{"id":23024,"date":"2020-07-10T11:35:02","date_gmt":"2020-07-10T11:35:02","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=23024"},"modified":"2022-04-22T01:18:12","modified_gmt":"2022-04-22T01:18:12","slug":"6-cose-per-farle-capire-che-in-realta-non-lo-rivuole-indietro","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/6-cose-per-farle-capire-che-in-realta-non-lo-rivuole-indietro\/","title":{"rendered":"6 cose per farle capire che in realt\u00e0 non lo rivuole indietro"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Quando il vostro ex fidanzato vi passa per la testa, cosa che ultimamente accade un po' troppo spesso, provate una sensazione di nostalgia. Vi manca e siete sicure che sia lui la persona con cui volete stare, nonostante tutto quello che \u00e8 successo tra voi due.<\/p>\r\n<p>Well, it\u2019s time to start doubting your own feelings when it comes to this guy. Because there is a huge possibility that you only think you miss him and that you\u2019ve only convinced yourself you still have feelings for him.<\/p>\r\n<p>There is a huge possibility that you actually don\u2019t <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/voglio-che-il-mio-ex-torni-cosi-tanto-che-fa-male\/\">Rivuoi il tuo ex<\/a> nella vostra vita, ed ecco 6 cose che vi aiuteranno a capirlo da soli.<\/p>\r\n<h1><span style=\"font-size: 18pt;\">1. You don\u2019t love him\u2014you just got used to him<\/span><\/h1>\r\n<p>La verit\u00e0 \u00e8 che questo ragazzo rappresenta la vostra zona di comfort dalla quale avete paura di uscire anche se \u00e8 proprio quello che dovreste fare. Vi siete abituate a lui e questa relazione rappresenta qualcosa di familiare per voi, nonostante tutte le sue negativit\u00e0.<\/p>\r\n<p>Pensate di amare questo ragazzo, ma in realt\u00e0 \u00e8 solo una vecchia abitudine che fate fatica a cambiare. Mentre pensate di desiderare il vostro ex, in realt\u00e0 desiderate questo senso di familiarit\u00e0 che vi ha dato.<\/p>\r\n<p>Deep down, you don\u2019t want to get back on the dating market, and you don\u2019t feel like letting someone new into your life. So the best possibility for you would be to come back to this guy. After all, you know that to expect from him, and you know how things would turn out this time.<\/p>\r\n<p>Trust me on\u2014going back to someone just because you got used to them and the sense of belonging they gave you is one of the worst things you can ever do to yourself.<\/p>\r\n<h1><span style=\"font-size: 18pt;\">2. \u00c8 lo stesso uomo che era<\/span><\/h1>\r\n<p>Quando pensate di tornare dal vostro ragazzo, nel profondo sperate che questa volta le cose siano diverse. Sperate che lui cambi.<\/p>\r\n<p>But the truth is that he won\u2019t. You need to understand that this guy is the same man he was and that the of you will have all the same differences and problems if you get back together.<\/p>\r\n<p>Nothing has miraculously changed in your personalities and between the two of you just because you\u2019ve taken some time apart.<\/p>\r\n<p>Yes, it is likely that you will have a honeymoon phase when you get back together, but things will soon go back as they were. After all, you broke up for a reason, didn\u2019t you?<\/p>\r\n<h1><span style=\"font-size: 18pt;\">3. You don\u2019t miss him\u2014you only miss having a boyfriend<\/span><\/h1>\r\n<p>If you\u2019ve been in a long term relationship, you\u2019ve gotten used to having a romantic partner. And this is what you actually miss. You miss this sense of belonging and partnership which you had while you were in a relationship.<\/p>\r\n<p>This means that you are actually scared of your single life. What you don\u2019t know is that this can be the time of your life if you just learn to embrace it and focus on taking the best of it.<\/p>\r\n<p>This can be a time in which you focus on yourself instead of on your partner. A time in which you understand that you actually don\u2019t need a man to be happy and that you are a complete person on your own.<\/p>\r\n<h1><span style=\"font-size: 18pt;\">4. Concentratevi solo sui bei ricordi<\/span><\/h1>\r\n<p>Quando guardiamo a qualcosa in retrospettiva, tendiamo a concentrarci sui momenti positivi e ad allontanare i ricordi negativi, perch\u00e9 sono quelli che vogliamo dimenticare.<\/p>\r\n<p>E questo \u00e8 esattamente ci\u00f2 che fate quando si tratta del vostro ex. Avete dimenticato tutte le lacrime che avete pianto per lui e ricordate solo come vi faceva sorridere. Avete dimenticato tutte le volte che avete litigato e ricordate solo i momenti felici.<\/p>\r\n<p>You focus on the beautiful memories that the two of you had together and on this guy\u2019s qualities while you completely disregard his flaws.<\/p>\r\n<p>Vedere la vostra ultima relazione attraverso occhiali da sole colorati di rosa la fa sembrare allettante. La vedete migliore di come era in realt\u00e0, ed \u00e8 naturale che vogliate riavere questa versione idealizzata.<\/p>\r\n<h1><span style=\"font-size: 18pt;\">5. Avete paura di sentirvi soli<\/span><\/h1>\r\n<p>It is natural to feel a little bit lonely and empty after you end a relationship. But that doesn\u2019t mean that you miss or love your ex.<\/p>\r\n<p>It just means that this feeling is unfamiliar to you, and it scares you. But what you don\u2019t know is that being single and alone isn\u2019t as same as being lonely.<\/p>\r\n<p>Remember\u2014you are more than enough for yourself. Besides, I\u2019m sure there are other people in your life who you deeply care about besides your ex and these are exactly the people you should focus on to help you fill this void.<\/p>\r\n<h1><span style=\"font-size: 18pt;\">6. Il vostro ego \u00e8 ferito<\/span><\/h1>\r\n<p>There are times when you don\u2019t want to have someone back in your life because you really think they deserve to be there. Sometimes, you feel heartbroken but actually the only thing which is hurt is your ego.<\/p>\r\n<p>E non c'\u00e8 nulla di male nel sentirsi cos\u00ec.<\/p>\r\n<p>It\u2019s quite simple\u2014you want to prove to yourself that you can always have this person, who was once yours, back. You want to prove to yourself that you still have an impact on this guy and that you are still important in his life. <!--codes_iframe--><!--\/codes_iframe--><\/p>\r\n\r\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-41121\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/herway.net-13.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"735\" height=\"1102\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/herway.net-13.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/herway.net-13-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/herway.net-13-683x1024.jpg 683w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 735px) 100vw, 735px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>When your ex boyfriend crosses your mind, which has been happening a little too often lately, you feel nostalgic. You miss him, and you are sure that he is the one you want to be with, despite everything that has happened between the two of you. Well, it\u2019s time to start doubting your own feelings&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":13,"featured_media":23029,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29628],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-23024","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-dealing-with-breakup"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29628,"label":"dealing with breakup"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/beth-solano-313648.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"April Callaghan","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/april\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29628,"name":"dealing with breakup","slug":"dealing-with-breakup","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29628,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Breakups are painful but worry not; you don't need to go through all of it alone. 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