{"id":22894,"date":"2019-09-06T12:31:45","date_gmt":"2019-09-06T12:31:45","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=22894"},"modified":"2022-02-25T03:09:45","modified_gmt":"2022-02-25T03:09:45","slug":"preferisco-rimanere-single-piuttosto-che-sprecare-la-mia-vita-con-un-idiota-immaturo","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/preferisco-rimanere-single-piuttosto-che-sprecare-la-mia-vita-con-un-idiota-immaturo\/","title":{"rendered":"Preferisco rimanere single che sprecare la mia vita con un idiota immaturo"},"content":{"rendered":"

Le persone spesso confondono essere soli<\/a> con l'essere effettivamente soli. Pensano che se si ha una relazione significa che si \u00e8 felici, ma nessuno ha mai detto che solo perch\u00e9 si ha qualcuno significa che si \u00e8 sempre felici con quella persona.<\/p>\r\n

Ho imparato questa lezione sulla mia pelle, quindi so di cosa sto parlando. Sono sempre stata una donna forte, che gestisce le cose a modo suo. Poi ho incontrato l'uomo di cui mi sono innamorata perdutamente. \u00c8 stato il mio primo amore, la mia ragione di vita e il mio migliore amico.<\/p>\r\n

Ma siccome frequentarsi non \u00e8 una cosa semplice e richiede molto impegno, ci siamo lasciati. Siamo andati in pezzi cos\u00ec piccoli che sembrava che non fossimo mai stati insieme.<\/p>\r\n

E mentre ero tutto un casino, pensando che ora sono solo e incasinato, qualcosa mi \u00e8 passato per la testa.<\/p>\r\n

I figured out that just because I was single didn\u2019t mean that I needed to be sad. That moment was my epiphany, and I realized that breaking up with you was the best thing that could have happened to me.<\/p>\r\n

Ho capito che \u00e8 meglio stare da soli che sopportare un idiota.<\/strong><\/em>
\u00c8 meglio vivere una vita in cui posso essere me stessa, senza fingere di essere qualcun altro solo per piacere al mio ragazzo.<\/p>\r\n

If he can\u2019t accept all the bad things about me, he surely doesn\u2019t deserve the best ones as well. I refuse to settle for less than I deserve, and I refuse to be someone\u2019s doll to will play with whenever and however he wants.<\/p>\r\n

Ho capito che sono abbastanza forte da aspettare l'uomo giusto.<\/strong><\/em>
I have been through hell and back, and I know that life is a bitch. I also know that by speeding things up, I won\u2019t reach my ultimate goal and that this time, I just need to go with the flow.<\/p>\r\n

Devo lasciare che il destino faccia il suo lavoro e accettare qualsiasi cosa mi porti. Ho passato tanto tempo a crearmi le mie regole d'amore, ma non ha mai funzionato. Quindi, d'ora in poi, star\u00f2 ferma e lascer\u00f2 che il cielo mi mandi quello giusto.<\/p>\r\n

I realized I don\u2019t need anyone who doesn\u2019t need me.<\/strong><\/em>
I have been dating so many guys until now, and none of them could provide me with the love I craved. Every one of them disappointed me at least once, and that\u2019s why I decided to break up with them.<\/p>\r\n

Because if someone shows that he doesn\u2019t love me, why would I stay with him and beg for his attention? If I had my heart on my sleeve and if I could open up to him, he should have done the same things for me.<\/p>\r\n

But if someone refuses to do that, he simply can\u2019t be at the top of the list of my priorities.<\/p>\r\n

I won\u2019t settle for less than I deserve.<\/strong><\/em>
I only have one life to live, and I surely won\u2019t waste it on a guy who doesn\u2019t love me as much as I love him. I won\u2019t settle for a lack of love, a lack of attention and a lack of respect. I deserve to be loved.<\/p>\r\n

I deserve to be taken care of. I deserve to be chased. And I deserve all of that to happen naturally. And if a man can\u2019t provide me with that, then I don\u2019t need him at all.<\/p>\r\n

Sar\u00f2 la mia stessa ragione di felicit\u00e0.<\/strong><\/em>
During my whole life, I searched for men to make me happy, but now I realized I am my own reason for happiness. I realized don\u2019t need a man to complete me. I don\u2019t need him to guide me or show me the right path.<\/p>\r\n

Ho solo bisogno di uno che mi accetti completamente e mi ami incondizionatamente. Ma finch\u00e9 non arriver\u00e0, mi innamorer\u00f2 prima di tutto di me stessa. Imparer\u00f2 a essere la mia priorit\u00e0 e a realizzare i miei desideri senza aver bisogno di qualcuno che lo faccia per me.<\/p>\r\n

Aspetter\u00f2 l'uomo il cui amore \u00e8 come una casa.<\/strong><\/em>
I know that he won\u2019t come tomorrow or in a month, but he will eventually come. And I know that I won\u2019t be with anyone just to avoid being alone. I will wait for someone who is worth the wait.<\/p>\r\n

Lo far\u00f2 aspettare l'uomo<\/a> che sar\u00e0 il mio migliore amico, la mia anima gemella e il mio amante allo stesso tempo. Colui che mi inseguir\u00e0 quando sar\u00f2 gi\u00e0 sua, che mi amer\u00e0 fino alla luna e ritorno e che non mi abbandoner\u00e0 mai.<\/p>\r\n

Aspetter\u00f2 l'uomo il cui amore \u00e8 come una casa.<\/p>\r\n\r\n

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