{"id":2369,"date":"2017-07-10T09:34:28","date_gmt":"2017-07-10T09:34:28","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=2369"},"modified":"2021-08-12T13:42:13","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T13:42:13","slug":"smetti-di-fare-8-cose-solo-tu-sei-gentile","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/smetti-di-fare-8-cose-solo-tu-sei-gentile\/","title":{"rendered":"Smettete di fare queste 8 cose solo perch\u00e9 siete troppo gentili"},"content":{"rendered":"

I bet people have the tendency to use you for their own benefits and you let them because you are too nice to say ‘no’.<\/p>\n

Smettetela di farlo! Non sei altro che uno zerbino per loro.<\/p>\n

Granting people\u2019s every wish (because you\u2019re too nice) will only lead to making you feel like crap while others won’t give a damn about you or your feelings. The only thing in their interest is their personal gain.<\/p>\n

You?\u2014You get screwed.<\/p>\n

By filtering out unnecessary human leeches, you won\u2019t lose the \u2018nice side\u2019 of your personality, and moreover, you will save your dignity.<\/p>\n

Quindi, smettete di assecondare tutti quelli che vi circondano e smettete di fare le seguenti cose:<\/p>\n

1. You\u2019re avoiding confrontation<\/span><\/h2>\n

If you notice there is the slightest chance of a possible confrontation, you will run like hell. You simply won\u2019t let yourself face these situations because you are too nice to say anything \u2018inappropriate\u2019.<\/p>\n

You\u2019d rather keep your mouth shut than say something hurtful, even if that person deserved it.<\/p>\n

2. You\u2019re making excuses for other people<\/span><\/h2>\n

Di solito, quando qualcuno si approfitta della vostra gentilezza<\/a>, you won\u2019t admit it. You will make excuses for them. You will find a way to justify their behavior and thus you will justify yours.<\/p>\n

Smettete di dare loro nuove opportunit\u00e0 per continuare ad approfittarsi di voi.<\/p>\n

3. You\u2019re holding back your feelings<\/span><\/h2>\n

Devi dare sfogo ai tuoi sentimenti<\/a> otherwise you will explode. You\u2019re so afraid you might hurt someone by telling them how you feel, so you repress those emotions and you bottle them up.<\/p>\n

The only thing that can happen if you continue doing this is\u2014you\u2019re going to harm yourself.<\/p>\n

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\"Giovane<\/p>\n

4. You don\u2019t know how to say \u2018NO\u2019<\/span><\/h2>\n

Whether during a night out or in the middle of the day on the street, if someone approaches you and starts hitting on you, you won\u2019t say \u2018no\u2019\u2014even if you\u2019re completely uninterested.<\/p>\n

You\u2019ll try to figure out a nice, polite way to blow him off, but at the end of the day, he will be going home with your phone number. HOW?!<\/p>\n

5. You\u2019re taking the blame<\/span><\/h2>\n

You have no problems with taking the responsibility for the things someone else did. Either it\u2019s taking the blame for someone else\u2019s doings or apologizing for someone else.<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t even think about these things\u2014you just do them.<\/p>\n

6. Siete una persona che piace alle persone<\/span><\/h2>\n

You have the constant need to make people happy. At the end of the day, there is always going to be someone who will have a problem with you and you won\u2019t make them happy. You simply can\u2019t make everyone happy.<\/p>\n

Affrontate la cosa!<\/p>\n

Vedi anche:\u00a0<\/strong>10 Signs You Are a People Pleaser and Why It\u2019s Not Benefiting You<\/a><\/p>\n

7. Pensate che tutti siano gentili come voi<\/span><\/h2>\n

Just because you radiate with kindness, doesn\u2019t mean other people do, too. On the contrary, there are very mean and nasty people out there\u2014the ones who don\u2019t hide it and the ones who hide it perfectly.<\/p>\n

Smettete di vivere nella negazione e aprite gli occhi per vedere la verit\u00e0.<\/p>\n

8. You\u2019re the last one on your list<\/span><\/h2>\n

The biggest problem you have is that you\u2019re putting other people\u2019s need before your own. You can\u2019t fix everything. You are human, as we all are.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t sacrifice your life to improve someone else\u2019s\u2014ALL THE TIME.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

I bet people have the tendency to use you for their own benefits and you let them because you are too nice to say ‘no’. STOP doing this! You are nothing but a doormat to them. Granting people\u2019s every wish (because you\u2019re too nice) will only lead to making you feel like crap while others…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":20,"featured_media":2370,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29637],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-2369","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-life-hacks"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29637,"label":"life hacks"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/fabian-blank-67320-min.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Christine Keller","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/christine\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29637,"name":"life hacks","slug":"life-hacks","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29637,"taxonomy":"category","description":"When life gives you lemons - make lemonade, and allow these life hacks to remind you of your strength, potential, and the right to be happy.","parent":22911,"count":281,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29637,"category_count":281,"category_description":"When life gives you lemons - make lemonade, and allow these life hacks to remind you of your strength, potential, and the right to be happy.","cat_name":"life hacks","category_nicename":"life-hacks","category_parent":22911}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2369","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/20"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=2369"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2369\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/2370"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=2369"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=2369"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=2369"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}