{"id":22684,"date":"2018-09-03T13:03:02","date_gmt":"2018-09-03T13:03:02","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=22684"},"modified":"2022-05-04T11:04:59","modified_gmt":"2022-05-04T11:04:59","slug":"e-cosi-che-perderete-una-ragazza-con-una-mente-ansiosa","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/e-cosi-che-perderete-una-ragazza-con-una-mente-ansiosa\/","title":{"rendered":"Ecco come perdere una ragazza con una mente ansiosa"},"content":{"rendered":"

Quando la guardate, cosa vedete? Vedete i suoi occhi spalancati, che sembrano cercare qualcosa, ma che ancora vi stupiscono per la loro bellezza.<\/span><\/p>\n

Vedete il suo sorriso scomparire troppo velocemente dal suo viso perch\u00e9 ha pensato a qualcosa che l'ha spaventata e l'ha fatta sentire a disagio. La sentite balbettare di tanto in tanto, il suo respiro diventa pi\u00f9 forte e la guardate mentre diventa di nuovo pallida.<\/span><\/p>\n

S\u00ec, \u00e8 la ragazza ansiosa di cui vi siete innamorati. Per quanto possiate essere sicuri della vostra relazione e del suo amore per voi, non datela mai per scontata, perch\u00e9 una mossa sbagliata e la perderete.<\/span><\/p>\n

E non la riavrete mai pi\u00f9.<\/span><\/p>\n

Si <\/span>perdere una ragazza ansiosa<\/span><\/a> the moment she starts feeling like a burden to you. She can read your body language better than anyone! She sees the way you’re looking at her when she is too quiet, she hears you sigh when she doesn’t know what to say.<\/span><\/p>\n

You will lose an anxious girl when you start calling her out. She can’t control her red cheeks and the way she keeps on asking you millions of questions simply to make sure that you still love her. Don’t get annoyed by the way she cries over something that went through her mind, she isn’t in control of that.<\/b><\/p>\n

There is no way of telling how she will react when you try to force her to talk to people she doesn’t like or even make her get to know your friends. She isn’t trying to make you mad, she isn’t trying to get on your nerves, she simply doesn’t know another way to respond.<\/span><\/p>\n

She is shy, introverted, and her mind doesn’t allow her to feel comfortable with people around her, so if you try to change any of those things about her by force, she will freak out.<\/span><\/p>\n

You will lose her the moment she doesn’t feel safe with you anymore. Yes, ha bisogno di essere costantemente rassicurata<\/a>, yes, she’ll ask the weirdest questions ever, she might even cry for no particular reason. But the way you <\/span>reagire alla sua ansia<\/span><\/a> \u00e8 ci\u00f2 che la fa sentire al sicuro.<\/span><\/p>\n

Because if you tell her that she is ‘overreacting’ or ‘overthinking’ she will only feel bad about herself once more and you will end up with no goodnight kiss, looking at her face that\u2019s flooded with tears.<\/span><\/p>\n

Se la amate, non fateglielo mai dimenticare, non fatele mai credere il contrario perch\u00e9 questa \u00e8 la cosa pi\u00f9 importante se non volete perderla. Assicuratevi che sappia quanto \u00e8 importante per voi, o la prossima bella donna che vi saluter\u00e0 sar\u00e0 la sua morte.<\/span><\/p>\n

You will lose her by assuming that you two are the same, because you are not. Her brain is much more complex and the cold sweat that’s rushing out of her is unique to her. You will never understand a brain like hers, because it’s too crowded\u2014even for you.<\/span><\/p>\n

Con tutti i suoi demoni nella mente, con tutti quei motivi per non sentirsi a proprio agio la sera, pensate davvero che abbia l'energia per andare a quella festa domani sera? Pensate davvero che si divertir\u00e0 sentendo tutti quegli occhi che la guardano?<\/span><\/p>\n

You will lose her when you try to relate to her, because you can’t. You do not understand the pain she is going through when her anxiety acts up even in front of her best friend, her sister, you. Her anxiety doesn\u2019t allow her to speak to the people closest to her.<\/b><\/p>\n

La perderete lentamente, perch\u00e9 vi dar\u00e0 sempre un'altra possibilit\u00e0. Cercher\u00e0 sempre di sistemare le cose e di andare a quelle feste con te. <\/span>Penser\u00e0 troppo<\/span><\/a> la vostra relazione fino al punto in cui lei sceglier\u00e0 sempre voi.<\/span><\/p>\n

Fino a un giorno, fino al momento in cui sente che non la capirete mai e non la accetterete mai completamente per quello che \u00e8. L'unica cosa che vi chiede veramente \u00e8 di accettare la sua ansia come parte di lei e di amarla nonostante essa.<\/span><\/p>\n

Vuole che sappiate che \u00e8 <\/span>una donna forte<\/span><\/a>, a fighter, fighting her own battles every single day and the moment you see her as weak… you will lose her.<\/span><\/p>\n

La perderete nel momento in cui inizierete a vederla come una vittima, perch\u00e9 lei \u00e8 molto di pi\u00f9. La perderete proprio per il modo in cui non volete nemmeno capire.<\/b><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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