{"id":22722,"date":"2018-09-04T10:58:12","date_gmt":"2018-09-04T10:58:12","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=22722"},"modified":"2021-08-11T13:20:06","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T13:20:06","slug":"ha-smesso-di-impegnarsi-in-una-relazione-che-e-destinata-a-fallire","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/ha-smesso-di-impegnarsi-in-una-relazione-che-e-destinata-a-fallire\/","title":{"rendered":"Ha smesso di impegnarsi in una relazione che \u00e8 destinata a fallire"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><b>Vi \u00e8 mai capitato di vivere una relazione che sapevate non avrebbe mai avuto successo? Siete mai stati in una relazione che non era altro che un disastro in attesa di accadere fin dal primo giorno? <\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Avete mai amato un uomo che sapevate essere sbagliato per voi e che vi avrebbe portato solo problemi? Vi siete mai impegnati in qualcosa che sapevate non avrebbe mai dato frutti?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>Ebbene, questa ragazza lo ha fatto. Ed \u00e8 stata una delle esperienze pi\u00f9 dolorose della sua vita.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">But please don\u2019t judge her for doing this. <\/span><b>Don\u2019t judge her for giving her entire self to the person she shouldn\u2019t have let into her life in the first place. Because she has learned her lesson and because now, she knows better than to repeat her mistake.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">E perch\u00e9 potreste facilmente diventare lei.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Don\u2019t think that this girl was foolish or stupid enough to get herself involved in this relationship, even though she knew it would fail. Don\u2019t think that she lied to herself, believing that things would eventually work out.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">No, \u00e8 sempre stata molto intelligente e ha sempre saputo di non avere un futuro con quest'uomo al suo fianco. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Deep down, despite all the love she felt for him, she was very well aware that he wasn\u2019t right for her. That she was settling for less just by being with this guy.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Sapeva che lui non avrebbe mai potuto darle tutto ci\u00f2 che lei voleva. Sapeva che <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/segni-che-non-e-pronto-a-impegnarsi-solo-non-vuole-vedere\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">non potrebbe mai impegnarsi<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400\"> a lei e non avrebbe mai potuto darle l'amore che meritava.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Ma ha continuato ad andare avanti lo stesso. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Ha continuato a dargli infinite seconde possibilit\u00e0 perch\u00e9 pensava che il suo amore gli avrebbe fatto capire che avrebbe dovuto cambiare strada. Perch\u00e9 pensava che l'amore che provava per lui fosse pi\u00f9 forte di tutto.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>And after years of putting effort into something that was doomed to fail, she\u2019s had enough. After years of giving her entire self to something that will obviously never succeed, she is finally done.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Ha smesso di essere l'unica a provarci. Di essere l'unica a preoccuparsi.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">She\u2019s done being <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/love\/problema-im-sempre-uno-ama\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">colui che ama di pi\u00f9<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">. Quella che d\u00e0 tutta se stessa per il bene di questa relazione. Quella che fa tutti i sacrifici e tutti i compromessi.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>She\u2019s done putting an effort into this relationship and into this guy, when he has never done the same.<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400\"> Quando era solo uno stronzo egoista che non pensava mai ai suoi bisogni o desideri.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">She\u2019s done putting herself down so this man wouldn\u2019t be intimidated by everything she can accomplish. Done holding herself back for someone who never saw her true value.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">She\u2019s done pushing this man forward when he never for a second believed in her and when he did nothing but make her feel bad about herself. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">She\u2019s done being this man\u2019s shoulder to cry on. Done being the person he can always rely on and done being his biggest support.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">She\u2019s done being his safe haven, when she could never count on him being there for her when she needed him. She\u2019s done <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/life\/una-lettera-aperta-alla-ragazza-che-ama-incondizionatamente\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">amarlo incondizionatamente<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">, senza fare domande, quando non l'ha mai amata abbastanza.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Ha smesso di scegliere quest'uomo al posto di se stessa. Ha smesso di amarlo pi\u00f9 di quanto amasse se stessa e di mettere i suoi bisogni davanti ai propri.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>Ha smesso di sentirsi debole e impotente a causa di lui.<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400\"> Done thinking that she wouldn\u2019t make it without him by her side. She is done feeling guilty for abandoning him. Done blaming herself for everything wrong that went on between the two of them.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>Ha smesso di pensare che quest'uomo sia la sua met\u00e0 e di pensare che non sia un individuo completo da solo.<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400\"> Ha smesso di credergli che \u00e8 una buona a nulla e che dovrebbe essergli grata per il solo fatto di stare con lei. \u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Ha smesso di permettere a questa relazione e al dolore che prova di definirla. Ha smesso di pensare di aver bisogno di un uomo per essere una vera donna.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>\u00c8 stanca di accontentarsi e pi\u00f9 che pronta a riprendere in mano la sua vita.<\/b>   <!--codes_iframe-->  <!--\/codes_iframe--><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Have you ever been in a relationship which you knew would never succeed? Have you ever been in a relationship which was nothing more than a disaster waiting to happen from day one? Have you ever loved a man who you knew was wrong for you and who would only bring you trouble? Have you&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":22723,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29619],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-22722","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-stories-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29619,"label":"stories"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/alexandre-croussette-801817-unsplash-1.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29619,"name":"stories","slug":"stories-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29619,"taxonomy":"category","description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","parent":38,"count":424,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29619,"category_count":424,"category_description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","cat_name":"stories","category_nicename":"stories-love","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/22722","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=22722"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/22722\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/22723"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=22722"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=22722"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=22722"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}