{"id":22896,"date":"2020-08-06T12:37:13","date_gmt":"2020-08-06T12:37:13","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=22896"},"modified":"2021-08-12T07:46:29","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T07:46:29","slug":"non-fare-del-male-a-una-brava-donna-solo-perche-hai-paura-di-impegnarti","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/non-fare-del-male-a-una-brava-donna-solo-perche-hai-paura-di-impegnarti\/","title":{"rendered":"Non fate del male a una brava donna solo perch\u00e9 avete paura di impegnarvi"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Perch\u00e9 l'hai trascinata nel tuo mondo quando non avevi alcuna intenzione di restare? Lei non sognava tutti quei messaggi, quelle conversazioni, quegli sguardi dolci e quei caldi abbracci.<\/p>\n<p>\u00c8 stato reale. Tu eri l\u00ec.<\/p>\n<p>Ti sei comportato come se la cosa stesse andando da qualche parte. Ti sei impegnato. L'hai fatta innamorare. Tutto andava alla grande e poi l'hai abbandonata. Nessuna spiegazione reale, niente di niente.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>Are you even aware of how much damage you caused? There\u2019s nothing worse than awakening a woman\u2019s feelings without having any intention of loving her.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p>Ma tu ne avevi l'intenzione. La volevi nella tua vita. Ti piaceva. Eri cos\u00ec preso da lei. Hai solo avuto paura.<\/p>\n<p>You saw that things between you were getting a bit more serious and you were afraid her love would cage you. You felt like you couldn\u2019t breathe. You felt like you were losing your freedom.<\/p>\n<p>Cos\u00ec hai fatto quello che sai fare meglio, <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/love\/lamore-vero-non-scappa-giorni-difficili\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">hai corso<\/a>. Sei scappato da lei invece di affrontare i tuoi problemi. L'hai lasciata senza sapere nulla e le hai fatto chiedere se fosse stato qualcosa che aveva fatto a farti andare via.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-104752\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/the-sad-blonde-in-the-bedroom-is-crying.jpg\" alt=\"la bionda triste in camera da letto sta piangendo\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/the-sad-blonde-in-the-bedroom-is-crying.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/the-sad-blonde-in-the-bedroom-is-crying-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/the-sad-blonde-in-the-bedroom-is-crying-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/the-sad-blonde-in-the-bedroom-is-crying-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/the-sad-blonde-in-the-bedroom-is-crying-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>You made her wonder if there was something wrong with her. You made her question if she was enough. And that\u2019s unforgivable. She didn\u2019t deserve to be treated like that.<\/p>\n<p>Se volevi separarti da lei, meritava almeno una spiegazione. Meritava un addio adeguato. Meritava la tua onest\u00e0.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>But it was easier this way, wasn\u2019t it? You got used to these kinds of scenarios. You pull away every time you get too attached. You freeze your heart when you are in front of the real deal.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p>You would rather lose her than be vulnerable. You try to convince yourself that she didn\u2019t mean a thing to you when you know that couldn\u2019t be further from the truth.<\/p>\n<p>Non ti permetti mai di <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/life\/non-chiedere-mai-scusa-sentendosi-molto\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">sentire troppo<\/a>. You try to block those emotions because you think you are safer that way. You keep repeating the same scenario because you feel that you don\u2019t deserve to be loved.<\/p>\n<p>Ma se c'era qualcuno che ti guardava come se fossi l'uomo migliore del mondo, era lei. Ti ha messo su un piedistallo e in cuor suo sapeva che meritavi il suo amore.<\/p>\n<p>You were the last one who she thought would hurt her, but you did. She still isn\u2019t herself. The wounds are too deep. But she is fighting and she\u2019s not giving up\u2014that&#8217;s what makes her even more special.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-104753\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/outside-a-woman-from-a-cup-cafe-is-standing-by-the-fence-thinking.jpg\" alt=\"all&#039;esterno, una donna di un caff\u00e8 a tazze \u00e8 in piedi accanto alla recinzione, pensando\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/outside-a-woman-from-a-cup-cafe-is-standing-by-the-fence-thinking.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/outside-a-woman-from-a-cup-cafe-is-standing-by-the-fence-thinking-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/outside-a-woman-from-a-cup-cafe-is-standing-by-the-fence-thinking-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/outside-a-woman-from-a-cup-cafe-is-standing-by-the-fence-thinking-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/outside-a-woman-from-a-cup-cafe-is-standing-by-the-fence-thinking-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><em><strong>By pushing a good woman out of your life, you only end up hurting yourself. You will realize what you had when it\u2019s already too late.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p>You will wonder what would&#8217;ve happened if you had been a bit braver. If you got out of your comfort zone and took the risk, maybe you wouldn\u2019t be so caught up in your thoughts now.<\/p>\n<p>You wouldn\u2019t be wondering if there\u2019s anybody in her life who is enjoying her smile like you once did.<\/p>\n<p>You wouldn\u2019t be wondering if there is a way back to her heart. You never thought that she would be strong enough to ignore all your calls and texts. You thought she would be waiting for forever.<\/p>\n<p>But even the best and the kindest of women give up when they exhaust all their strength. When they see that there is no point holding on to somebody who didn\u2019t want to stay.<\/p>\n<p>If you had enough courage maybe you would see that your fears were misplaced. Maybe you would find out that love doesn\u2019t trap you, it makes you free when you are with the right person.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>Se smettessi di scappare e rimanessi per sempre tra le sue braccia. Quel per sempre con lei ti spaventava cos\u00ec tanto e ora sai che il per sempre senza di lei \u00e8 ancora pi\u00f9 spaventoso.<\/strong> <\/em><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-104754 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/Dont-Hurt-A-Good-Woman-Just-Because-Youre-Afraid-To-Commit-Pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"Non fate del male a una brava donna solo perch\u00e9 avete paura di impegnarvi\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/Dont-Hurt-A-Good-Woman-Just-Because-Youre-Afraid-To-Commit-Pinterest.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/Dont-Hurt-A-Good-Woman-Just-Because-Youre-Afraid-To-Commit-Pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/Dont-Hurt-A-Good-Woman-Just-Because-Youre-Afraid-To-Commit-Pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/Dont-Hurt-A-Good-Woman-Just-Because-Youre-Afraid-To-Commit-Pinterest-768x1152.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/Dont-Hurt-A-Good-Woman-Just-Because-Youre-Afraid-To-Commit-Pinterest-150x225.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Why did you pull her into your world when you had no intention of staying? She didn\u2019t dream all those texts, conversations, sweet gazes, and warm embraces. It was real. You were there. You acted like this was going somewhere. You made efforts. You swept her off of her feet. Everything was great and then&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":39,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29642],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-22896","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-guy-talk"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29642,"label":"guy talk"}]},"featured_image_src_large":false,"author_info":{"display_name":"Owen Scott","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/hase\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29642,"name":"guy talk","slug":"guy-talk","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29642,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Welcome to the land of juicy topics and lots of helpful tips on love and relationships. 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