{"id":22769,"date":"2018-09-05T11:45:42","date_gmt":"2018-09-05T11:45:42","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=22769"},"modified":"2021-08-11T13:16:44","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T13:16:44","slug":"mentre-tutti-gli-altri-si-sposavano-ho-imparato-queste-7-cose","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/mentre-tutti-gli-altri-si-sposavano-ho-imparato-queste-7-cose\/","title":{"rendered":"Mentre tutti gli altri si sposavano ho imparato queste 7 cose"},"content":{"rendered":"

Le donne che restano single per periodi pi\u00f9 lunghi finiscono per essere pi\u00f9 felici di se stesse, della loro vita e delle loro relazioni e, di conseguenza, del loro matrimonio.<\/p>\n

Hanno il tempo di vedere le cose con maggiore chiarezza; le cose che le persone intorno a loro fanno e che loro farebbero diversamente nella stessa situazione.<\/p>\n

They learn from other people’s mistakes as well as from their own, and they lead more productive lives. They have had the chance to really get to know themselves and take some valuable lessons along with them.<\/p>\n

Parlo per esperienza. Una volta ero uno di quelli \u201cforever single women\u201d<\/a>. We really do thrive in life and love. And it\u2019s mostly because of things that we have learned while everyone else was getting married:<\/p>\n

1. Don\u2019t ever settle<\/strong><\/span><\/h1>\n

The single life has its perks, but it can also get really lonely. It\u2019s easy to fall into the trap of settling for just anybody because of it. Our desire for closeness and connection can be really strong.<\/p>\n

But we should wait and look at things more rationally. It\u2019s better to be alone than in bad company. It\u2019s better to live in peace than taking a ride on an emotional rollercoaster.<\/p>\n

We shouldn\u2019t settle for mediocre relationships and half-assed commitment just because we are tired of being alone. We will only make everything worse and essentially hurt more in the long run.<\/p>\n

2. Gli appuntamenti moderni sono i peggiori, ma insegnano anche molto.<\/strong><\/span><\/h1>\n

Meeting a good, decent guy these days is like hitting the jackpot. Those guys have become so rare that it\u2019s almost like they are an endangered species.<\/p>\n

Nella mia colorata vita di appuntamenti, ho incontrato tanti ragazzi che non valevano il mio tempo. Mi hanno fatto perdere tempo, mi hanno fatto perdere tempo e, a volte, mi hanno fatto venire voglia di abbandonare del tutto gli appuntamenti.<\/p>\n

However, they also taught me valuable lessons. They taught me what I don\u2019t want and what I shouldn\u2019t tolerate. They taught me I should wait for something better than them.<\/p>\n

Vedi anche:\u00a0<\/strong>I Hate Waiting\u2026That’s Why I Suck At Modern Dating<\/a><\/p>\n

3. Inseguire i propri sogni \u00e8 pi\u00f9 importante che sposarsi<\/strong><\/span><\/h1>\n

Se vi sposate e non siete felici di ci\u00f2 che siete, siete destinati a essere infelici. Ho visto questo scenario pi\u00f9 volte di quante ne possa contare.<\/p>\n

Credo che alcune donne pensino che una relazione stabile o un matrimonio le render\u00e0 complete. Cos\u00ec si dimenticano di se stesse. Lasciano da parte i loro sogni e le loro ambizioni.<\/p>\n

Fulfilling your dreams and being in a happy relationship shouldn\u2019t exclude one another. There is room for both, and you should never, under no circumstances, give up your dreams.<\/p>\n

4. Dare valore alle amicizie<\/span><\/h1>\n

Le relazioni vanno e vengono, i matrimoni a volte crollano, ma i veri amici restano per sempre. Avere dei buoni amici nella propria vita non ha prezzo.<\/p>\n

They will be by your side through thick or thin. You are each other’s rocks and support systems, and you can\u2019t find that in just anybody. Great friends better each other’s lives.<\/p>\n

Even if your friends get married before you do, you won\u2019t lose them. They remain a huge part of your life, with a few minor adjustments and accommodations. Anyone who says otherwise is a liar.<\/p>\n

5. Bisogna conoscere se stessi prima di prendere in considerazione l'idea di sposarsi<\/strong><\/span><\/h1>\n

Learning to put a smile on your own face should be one of your first life goals. You can\u2019t rely on anybody else to bring you happiness\u2014nor is that their job. That\u2019s all in your hands.<\/p>\n

Le persone la cui unica fonte di gioia nella vita \u00e8 il proprio partner diventano codipendente<\/a>. Si affidano al partner per ogni cosa e la relazione diventa malsana. Prima o poi questo tipo di relazioni finisce.<\/p>\n

So, build your life independently of your partner. Let him be the one who adds to your bliss, not the one who creates it. That\u2019s the only way you will have a happy and healthy relationship and marriage.<\/p>\n

6. Listen to that \u201clittle voice\u201d inside of you<\/strong><\/span><\/h1>\n

I think most of us are guilty of silencing that little voice inside of us when it\u2019s telling us something we don\u2019t want to hear. We go against our better judgment, and we usually end up in tears.<\/p>\n

We all need to pay better attention to that little voice inside of us and trust our guts\u2014they usually never fail.<\/p>\n

7. Getting married won\u2019t solve your problems<\/strong><\/span><\/h1>\n

Iniziate da voi stessi. Costruite la vostra fiducia in voi stessi. Trovate qualcosa che vi appassiona e iniziate a costruire una vita di cui siete orgogliosi.<\/p>\n

Getting married or entering a relationship won’t change the fact that you are unsatisfied with your life or with yourself. It will only make things worse.<\/p>\n

If your outlook on marriage is that it is meant to solve your problems, you will find out soon enough that isn\u2019t true. You will only become more bitter and unsatisfied because you won\u2019t see your way out.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Women who are single for longer periods of time end up being happier with themselves, their lives and their relationships, and by default, in their marriages. They have the time to see things with more clarity; things which people around them do that they would do differently given the same situation. They learn from other…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":20,"featured_media":22779,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29637],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-22769","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-life-hacks"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29637,"label":"life hacks"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/dark-dawn-dusk-247305.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Christine Keller","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/christine\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29637,"name":"life hacks","slug":"life-hacks","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29637,"taxonomy":"category","description":"When life gives you lemons - make lemonade, and allow these life hacks to remind you of your strength, potential, and the right to be happy.","parent":22911,"count":281,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29637,"category_count":281,"category_description":"When life gives you lemons - make lemonade, and allow these life hacks to remind you of your strength, potential, and the right to be happy.","cat_name":"life hacks","category_nicename":"life-hacks","category_parent":22911}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/22769","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/20"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=22769"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/22769\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/22779"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=22769"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=22769"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=22769"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}