{"id":23549,"date":"2020-09-18T08:25:47","date_gmt":"2020-09-18T08:25:47","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=23549"},"modified":"2022-06-10T12:19:10","modified_gmt":"2022-06-10T12:19:10","slug":"10-modi-per-affrontare-un-marito-traditore","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/10-modi-per-affrontare-un-marito-traditore\/","title":{"rendered":"10 modi per affrontare un marito traditore"},"content":{"rendered":"

The feeling of rejection, of being replaced by someone else because you are no longer enough, is devastating. It can kill your marriage, tear the two of you apart, erasing every feeling and memory that you\u2019ve ever had together.<\/p>\n

When a man cheats, there are two options you\u2019re left with. One is to concludere l'affare e andarsene<\/a> e l'altro \u00e8 trovare un motivo per perdonarlo.<\/p>\n

Se pensate di poter trovare un modo per superare questa situazione, chiss\u00e0, forse il vostro matrimonio si riveler\u00e0 migliore che mai, soprattutto se non ci sono altri painful signs your husband doesn’t love you anymore.<\/a> Or if you think you could never forget what he has done to you, it\u2019s better to leave, no matter how hurtful it is, and move on with your life.<\/p>\n

Come affrontare un marito traditore?<\/strong><\/p>\n

1. Don\u2019t make any sudden decisions<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

What you\u2019re feeling right now is rage, depression, anger\u2026 all kinds of feelings mixed together at the same time. You\u2019re not able to think straight because you\u2019ve been hurt.<\/p>\n

Forse il motivo per il suo imbroglio<\/a> Forse ha a che fare con il vostro matrimonio. Ma il fatto \u00e8 che forse \u00e8 sinceramente dispiaciuto e si pente di ci\u00f2 che ha fatto. Forse c'\u00e8 un modo per risolvere la situazione.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s why you have to sleep on it. Let some time pass before you decide what to do by judging from the way he acts and whether he is sorry or not.<\/p>\n

2. Pensare a se stessi<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Use this time, until you reach a decision, to take care of yourself. Don\u2019t let the pain destroy you. You have to keep it together because there is an important decision before you.<\/p>\n

Infidelity can cause you to overeat or stop eating, to have insomnia or all kinds of other disorders. Don\u2019t let it affect your well-being.<\/p>\n

3. Cercare di scoprire il motivo per cui l'ha fatto.<\/h2>\n

\"Donna<\/p>\n

Cerca di andare a fondo della questione. Forse l'ha fatto semplicemente perch\u00e9 lo voleva. Forse \u00e8 cos\u00ec sconsiderato<\/a> e l'infedelt\u00e0 \u00e8 qualcosa che lo eccita. In questo caso, non c'\u00e8 nulla che possiate fare.<\/p>\n

But on the other hand, maybe there is something he is lacking from you. Maybe something happened to him when he was a child and he\u2019s been traumatized and now he\u2019s seeking approval from a random woman.<\/p>\n

Whatever the reason is, you have to find it out to be able to decide what\u2019s next, whether you\u2019ll leave or give him another chance<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Correlato: Marito dominante: 10 modi per essere l'alfa del vostro matrimonio<\/a><\/p>\n

4. Chiedere aiuto<\/h2>\n

\"Giovane<\/p>\n

There is nothing wrong with asking for help when you need it. Talk to your friends, the people who won\u2019t judge you, and ask them what they think of the situation you\u2019re in.<\/p>\n

Or if he agrees to it (and he probably will), try couples counseling. Try talking to a professional who knows what they\u2019re doing. Maybe they will help you find the solution which is best for the both of you.<\/p>\n

5. Siate onesti con i vostri figli<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Children see everything. Even if they don\u2019t know what is going on, they know that something is wrong. Don\u2019t be the bad guy and shut them out. They are also a part of the family and they have a right to know what\u2019s going on.<\/p>\n

This way, if you tell them, you\u2019re going to be able to talk to them and assure them that they are going to be loved the same as before and that everything will be okay, one way or another.<\/p>\n

Cambiate l'approccio a seconda dell'et\u00e0 e la cosa pi\u00f9 importante \u00e8 non mentirgli mai.<\/p>\n

6. Don\u2019t communicate with the other woman<\/h2>\n

\"giovane<\/p>\n

You have nothing to say to her. It\u2019s not your responsibility. This goes especially if he wants you to do his dirty work for him. Don\u2019t go down that road.<\/p>\n

He made the mess and he has to clean it up. If you do it for him, it won\u2019t teach him responsibility and he\u2019ll know that every time he screws things up, he\u2019ll have you to clean up after him.<\/p>\n

7. Ci vuole tempo per guarire e fidarsi di nuovo<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

If you stay with him, don\u2019t expect everything to be normal right away. You won\u2019t trust him for a long time. Even if he is the best husband ever, you still won\u2019t trust him.<\/p>\n

Il tempo deve passare e bisogna fare pace con il fatto che ti ha tradito<\/a>. You\u2019ll be stressed for a long time and a lot of things you see or do will remind you of the fact that he cheated on you.<\/p>\n

Questo \u00e8 il processo di elaborazione del lutto che dovete affrontare. Dovete arrabbiarvi, piangere e alla fine farete pace con lui. Ma solo se vedete che \u00e8 veramente dispiaciuto e che si pente di aver fatto la cosa pi\u00f9 stupida che potesse fare.<\/p>\n

Correlato: Perch\u00e9 i mariti traditori restano sposati? 12 motivi pi\u00f9 comuni<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n

8. Pro e contro<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Siate pratici. Controllate le finanze e la situazione abitativa. Verificate se avete la possibilit\u00e0 di lasciarlo perch\u00e9, prima di farlo, assicuratevi di avere un posto dove vivere e abbastanza soldi per occuparvi delle cose essenziali.<\/p>\n

9. Either learn to forgive…<\/h2>\n

\"coppia<\/p>\n

You have to decide what you want. You can\u2019t live in-between because that gets you nowhere. If you\u2019re going to forgive him, do it.<\/p>\n

Ma quando lo si fa, non si pu\u00f2 pi\u00f9 tornare indietro. Non c'\u00e8 da assillarsi e da rivangare il passato.<\/p>\n

10. \u2026 or just leave<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

If you see and feel in your heart that the fact he cheated on you will always bother you, that whenever he goes out you\u2019ll wonder if he is with another woman, then do yourself a favor and leave.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s better to be single and happy than sposato e infelice<\/a>.<\/p>\n

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