Quando si tratta di vita e di amore, non tutte le cose vanno come vogliamo e pianifichiamo. A volte prendono una direzione completamente diversa e ci lasciano a chiederci cosa sia successo.<\/p>\n
The thing here is that while we are very busy making plans for our life\u2019s journey, our soul\u2019s journey has plans of its own .<\/p>\n
E anche se all'inizio possiamo non esserne contenti, prima o poi ci rendiamo conto che la nostra anima \u00e8 sempre sulla strada migliore per noi.<\/p>\n
Think about it, how many times have you\u2019ve been hooked on someone who is completely wrong for you? How many times have you decided to ignore your intuition? How many times did you stay when it was \u00e8 ora di partire<\/a>?<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n Too many times, right? And each and every one of those times you ended up regretting those decisions. You wished you\u2019d gotten out of that mess before.<\/p>\n Vi siete ritrovati con il cuore spezzato e i sogni infranti, a chiedervi se l'amore esiste davvero, se avete davvero una persona per sempre da qualche parte l\u00e0 fuori che vi aspetta o se le vostre speranze sono in pericolo.<\/p>\n Let me reassure you and tell you that your forever person is somewhere out there, and your soul\u2019s journey will take you right into their warm embrace.<\/p>\n There is a reason it didn\u2019t work out with anyone else. You haven’t reached your final destination. None of the men you dated so far <\/strong><\/em>erano giusto per voi. Erano solo lezioni che dovevate imparare.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n Erano i capitoli della vostra vita che dovevate leggere. I capitoli a cui dovevi sopravvivere per poterti costruire la persona che sei oggi. In modo da essere pronta per l'uomo giusto, quando avrebbe incrociato il tuo cammino.<\/p>\n Your soul\u2019s journey is a bumpy ride.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n Non \u00e8 quasi mai tutto liscio e senza ostacoli. Il vostro cammino \u00e8 costellato da cos\u00ec tanti alti e bassi che vi sembra di essere nella direzione sbagliata.<\/p>\n You\u2019ve had your share of breakups. You\u2019ve mastered the art of gluing the pieces of your broken heart together. You\u2019ve seen just how strong you are.<\/p>\n You\u2019ve realized that it doesn\u2019t matter how many times you fall. As long as you keep getting up, everything will be fine.<\/p>\n You have to trust your soul’s journey to take you somewhere better, to someone better, to your forever person.<\/p>\n Your soul\u2019s journey starts with you.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n The first destination you have to conquer is loving yourself. Most of us forget that part, and it\u2019s the one that is crucial for our love lives and our lives in general.<\/p>\n Your happiness starts with you. It\u2019s not about the other person. It\u2019s not about your job or how much money you have in your bank account. It is and it always was about you.<\/p>\n Lo stesso amore, la stessa gentilezza e lo stesso investimento che date agli altri lo dovete prima di tutto a voi stessi. Non c'\u00e8 nulla che renda una persona pi\u00f9 appagata e felice della vita che ha creato per s\u00e9.<\/p>\n Inoltre, quando si tratta di relazioni sentimentali c'\u00e8 una regola fondamentale: dovete amare voi stessi, in modo che qualcun altro possa amarvi a sua volta. Per poterti amare come meriti. Per poter ti amo veramente, follemente, profondamente<\/a>.<\/p>\n Difficulties you encounter on your soul\u2019s journey will enable you to recognize the one who is right for you.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n The road you took so far wasn\u2019t so difficult and full of challenges without a reason. It made you more observant. You can now easily detect all the red flags and signs of toxic behavior, and stay away from them.<\/p>\n You are closer to finding out what is it that you want and what you deserve. Up to now, you put up with a lot of things you shouldn\u2019t have.<\/p>\n You had your heart in the right place\u2014all you did and all you forgave was in the name of love. Now you know that love isn\u2019t always enough.<\/p>\n You want the love that doesn\u2019t lie or cheat. You want the love that doesn\u2019t play games. You want the love that isn\u2019t afraid of commitment. You want the love that isn\u2019t manipulative nor abusive in any way.<\/p>\n You want the love that is kind and understanding. You want the love that\u2019s based on trust and full of respect. You want love filled with mutual efforts. You want the love that makes you smile more than it makes you cry.<\/p>\n E no, non state chiedendo troppo. State chiedendo alcune cose normali di base che rendono una relazione sana e significativa.<\/p>\n