{"id":23172,"date":"2020-06-12T09:10:15","date_gmt":"2020-06-12T09:10:15","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=23172"},"modified":"2022-01-20T15:41:11","modified_gmt":"2022-01-20T15:41:11","slug":"tutto-cio-di-cui-ho-bisogno-e-un-uomo-a-cui-freghi-davvero-qualcosa-di-me","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/tutto-cio-di-cui-ho-bisogno-e-un-uomo-a-cui-freghi-davvero-qualcosa-di-me\/","title":{"rendered":"Tutto ci\u00f2 di cui ho bisogno \u00e8 un uomo che se ne freghi davvero di me"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Non posso credere di credere ancora nell'amore dopo tutto quello che ho passato, ma ci credo. Credo che sia da qualche parte l\u00e0 fuori per me. Solo che non mi ha ancora trovato.<\/p>\n<p>And just because I believe in love, it doesn\u2019t mean I am not scared of it at the same time. Every time I gave my heart to someone, they would only return it more scattered than before.<\/p>\n<p>Ad essere sincera, sono stanca. Sembra che mi stia scontrando con un muro di mattoni e che la mia vita sentimentale non stia andando da nessuna parte. Sto girando a vuoto con uomini che mi fanno solo perdere tempo.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>The universe isn\u2019t paying attention. I said I want a man who actually gives a shit about me, not a man who treats me like shit. There is a huge difference.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p>By now, all I experienced was lousy treatment, men who didn\u2019t know what they wanted from life\u2014let alone me\u2014the ones that give their all at first and suddenly pull away, the ones that aren\u2019t ready.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-96215\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/Portrait-of-young-woman-and-man-outdoor-on-street-having-relationship-problems.jpg\" alt=\"Ritratto di giovane donna e uomo all&#039;aperto in strada con problemi di relazione\" width=\"800\" height=\"531\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/Portrait-of-young-woman-and-man-outdoor-on-street-having-relationship-problems.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/Portrait-of-young-woman-and-man-outdoor-on-street-having-relationship-problems-300x199.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/Portrait-of-young-woman-and-man-outdoor-on-street-having-relationship-problems-768x510.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>To be honest, I am sick of it. That\u2019s why I decided to be clearer about what I want from a man. I decided it\u2019s time to change my bad taste in men and wait for someone who cares about me.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>I need a man who can\u2019t imagine the whole day passing without hearing from me.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/life\/mentre-tu-eri-troppo-impegnato-a-fregartene-lei-si-e-arresa-con-te\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Nessuno \u00e8 troppo occupato<\/a> di mandare un messaggio o di chiamare almeno una volta al giorno. Ci vogliono solo pochi minuti, ma significa molto. Significa che \u00e8 nei suoi pensieri. Significa che \u00e8 pronto a investire nella vostra relazione. Significa che ci tiene.<\/p>\n<p>I can\u2019t make excuses anymore for men who forget all about me as soon as I leave their sight. I refuse to allow anyone who doesn\u2019t make even a tiny bit of effort to waste my time.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>Ho bisogno di un uomo che arda dal desiderio di vedermi.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p>I hate that feeling when somebody is \u201cmeh\u201d about you. I want someone who will miss me when he doesn\u2019t see me for a while. I want to feel my bones almost breaking from his hug.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-96214\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/man-catching-woman-in-hug.jpg\" alt=\"uomo che abbraccia una donna\" width=\"800\" height=\"530\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/man-catching-woman-in-hug.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/man-catching-woman-in-hug-300x199.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/man-catching-woman-in-hug-768x509.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>I want a passionate kiss \u2018hello\u2019 and at least a smooch \u2018goodbye\u2019. I need a man who is sure about his feelings. I can\u2019t handle half commitments and flakiness. I need a real man who is all in.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>Ho bisogno di un uomo che mi dia pi\u00f9 delle parole.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p>I\u2019ve had my fair share of empty words, false promises and \u201cI love you\u2019s\u201d which were never backed up with actions. Hearing things doesn\u2019t mean anything when you can feel it.<\/p>\n<p>I will value a man who shows me that he loves me more than the one who only talks about love. I want to feel like I am living in a dream because he treats me so well I can\u2019t believe it\u2019s real.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>Ho bisogno di un uomo che si accorga che mi sento gi\u00f9 e faccia del suo meglio per risollevarmi.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p>No, I don\u2019t need a hero. I have been my own hero for a long time now. I just need a man who will be observant. Who won\u2019t leave when he sees how upset I am.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-96213\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/man-comforting-to-crying-woman.jpg\" alt=\"uomo che consola una donna in lacrime\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/man-comforting-to-crying-woman.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/man-comforting-to-crying-woman-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/man-comforting-to-crying-woman-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Who will stand right by my side even when he doesn\u2019t know what to say? I need a man who will listen and understand.<\/p>\n<p>Che fa una battuta per farmi sorridere per un momento. Farei lo stesso per lui.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>Ho bisogno di un uomo che sia pronto a risolvere i problemi e non li nasconda sotto il tappeto.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p>I want somebody who is ready to talk things out after every argument. Someone who doesn\u2019t turn his back on me and gives me the cold shoulder.<\/p>\n<p>I need somebody who doesn\u2019t blame me for everything and understands that our problems shouldn\u2019t be bigger than our love for each other. We can get through anything if we are both ready to work on it.<\/p>\n<p><strong><em>Ho bisogno di un uomo a cui piaccio per come sono.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-96212\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/a-smiling-woman-looking-at-a-man.jpg\" alt=\"una donna sorridente che guarda un uomo\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/a-smiling-woman-looking-at-a-man.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/a-smiling-woman-looking-at-a-man-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/a-smiling-woman-looking-at-a-man-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Ho bisogno di <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/non-cambiera-mai-per-un-uomo-a-meno-che-non-inizino-ad-accadere-queste-5-cose\/\">a man who won\u2019t try to change me<\/a>. Ho bisogno di qualcuno che mi ami cos\u00ec come sono. \u00c8 l'unico che sar\u00e0 in grado di gestire i miei difetti e di godere delle mie virt\u00f9.<\/p>\n<p>He will proudly hold my hand and won\u2019t hesitate to tell the world that I am someone special to him. He will never put me down. He will be the one who gives me the push I need to be even better.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>Ho bisogno di un uomo che se ne freghi davvero di me.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p>Only then all the things I listed above will go smoothly. It will all flow naturally. He will make an effort, I will make an effort, and we\u2019ll find each other halfway.<\/p>\n<p>Invece di essere l'unica a dare il suo cuore, il suo corpo e la sua anima nella relazione, tutto sar\u00e0 ricambiato. Lo aspetter\u00f2 e <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/non-accontentatevi-di-una-persona-con-cui-non-avreste-dovuto-stare\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">I won&#8217;t settle for anything less<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-96210\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/All-I-Need-Is-A-Man-Who-Actually-Gives-A-Shit-About-Me-Pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"Tutto ci\u00f2 di cui ho bisogno \u00e8 un uomo che se ne freghi davvero di me\" width=\"735\" height=\"1102\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/All-I-Need-Is-A-Man-Who-Actually-Gives-A-Shit-About-Me-Pinterest.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/All-I-Need-Is-A-Man-Who-Actually-Gives-A-Shit-About-Me-Pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/All-I-Need-Is-A-Man-Who-Actually-Gives-A-Shit-About-Me-Pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 735px) 100vw, 735px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I can\u2019t believe I still believe in love after all that I have been through, but I do. I believe it\u2019s somewhere out there for me. It just hasn\u2019t found me yet. And just because I believe in love, it doesn\u2019t mean I am not scared of it at the same time. Every time I&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":25,"featured_media":96211,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29621],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-23172","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-healthy-relationship"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29621,"label":"healthy relationship"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/All-I-Need-Is-A-Man-Who-Actually-Gives-A-Shit-About-Me.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Amy Nicholson","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/amy\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29621,"name":"healthy relationship","slug":"healthy-relationship","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29621,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Explore this part of our site to learn how to recognize and nourish healthy patterns in your relationships and let go of the negative ones with ease.","parent":29620,"count":254,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29621,"category_count":254,"category_description":"Explore this part of our site to learn how to recognize and nourish healthy patterns in your relationships and let go of the negative ones with ease.","cat_name":"healthy relationship","category_nicename":"healthy-relationship","category_parent":29620}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/23172","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/25"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=23172"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/23172\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/96211"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=23172"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=23172"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=23172"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}