{"id":23290,"date":"2020-05-14T06:33:40","date_gmt":"2020-05-14T06:33:40","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=23290"},"modified":"2021-08-12T12:38:06","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T12:38:06","slug":"si-rammarichera-di-aver-perso-la-donna-che-ha-aspettato-che-lui-si-rimettesse-in-sesto-2","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/si-rammarichera-di-aver-perso-la-donna-che-ha-aspettato-che-lui-si-rimettesse-in-sesto-2\/","title":{"rendered":"Si pentir\u00e0 di aver perso la donna che ha aspettato che si rimettesse in sesto"},"content":{"rendered":"

So cosa sta pensando! Sta pensando: \"\u00c8 una brava donna; mi perdoner\u00e0, si impegner\u00e0 per superare tutto questo. Di nuovo\".<\/p>\n

Well, I wouldn\u2019t agree with that. Women are not quite like that.<\/p>\n

He thinks that she\u2019ll give him chance after a chance and keep putting up with his shit until he gets it together.<\/p>\n

She won\u2019t sacrifice her life waiting for him to \u2018find himself\u2019, to figure out what he wants. She\u2019s not an idiot.<\/p>\n

She doesn\u2019t hate herself, and she doesn\u2019t want to punish herself by waiting on a man who doesn\u2019t know what he wants.<\/p>\n

She needs someone who is sure about her. Someone who won\u2019t think twice when it comes to her. She needs it, and she deserves it.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Sapete una cosa? La vita non \u00e8 un film e nulla accade mai come nei film.<\/p>\n

Lei si innamora di lui; lui la scarica perch\u00e9 al momento \u00e8 troppo per lui; lui sta cercando di trovare se stesso.<\/p>\n

Cos\u00ec, lei si addolora e lo ama ancora, e poi quando lui decide di tornare, quando ha un'epifania, lei si butta tra le sue braccia e vivono per sempre felici e contenti.<\/p>\n

Hate to say it like this, but women today don\u2019t buy that crap. They can give you a chance or two, but if you blow it, they are gone.<\/p>\n

Lui ovviamente la pensava diversamente e la conseguenza \u00e8 che sta soffrendo e rimpiange di averla lasciata andare. Purtroppo per lui, nulla di ci\u00f2 che far\u00e0 la riporter\u00e0 indietro.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Women can really take a lot and put up with almost everything when they are in love. I know because I\u2019ve been there, and I\u2019ve done that.<\/p>\n

\"uomo<\/p>\n

When a woman falls in love, she doesn\u2019t expect a man to be a done project, and, let\u2019s say, a wrapped package ready to be unfolded.<\/p>\n

Sa che sar\u00e0 molto impegnativo, ma si \u00e8 innamorata di lui perch\u00e9 ne ha visto il potenziale.<\/p>\n

Ha visto che tipo di uomo poteva essere e si \u00e8 offerta di aiutarlo a crescere e a diventare una persona migliore. Perch\u00e9 sa che lui pu\u00f2 farlo, se solo si sforza un po' di pi\u00f9.<\/p>\n

Ha offerto il suo amore incondizionato. Si \u00e8 offerta di essere presente per lui, ma lui ne ha approfittato come fanno molti uomini.<\/p>\n

Why can\u2019t there be someone who\u2019ll take this chance and become better? Why aren\u2019t <\/em>l\u00ec men who\u2019ll see that the woman they are dating is the best thing that ever happened to them?<\/em><\/p>\n

Why does it always have to end up with her broken heart and him regretting he acted like a piece of shit? Only then, it\u2019s too late to bring her back because she doesn\u2019t care anymore.<\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

She\u2019s learned her lesson.<\/p>\n

Le donne sopportano molto quando si tratta di uomini.<\/p>\n

Perch\u00e9 pensate che la maggior parte di loro rimanga in relazioni abusive? Perch\u00e9 una persona sana di mente dovrebbe sopportare le manipolazioni e le giochi mentali<\/a>?<\/p>\n

Beh, alcune donne lo fanno. Alcune hanno tanta pazienza e credono fermamente che lui cambier\u00e0.<\/p>\n

Investono le loro emozioni e la loro sanit\u00e0 mentale nel tentativo di aiutarlo e portarlo sulla retta via.<\/p>\n

Usually this doesn\u2019t end well, and it leaves her broken, on the verge of completely falling apart.<\/strong><\/p>\n

And for what? For trying to help someone be a better person. And that\u2019s her reward?<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"giovane<\/p>\n

The truth is, when a man screws up chance after a chance, she will leave without looking back. Because, when a woman is done, she\u2019s done. There is no way back.<\/p>\n

She will miss him, but she won\u2019t come back to him. She is way smarter than that. And when this happens, when he realizes that his life was so much better with her in it, he\u2019ll want her back.<\/em><\/p>\n

He\u2019ll want her back, and he\u2019ll try to do anything to succeed. He\u2019ll change. He\u2019ll become more responsible.<\/p>\n

He\u2019ll basically do everything she\u2019s been asking for so long. But that isn\u2019t going to cut it. Nothing he does will make her change her mind.<\/p>\n

No one in their right mind would come back to something they\u2019ve fought to run away from.<\/p>\n

Solo una persona completamente pazza tornerebbe di corsa a mentire, manipolare e falsificare le promesse.<\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Usually, when men face this kind of emotional obstacle, they begin blaming their failures of getting back the women they\u2019ve lost on something else completely.<\/p>\n

Si consolano dicendo che non \u00e8 mai stata la donna giusta per loro. Se fosse stata destinata, sarebbe rimasta.<\/p>\n

But deep down, they know it\u2019s not true.<\/p>\n

Ora che \u00e8 solo, si rende conto di quanto lei valesse. Ha capito che lei era l\u00ec per lui quando ha toccato il fondo.<\/p>\n

Era l\u00ec per lui quando aveva bisogno di sostegno e di una spalla su cui piangere.<\/p>\n

Lui non l'ha mai rispettato e non ha mai visto quanto lei si stesse impegnando.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Every other woman he meets will never live up to her. Those future women will never be remotely close to the one he didn\u2019t appreciate.<\/p>\n

Any other will only love him at his best, but when the problems come rushing in and when things aren\u2019t that great, she\u2019ll leave him because she doesn\u2019t love him enough to stay.<\/p>\n

In those moments, he\u2019ll be so sorry that he let her go. In those moments, he\u2019ll realize what he had and what he lost.<\/strong><\/p>\n

If you like Maria\u2019s work, check out her new book, \u201cOn Getting Over A Narcissist\u201d<\/a> <\/em><\/p>\n

\"Si<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

I know what he\u2019s thinking! He\u2019s thinking, \u201cShe\u2019s a good woman; she\u2019ll forgive me, she\u2019ll work to get through this. Again.\u201d Well, I wouldn\u2019t agree with that. Women are not quite like that. He thinks that she\u2019ll give him chance after a chance and keep putting up with his shit until he gets it together….<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":89147,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29618],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-23290","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-moving-on"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29618,"label":"moving on"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/He-Will-Regret-Losing-The-Woman-Who-Waited-For-Him-To-Get-His-Shit-Together.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29618,"name":"moving on","slug":"moving-on","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29618,"taxonomy":"category","description":"When nothing else works - inspiring stories about moving on are bound to help you let go of people and situations you never thought you could live without.\r\n","parent":38,"count":200,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29618,"category_count":200,"category_description":"When nothing else works - inspiring stories about moving on are bound to help you let go of people and situations you never thought you could live without.\r\n","cat_name":"moving on","category_nicename":"moving-on","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/23290","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=23290"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/23290\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/89147"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=23290"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=23290"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=23290"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}