reason. And that reason won\u2019t go away overnight.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Because you are still the person you\u2019ve always been and <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/ho-sempre-saputo-che-un-uomo-come-te-non-si-sarebbe-mai-impegnato\/\">\u00e8 ancora lo stesso uomo<\/a>. And any time apart won\u2019t change that.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Se lui <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/tornera-mai-5-cose-che-potete-fare-perche-cio-accada\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">torna a voi<\/a>Tutte le vostre differenze e i vostri problemi riappariranno in superficie prima che ve ne accorgiate.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-104340\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/couple-arguing-at-home.jpg\" alt=\"coppia che litiga in casa\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/couple-arguing-at-home.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/couple-arguing-at-home-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/couple-arguing-at-home-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/couple-arguing-at-home-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/couple-arguing-at-home-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>If he comes back to you, you\u2019ll see that you never wanted this to happen and that him leaving you was the best thing that could occur.<\/p>\n<p>You\u2019ll see that he is not the man for you and that you probably just miss the feeling of belonging to someone and the feeling of partnership.<\/p>\n<p>You\u2019ll see that your ego was more hurt than your heart; that you just couldn\u2019t stand this man you think you love not wanting to be with you anymore.<\/p>\n<p><strong>You\u2019ll realize that you\u2019ve spent all this time trying to get him back simply because you wanted to prove to yourself that he is still yours.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Perch\u00e9 volevi dimostrare a entrambi che puoi averlo quando e come vuoi.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>If he comes back to you, you\u2019ll see that you should have never given him a second chance; that he hasn\u2019t changed his ways and that he\u2019ll always be the man who caused you emotional pain.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-104341\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/sad-woman-hugging-pillow-1.jpg\" alt=\"donna triste che abbraccia un cuscino\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/sad-woman-hugging-pillow-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/sad-woman-hugging-pillow-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/sad-woman-hugging-pillow-1-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/sad-woman-hugging-pillow-1-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/sad-woman-hugging-pillow-1-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Se torna da te, pensi solo che lo perdonerai per tutto quello che ha fatto.<\/p>\n<p>But trust me\u2014-you\u2019ll always hold grudges. You\u2019ll always resent him for leaving you, without taking your feelings into consideration.<\/p>\n<p>You\u2019ll always question his reasons for walking away, and you\u2019ll always doubt his love for you, even if he makes an effort to prove it to you.<\/p>\n<p>You\u2019ll want to know every single detail of his bachelor life. Has he been seeing some other girls?<\/p>\n<p>Che cosa faceva? Come trascorreva le sue giornate, mentre voi aspettavate il suo ritorno?<\/p>\n<p>Se <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/he-will-come-back-when-you-forget-all-about-him\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">torna da te<\/a>, you\u2019ll see that the two of you have no future and that things should have stayed the way they were.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-104336\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/When-He-Comes-Back-To-You-You-Wont-Want-Him-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"Quando torner\u00e0 da voi, non lo vorrete pi\u00f9\" width=\"735\" height=\"1102\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/When-He-Comes-Back-To-You-You-Wont-Want-Him-pinterest.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/When-He-Comes-Back-To-You-You-Wont-Want-Him-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/When-He-Comes-Back-To-You-You-Wont-Want-Him-pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/When-He-Comes-Back-To-You-You-Wont-Want-Him-pinterest-150x225.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 735px) 100vw, 735px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>When the man you love leaves your side and walks out of your life, you will think of this as the worst thing that could ever happen to you. You spend your days waiting for him to come back to you and thinking about ways to make this happen. You literally put your life on&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":104343,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29619],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-22422","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-stories-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29619,"label":"stories"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/When-He-Comes-Back-To-You-You-Wont-Want-Him.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29619,"name":"stories","slug":"stories-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29619,"taxonomy":"category","description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","parent":38,"count":424,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29619,"category_count":424,"category_description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","cat_name":"stories","category_nicename":"stories-love","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/22422","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=22422"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/22422\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/104343"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=22422"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=22422"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=22422"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}