{"id":23306,"date":"2020-06-14T08:03:31","date_gmt":"2020-06-14T08:03:31","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=23306"},"modified":"2021-08-12T06:38:45","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T06:38:45","slug":"meriti-di-sentire-la-sua-mancanza","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/meriti-di-sentire-la-sua-mancanza\/","title":{"rendered":"Meriti di sentire la sua mancanza"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Avevi una donna da amare. Avevate colei che era disposta a fare qualsiasi cosa per voi: sacrificare la sua felicit\u00e0, trascurare i suoi desideri e seguirvi nel vostro cammino.<\/p>\n<p>L'ha persino aiutata a raggiungere i suoi obiettivi, spingendola ad andare avanti perch\u00e9 era troppo pigra per fare qualcosa nella sua vita.<\/p>\n<p>Lei ti amava <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/love\/e-se-non-amassi-mai-nessun-altro-come-ho-amato-te\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">come se non avesse mai amato nessuno<\/a> prima, e te lo dimostrava ogni giorno.<\/p>\n<p>She gave herself all in to something that didn\u2019t have a label from the beginning. She gave all her hopes and all her love to someone who couldn\u2019t even put a label on that relationship.<\/p>\n<p>Ma era soddisfatta. Non ha mai detto nulla al riguardo perch\u00e9 teneva pi\u00f9 a te che alla sua situazione sentimentale.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>E<\/strong> <strong>Questo \u00e8 stato il suo primo grande errore.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-97759\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/sad-young-woman-looking-through-the-window.jpg\" alt=\"giovane donna triste che guarda attraverso la finestra\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/sad-young-woman-looking-through-the-window.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/sad-young-woman-looking-through-the-window-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/sad-young-woman-looking-through-the-window-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/sad-young-woman-looking-through-the-window-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/sad-young-woman-looking-through-the-window-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Era una persona che accettava tutte le tue vuote promesse che un giorno l'avresti sposata, e non vedeva l'ora di farlo.<\/p>\n<p>Non le \u00e8 mai passato per la testa che la stavi solo usando per ottenere ci\u00f2 che volevi.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>Non ha mai pensato che tu stessi con lei solo finch\u00e9 non si fosse presentata una versione migliore di se stessa. Era innamorata pazza e ti ha creduto ciecamente. Questo \u00e8 stato il suo secondo errore.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p>Era una donna che conosceva tutti i tuoi oscuri segreti e ti accettava con essi.<\/p>\n<p>Sapeva che avete <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/ecco-come-lasciare-che-il-tuo-bagaglio-emotivo-rovini-la-tua-prossima-relazione\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">bagaglio<\/a>, but it wasn\u2019t a problem for her to embrace you and every problem that you had, handling it all as if it were one of her own.<\/p>\n<p>She gave you love and respect, but she saw that you weren\u2019t giving anything in return.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-97760\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/sad-woman-staring-at-distance.jpg\" alt=\"donna triste che guarda in lontananza\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/sad-woman-staring-at-distance.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/sad-woman-staring-at-distance-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/sad-woman-staring-at-distance-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/sad-woman-staring-at-distance-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/sad-woman-staring-at-distance-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Then, trying to win you back, she totally lost herself over a man who couldn\u2019t care less for her.<em><strong> E questo fu il suo terzo e pi\u00f9 grande errore.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p>After that mistake, she wasn\u2019t the same women anymore. She was just a shell of the person she once was. Now, there isn\u2019t any fire left in her eyes anymore.<\/p>\n<p>There isn\u2019t energy in her, nor will for life. She doesn\u2019t smile anymore like she used to. She doesn\u2019t feel happy because she is dead from the inside.<\/p>\n<p>Her heart got broken into pieces so small that they can\u2019t be glued together. In her head, there is only an echo of all those bad things you said to her. And they are on repeat all the time.<\/p>\n<p>Nel suo cuore ci sono <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/life\/7-segnali-che-indicano-che-state-reprimendo-le-vostre-emozioni-e-perche-sono-pericolose\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">tante emozioni<\/a> she doesn\u2019t know what to do with.<\/p>\n<p>She would like to scream to feel better, but she is too numb to even do that. That\u2019s how much you fucked her up.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-97761\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/sad-woman-hugging-pillow.jpg\" alt=\"donna triste che abbraccia un cuscino\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/sad-woman-hugging-pillow.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/sad-woman-hugging-pillow-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/sad-woman-hugging-pillow-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/sad-woman-hugging-pillow-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/sad-woman-hugging-pillow-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>E anche se non sei pi\u00f9 con lei, lei continua a soffrire a causa tua.<\/p>\n<p>Because realizing that you gave all of yourself to someone who couldn\u2019t care less for you is mind fucking.<\/p>\n<p>And it makes you lose your temper in a second. That\u2019s why I wouldn\u2019t suggest that you try to find her.<\/p>\n<p>Puoi solo guardarla da lontano e mangiarti ogni giorno per aver perso la cosa pi\u00f9 preziosa che avevi.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>You don\u2019t deserve to kiss her. You don\u2019t deserve to hug her. You don\u2019t deserve to be close to her. You just deserve to miss her. And to keep doing that for the rest of your life.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p>Meriti di passare tutto quello che ha passato lei.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-97762\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/young-sad-woman-crying.jpg\" alt=\"giovane donna triste che piange\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/young-sad-woman-crying.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/young-sad-woman-crying-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/young-sad-woman-crying-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/young-sad-woman-crying-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/young-sad-woman-crying-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Meriti di piangere fino ad addormentarti perch\u00e9 la persona che ami continua a farti del male. Meriti di essere trascurato come hai fatto con lei.<\/p>\n<p>Meriti di avere il cuore spezzato e di provare la stessa dose di dolore che ha provato lei quando l'hai lasciata. N\u00e9 pi\u00f9 n\u00e9 meno, ma la stessa quantit\u00e0 di dolore.<\/p>\n<p>E sono sicuro che ti far\u00e0 male come niente di simile. Sar\u00e0 la sensazione pi\u00f9 intensa che abbiate mai provato. E la pi\u00f9 dolorosa.<\/p>\n<p>E quando passerai tutto quello che le hai fatto passare, spero che imparerai una lezione. Spero che imparerai come non trattare una donna.<\/p>\n<p>Spero che vi rendiate conto che, anche se non siete pi\u00f9 con lei, lei continua a soffrire.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>Ci sono ancora notti in cui piange. Ci sono notti in cui urla.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p><em><strong>Ci sono notti in cui muore, <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/life\/la-triste-verita-e-che-dietro-il-suo-sorriso-si-nasconde-un-sacco-di-dolore\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">circondata dal suo dolore<\/a>. That\u2019s how much harm you did to the woman who just wanted to be yours.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-97763\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/sad-woman-covering-her-head-with-pillow.jpg\" alt=\"donna triste che si copre la testa con un cuscino\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/sad-woman-covering-her-head-with-pillow.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/sad-woman-covering-her-head-with-pillow-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/sad-woman-covering-her-head-with-pillow-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/sad-woman-covering-her-head-with-pillow-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/sad-woman-covering-her-head-with-pillow-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Ma con il passare del tempo vi renderete conto che lei era l'unica che avrebbe potuto salvarvi da voi stessi.<\/p>\n<p>Rimpiangerete di aver perso la ragazza che vi amava pi\u00f9 di quanto amasse se stessa.<\/p>\n<p>Finirete per rimanere soli perch\u00e9 cercherete di trovarla in ogni donna che incontrerete, ma non la troverete mai.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>E sapete perch\u00e9?<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p>Because karma is a bitch! It will never give you another shot to be with her, but it won\u2019t let you forget about her either. It will just constantly remind you of her.<\/p>\n<p>Quindi vi mancher\u00e0 ogni giorno per il resto della vostra vita.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>Perch\u00e9 \u00e8 questo che vi meritate. E niente di meno.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-97758\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/You-Deserve-To-Miss-Her-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"Meriti di sentire la sua mancanza\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/You-Deserve-To-Miss-Her-pinterest.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/You-Deserve-To-Miss-Her-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/You-Deserve-To-Miss-Her-pinterest-150x225.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>You had a woman to love. You had the one who was willing to do anything for you\u2014o sacrifice her happiness, to neglect her wishes and to follow you on your path. She even helped you achieve your goals by pushing you forward because you were too lazy to do something with your life. She&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":97764,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29618],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-23306","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-moving-on"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29618,"label":"moving on"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/You-Deserve-To-Miss-Her.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29618,"name":"moving on","slug":"moving-on","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29618,"taxonomy":"category","description":"When nothing else works - inspiring stories about moving on are bound to help you let go of people and situations you never thought you could live without.\r\n","parent":38,"count":200,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29618,"category_count":200,"category_description":"When nothing else works - inspiring stories about moving on are bound to help you let go of people and situations you never thought you could live without.\r\n","cat_name":"moving on","category_nicename":"moving-on","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/23306","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=23306"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/23306\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/97764"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=23306"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=23306"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=23306"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}