{"id":22875,"date":"2020-09-06T12:00:06","date_gmt":"2020-09-06T12:00:06","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=22875"},"modified":"2022-01-24T18:47:50","modified_gmt":"2022-01-24T18:47:50","slug":"7-tratti-narcisistici-che-potreste-non-riconoscere-subito","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/7-tratti-narcisistici-che-potreste-non-riconoscere-subito\/","title":{"rendered":"7 tratti narcisistici che potreste non riconoscere immediatamente"},"content":{"rendered":"

Nessuno di noi ha mai pensato che ci saremmo ritrovati con un partner narcisista<\/a>. Because when you dream about your dream guy, you surely don\u2019t picture him as a narcissist.<\/p>\n

But in some cases, it turns out that our dream man is actually a narcissist in disguise. Maybe at first you won\u2019t be aware of some traits that he has, but if you just pay a bit more attention to him, you will see that he is not as great as he pretends to be.<\/p>\n

Here are some of the most common narcissistic traits that many women don\u2019t recognize at first but that turn out to be a problem in the relationship later.<\/p>\n

1. Mente<\/span><\/h2>\n

Let\u2019s be honest\u2014it is okay to lie sometimes. Nobody died because of a couple of white lies.<\/p>\n

Ma il problema arriva quando il vostro partner vi mente in continuazione. \u00c8 un problema quando non si \u00e8 sicuri che ci\u00f2 che dice sia la verit\u00e0 o meno.<\/p>\n

And it is obvious that you can\u2019t live with a man like that. You can\u2019t live in fear that he does some bad things to you, and when he is with you, he pretends that he is an angel.<\/p>\n

Questo \u00e8 uno dei tratti narcisistici pi\u00f9 comuni, ma spesso lo si scopre troppo tardi. Quindi, se vedete che il vostro uomo non \u00e8 del tutto sincero con voi, consideratelo come una bandiera rossa<\/a> che qualcosa non va.<\/p>\n

And whatever you do, don\u2019t let him make a fool out of you.<\/p>\n

2. Manipola<\/span><\/h2>\n

When you are in love, you consider your loved one to be an angel who would never hurt you. But behind the mask of an angel, there can often be hidden the face of a devil\u2014devil who knows how to get what he wants using your feelings and your love toward them. <\/p>\n

I narcisisti usano questo abuso narcisistico<\/a> tecnica in modo molto astuto. Quando vogliono manipolarvi, lo fanno in modo che non ve ne accorgiate.<\/p>\n

They will tell you that they love you and that they need you to do something for them. In that way, they will get all they want, and they won\u2019t feel any remorse for hurting you.<\/p>\n

Quindi, se notate qualche segni di manipolazione<\/a>tagliarlo in tempo, perch\u00e9 potrebbe essere troppo tardi quando ci si innamora.<\/p>\n

3. Manca di empatia<\/span><\/h2>\n

When you first start a relationship with someone, you can\u2019t see their real face. Only when you spend some time with them, you will be able to get to know them better.<\/p>\n

Se vedete che il vostro uomo manca di empatia all'inizio della vostra relazione, forse dovreste pensare che \u00e8 stato ferito troppe volte e che sta cercando di proteggersi.<\/p>\n

But if that continues later on and if he doesn\u2019t even show any empathy for you and your problems, then you have a problem.<\/p>\n

\u00c8 evidente che il tuo uomo ha fatto finta di avere dei problemi per farti sentire in colpa. Questo \u00e8 un tattica comune a tutti i narcisisti<\/a> per convincere le loro vittime che hanno avuto una vita difficile e che devono nascondere i loro sentimenti per evitare di essere feriti di nuovo.<\/p>\n

4. Non ha mai avuto una vera relazione<\/span><\/h2>\n

Se il vostro uomo dice di non aver mai avuto una vera relazione perch\u00e9 nessuno riusciva a capirlo, dovreste sapere che c'\u00e8 qualcosa che non va.<\/p>\n

I mean it can happen that one person doesn\u2019t understand you, but if more of them think the same about you, then the problem is in you and not in them.<\/p>\n

Significa che il vostro uomo can\u2019t make a firm relationship with anyone because of his narcissistic traits<\/a> che lo fanno sempre apparire come una vittima, quella speciale che ha pi\u00f9 bisogno di aiuto.<\/p>\n

A man like that will never understand your problems nor will he go the extra mile to make you happy. A man like that loves himself most, and he can\u2019t control it.<\/p>\n

5. Pensa di essere superiore<\/span><\/strong><\/h1>\n

Maybe you won\u2019t see it right from the start, but a narcissist will always try to show off with things he didn\u2019t do.<\/p>\n

He will think that he is superior and that you are actually lucky that he chose you to be his partner. He doesn\u2019t understand that we all are the same and that we have the same rights.<\/p>\n

Nella sua testa, lui \u00e8 quello speciale e, in quanto tale, merita un trattamento speciale ovunque venga. E quando si entra in una relazione con un uomo di questo tipo, ci si perde completamente nel tentativo di renderlo soddisfatto.<\/p>\n

\u00c8 molto esigente e chieder\u00e0 sempre che i suoi bisogni vengano soddisfatti, mentre voi sarete solo qualcuno che \u00e8 sempre presente per fare tutto ci\u00f2 che vuole.<\/p>\n

E questo non \u00e8 il trattamento che vi meritate, soprattutto da parte di chi amate di pi\u00f9.<\/p>\n

6. \u00c8 passivo-aggressivo<\/span><\/h2>\n

Tutti noi, a volte, siamo passivo-aggressivo<\/a> a causa delle diverse cose che ci accadono. Ci saranno momenti in cui vi sembrer\u00e0 che il vostro mondo stia crollando e reagirete cos\u00ec.<\/p>\n

But if you see your man behaving like this all the time, you should know something is not right. This is not normal behavior, and you shouldn\u2019t put up with his shit just because you love him.<\/p>\n

In fact, if he says that he loves you that much, he should never do that to you. This is something you shouldn\u2019t forgive, and if this starts happening, it will be even worse as time passes.<\/p>\n

You need to know that people like this never change, and even if you ask him to do that for the both of you, he won\u2019t because he simply doesn\u2019t give a damn about anyone.<\/p>\n

7. \u00c8 arrogante e offensivo<\/span><\/h2>\n

It happens to all of us that we get arrogant sometimes, especially if we are not in a good mood. But if your guy acts like this every day and if he doesn\u2019t try to change his behavior, then you have a serious problem.<\/p>\n

Provate a immaginare cosa si prova a stare con qualcuno che \u00e8 sempre arrabbiato con il mondo e che diventa violento se le cose non sono perfette come vuole.<\/p>\n

E la cosa peggiore \u00e8 che \u00e8 solo questione di tempo prima che inizi a essere violento con te.<\/p>\n

And that is not something you need in your life. You need a loving and caring man\u2014not someone who will use you as a punching bag to help him heal his frustrations.<\/p>\n

Credetemi, se notate segni come questi, dovreste correre il pi\u00f9 lontano possibile perch\u00e9 questo tipo di uomo non vi dar\u00e0 mai l'amore di cui avete bisogno.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

None of us ever thought that we would end up with a narcissistic partner. Because when you dream about your dream guy, you surely don\u2019t picture him as a narcissist. But in some cases, it turns out that our dream man is actually a narcissist in disguise. Maybe at first you won\u2019t be aware of…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":21,"featured_media":22883,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29633],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-22875","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-narcissism"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29633,"label":"narcissism"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/joelvalve-975142-unsplash-2.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Maria Parker","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/maria\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29633,"name":"narcissism","slug":"narcissism","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29633,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Mind games and manipulations are narcissist's favorite controlling tactics. Learn how their mind operates so that you can protect yourself. ","parent":22911,"count":233,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29633,"category_count":233,"category_description":"Mind games and manipulations are narcissist's favorite controlling tactics. Learn how their mind operates so that you can protect yourself. ","cat_name":"narcissism","category_nicename":"narcissism","category_parent":22911}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/22875","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/21"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=22875"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/22875\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/22883"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=22875"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=22875"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=22875"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}