{"id":22425,"date":"2020-04-25T06:55:34","date_gmt":"2020-04-25T06:55:34","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=22425"},"modified":"2022-05-11T20:07:23","modified_gmt":"2022-05-11T20:07:23","slug":"smettere-di-avere-problemi-di-relazione-con-qualcuno-con-cui-non-si-ha-una-relazione","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/smettere-di-avere-problemi-di-relazione-con-qualcuno-con-cui-non-si-ha-una-relazione\/","title":{"rendered":"Smettere di avere problemi di relazione con qualcuno con cui non si ha una relazione"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Avere una relazione problematica \u00e8 terribile.<\/p>\n<p>Being with someone who hurts you every day and not getting along with your partner are two of the things which can stress you out to the point where you simply don\u2019t know where you\u2019re headed with your life anymore.<\/p>\n<p>Inoltre, vi fa sentire infelici e non vedete alcuna via d'uscita da questa situazione.<\/p>\n<p><strong>But let\u2019s face it\u2014no relationship is perfect and we have all had problems with our romantic partner at some point in our life.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Although these problems shouldn\u2019t become standard, the fact is that they are a part of life, even though they don\u2019t make you feel the best.<\/p>\n<p><strong>But you know what shouldn\u2019t be natural and normal? You know what is way worse than having relationship problems with your partner?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>It\u2019s having relationship problems with someone you\u2019re not in a relationship with.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-89398\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/thoughtful-couple-sitting-next-to-each-other-at-home.jpg\" alt=\"coppia pensierosa seduta vicino a casa\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/thoughtful-couple-sitting-next-to-each-other-at-home.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/thoughtful-couple-sitting-next-to-each-other-at-home-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/thoughtful-couple-sitting-next-to-each-other-at-home-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><strong>Quando ci si trova in questo tipo di situazione, probabilmente si percepiscono tutti i lati negativi di una relazione.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>You feel like you are taken, like you can\u2019t <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/22-simple-but-effective-ways-to-flirt\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">flirt<\/a> with other men and like you can\u2019t meet anyone new. You get the part where the guy you are seeing is jealous.<\/p>\n<p>Ci sono i litigi, le discussioni e le angherie. Ci sono i pianti e le parti fastidiose.<\/p>\n<p>Arriva la parte in cui si confronta con tutte le altre ragazze vicine all'uomo con cui ha una relazione.<\/p>\n<p>Si capisce che ci si aspetta da voi che siate l\u00ec per lui ogni volta che ha bisogno della vostra presenza.<\/p>\n<p>You get the part where you know you love this guy, even though he obviously doesn\u2019t love you back because he refuses to label things and because he refuses to commit to you.<\/p>\n<p><strong>E per la maggior parte del tempo, ti senti davvero come se fosse il tuo ragazzo.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Dopo tutto, quando si sta insieme, il t<\/strong><strong>di voi <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/ci-comportiamo-come-una-coppia-ma-non-siamo-ufficiali\/\">comportarsi come una vera coppia<\/a> e avete tutti i problemi di una relazione.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-89399\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/man-look-thoughtful-next-woman.jpg\" alt=\"uomo guarda pensieroso la prossima donna\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/man-look-thoughtful-next-woman.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/man-look-thoughtful-next-woman-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/man-look-thoughtful-next-woman-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><strong>But the difference between this type of a relationship and a real romantic relationship is that you don\u2019t have the good parts.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>You don\u2019t have someone to be your partner in any sense of that word. You don\u2019t have someone whose hand you can proudly hold in front of everyone.<\/p>\n<p>You don\u2019t have someone to <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/cosa-dice-il-suo-stile-di-coccole-sui-sentimenti-che-prova-per-voi\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">coccolarsi con te<\/a> finch\u00e9 non vi addormentate. Qualcuno che vi dia il bacio del buongiorno o che vi mandi il messaggio della buonanotte.<\/p>\n<p>You don\u2019t have someone to go with you to weddings and other important occasions.<\/p>\n<p>You don\u2019t have someone to surprise you on your birthday at midnight. You don\u2019t have someone to celebrate New Year or Valentine\u2019s Day with.<\/p>\n<p>You don\u2019t have someone to wait for you on your doorstep when you get home from work exhausted and tired.<\/p>\n<p>You don\u2019t have someone to take care of when you are sick or just to be there for you when you need someone to talk to.<\/p>\n<p>You don\u2019t have someone who is only yours. You don\u2019t have the faithful and loyal man you need.<\/p>\n<p>You don\u2019t have someone you can introduce to your friends and family. You can\u2019t say that you are in a relationship.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-89401\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/Portrait-of-young-woman-and-man-outdoor-on-street-having-relationship-problems.jpg\" alt=\"Ritratto di giovane donna e uomo all&#039;aperto in strada con problemi di relazione\" width=\"800\" height=\"531\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/Portrait-of-young-woman-and-man-outdoor-on-street-having-relationship-problems.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/Portrait-of-young-woman-and-man-outdoor-on-street-having-relationship-problems-300x199.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/Portrait-of-young-woman-and-man-outdoor-on-street-having-relationship-problems-768x510.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><strong>You don\u2019t have your other half or your plus one. <\/strong>No, you don\u2019t have either of these things when you are single either.<\/p>\n<p>But when this is the case, you know that you are on your own in a romantic sense and you don\u2019t have the stress which this almost relationship brings with it.<\/p>\n<p>Sapete anche che siete disponibili per altri uomini e che potete mettervi sul mercato degli appuntamenti ogni volta che ne avete voglia.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Quindi, se pensate che il vostro <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/7-segnali-che-indicano-che-si-e-in-una-quasi-relazione\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">quasi relazione<\/a> \u00e8 degno di tutti i problemi che state vivendo, leggete tutto questo e pensate a tutte le cose negative che vi sta portando e pensate a tutte le cose positive di cui siete privati.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>And I\u2019m sure you\u2019ll change your mind.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019m sure you\u2019ll see that you are wasting your time on someone who doesn\u2019t want to commit to you and that he\u2019ll probably never change his views.<\/p>\n<p>You\u2019ll see that you are actually trapped in a relationship without labels, when that is the last thing you want.<\/p>\n<p>You\u2019ll see that you deserve someone who will proudly call you his girlfriend. That you deserve someone who will be yours and who will love you for real.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-89396 size-large\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/Stop-Having-Relationship-Problems-With-Someone-Youre-Not-In-A-Relationship-With-Pinterest-724x1024.jpg\" alt=\"Smettere di avere problemi di relazione con una persona con cui non si ha una relazione\" width=\"724\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/Stop-Having-Relationship-Problems-With-Someone-Youre-Not-In-A-Relationship-With-Pinterest-724x1024.jpg 724w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/Stop-Having-Relationship-Problems-With-Someone-Youre-Not-In-A-Relationship-With-Pinterest-212x300.jpg 212w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/Stop-Having-Relationship-Problems-With-Someone-Youre-Not-In-A-Relationship-With-Pinterest-768x1086.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/Stop-Having-Relationship-Problems-With-Someone-Youre-Not-In-A-Relationship-With-Pinterest-1086x1536.jpg 1086w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/Stop-Having-Relationship-Problems-With-Someone-Youre-Not-In-A-Relationship-With-Pinterest-1448x2048.jpg 1448w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/Stop-Having-Relationship-Problems-With-Someone-Youre-Not-In-A-Relationship-With-Pinterest.jpg 1587w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 724px) 100vw, 724px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Having a problematic relationship is awful. Being with someone who hurts you every day and not getting along with your partner are two of the things which can stress you out to the point where you simply don\u2019t know where you\u2019re headed with your life anymore. Besides, it makes you feel miserable and you see&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":25,"featured_media":89397,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29622],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-22425","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-relationship-advice"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29622,"label":"relationship advice"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/Stop-Having-Relationship-Problems-With-Someone-Youre-Not-In-A-Relationship-With.jpg",800,538,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Amy Nicholson","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/amy\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29622,"name":"relationship advice","slug":"relationship-advice","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29622,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Making all aspects of your relationship work is one of the biggest challenges. 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