{"id":2373,"date":"2020-09-10T09:51:32","date_gmt":"2020-09-10T09:51:32","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=2373"},"modified":"2021-08-12T11:28:01","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T11:28:01","slug":"ragazza-forte-lunga","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/ragazza-forte-lunga\/","title":{"rendered":"Alla ragazza che \u00e8 stata troppo forte per troppo tempo"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Lei \u00e8 unico nel suo genere. E questo mondo dovrebbe sentirsi orgoglioso di avere una persona come te.<\/p>\n<p>Siete la roccia su cui tutti possono contare o appoggiarsi, ma soprattutto potete sempre contare su voi stessi.<\/p>\n<p>Perch\u00e9 sei un guerriero. Unico nel suo genere.<\/p>\n<p>The little secret is you\u2019ve been through the worst and you\u2019re still there. You\u2019re still standing.<\/p>\n<p><strong> You\u2019ve been brave so many times. <\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Because that was your only option in life. You stood up to everything that scared you and you\u2019ve confronted it.<\/p>\n<p><b> Ma ora hai paura. <\/b><\/p>\n<p>Because you don\u2019t want to stay alone. Because you don\u2019t want to be your own rock forever. You need another person to be to you what you are to others.<\/p>\n<p>Non perch\u00e9 siano una cosa essenziale per la vostra vita, ma perch\u00e9 sarebbe molto pi\u00f9 facile e molto pi\u00f9 bello attraversare la vita con qualcuno che vi capisce.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-119484 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/a-portrait-of-a-desperate-young-woman.jpg\" alt=\"il ritratto di una giovane donna disperata\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/a-portrait-of-a-desperate-young-woman.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/a-portrait-of-a-desperate-young-woman-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/a-portrait-of-a-desperate-young-woman-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/a-portrait-of-a-desperate-young-woman-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/a-portrait-of-a-desperate-young-woman-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/a-portrait-of-a-desperate-young-woman-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/a-portrait-of-a-desperate-young-woman-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/a-portrait-of-a-desperate-young-woman-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Probably nobody ever told you this, but you are allowed to cry. It doesn\u2019t mean you are weak and it\u2019s not a sign of your weakness, it\u2019s proof you\u2019ve been strong for too long.<\/p>\n<p><b> You had everyone\u2019s back. <\/b><\/p>\n<p>No matter who came knocking at your door, he\u2019d find comfort in you. No matter how many people needed you, <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/love\/10-signs-people-pleaser-not-benefiting\/\">you\u2019ve always found a way to meet their needs<\/a> e di essere presente per loro.<\/p>\n<p>Siete il migliore amico di tutti i migliori amici e sapevano di poter contare su di voi.<\/p>\n<p>Sei la ragazza pi\u00f9 forte della tua famiglia e non sei quella che consola, ma quella a cui le persone si rivolgono quando hanno bisogno di qualcuno di forte.<\/p>\n<p><b>But when you needed people they weren\u2019t there.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Because they don\u2019t know when you need them. Unlike you, they can\u2019t notice little signs and the thing with strong people is they\u2019re never asked if they are OK.<\/p>\n<p>They\u2019re never offered any kind of help because they\u2019ve proven one too many times to people that they are strong enough to do it on their own.<\/p>\n<p><b>Non state cercando un cavaliere.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-119485 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/an-attractive-African-American-woman-standing-in-a-wheat-field.jpg\" alt=\"un&#039;attraente donna afroamericana in piedi in un campo di grano\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/an-attractive-African-American-woman-standing-in-a-wheat-field.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/an-attractive-African-American-woman-standing-in-a-wheat-field-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/an-attractive-African-American-woman-standing-in-a-wheat-field-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/an-attractive-African-American-woman-standing-in-a-wheat-field-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/an-attractive-African-American-woman-standing-in-a-wheat-field-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/an-attractive-African-American-woman-standing-in-a-wheat-field-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/an-attractive-African-American-woman-standing-in-a-wheat-field-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/an-attractive-African-American-woman-standing-in-a-wheat-field-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>You aren\u2019t looking for anyone to save you. You are not looking for anyone to solve your problems and you\u2019re not expecting anything from others because you know better.<\/p>\n<p><b> State cercando la vostra spada. <\/b><\/p>\n<p>You\u2019re looking for the tools to fight your own battles. You are always trying to grow to be able to take care of yourself and you don\u2019t even have the slightest idea how people admire you.<\/p>\n<p>Il fatto \u00e8 che <b> La vita non \u00e8 mai stata facile per te.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Non eri quello che otteneva facilmente qualcosa. Non hai mai ottenuto nulla senza lottare.<\/p>\n<p>Dovevi sempre dimostrare il tuo valore e dovevi lottare per ottenere tutto ci\u00f2 che volevi nella vita, perch\u00e9 era l'unico modo per avere le cose che volevi.<\/p>\n<p>Per questo motivo, spesso venivate percepiti come freddi e altro.<\/p>\n<p><b> Ma si va sempre avanti. <\/b><\/p>\n<p>Whenever life threw a curveball at you, you\u2019ve always managed to hit it hard and score a homerun.<\/p>\n<p><b>Anche voi vi stancate.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-119486 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/a-depressed-blonde-sits-on-the-sofa.jpg\" alt=\"una bionda depressa siede sul divano\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/a-depressed-blonde-sits-on-the-sofa.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/a-depressed-blonde-sits-on-the-sofa-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/a-depressed-blonde-sits-on-the-sofa-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/a-depressed-blonde-sits-on-the-sofa-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/a-depressed-blonde-sits-on-the-sofa-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/a-depressed-blonde-sits-on-the-sofa-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/a-depressed-blonde-sits-on-the-sofa-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/a-depressed-blonde-sits-on-the-sofa-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Tu <a href=\"http:\/\/www.walkingtheshoreline.com\/youre-tired-always-strong-one\/\" rel=\"noopener\">stancarsi di essere sempre forti<\/a>. You get tired of people always expecting something of you and you get tired of people constantly just taking and taking things from you\u2014your love, time, and whatever else they need.<\/p>\n<p><b> Eppure vi alzate ogni mattina. <\/b><\/p>\n<p>Vi alzate con il sorriso. Vi alzate ogni mattina con pi\u00f9 coraggio, pronti ad affrontare la giornata.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s your way to say to life: \u201cI am ready. Whatever you have for me, bring it on!\u201d<\/p>\n<p><b>Si guarda la sfida negli occhi e si fa l'occhiolino.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>Hai difficolt\u00e0 a trovare uomini degni di te.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Because you don\u2019t play with boys. You don\u2019t need <i> solo <\/i> anybody because that\u2019s not how things work for you.<\/p>\n<p>Hai bisogno di un uomo forte che ti gestisca.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-119487 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/a-portrait-of-a-smiling-African-American-woman.jpg\" alt=\"ritratto di una donna afroamericana sorridente\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/a-portrait-of-a-smiling-African-American-woman.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/a-portrait-of-a-smiling-African-American-woman-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/a-portrait-of-a-smiling-African-American-woman-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/a-portrait-of-a-smiling-African-American-woman-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/a-portrait-of-a-smiling-African-American-woman-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/a-portrait-of-a-smiling-African-American-woman-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/a-portrait-of-a-smiling-African-American-woman-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/a-portrait-of-a-smiling-African-American-woman-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><b> Cos\u00ec, trovate il valore che cercate in voi stessi. <\/b><\/p>\n<p>Anche se sarebbe bello avere un uomo in grado di soddisfare le vostre esigenze, voi siete gi\u00e0 abbastanza. Siete pi\u00f9 che sufficienti e siete degni di stare da soli.<\/p>\n<p>You are one of those girls who were not born half but whole so when you\u2019re seen alone, nobody dares to ask, \u201cWhere is your other half?\u201d.<\/p>\n<p><b>Anche quando la vita ti colpisce duramente<\/b> , when life throws sticks and stones at you, when you fall down to the point that you can\u2019t go lower, when every other person would give up on life and everything else&#8230; <b>you stand firm and you make others wonder how come you\u2019re still smiling. <\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>You do the thing called \u2018what <\/b><b><i>I<\/i><\/b><b> want\u2019 and you build a firm foundation with the bricks thrown at you.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><i> It&#8217;s OK if you fall down and lose your spark. Just make sure that when you get back up, you rise as the whole damn fire.<\/i><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-119488 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/To-The-Girl-Who-Has-Been-Too-Strong-For-Too-Long-Pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"Alla ragazza che \u00e8 stata troppo forte per troppo tempo\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/To-The-Girl-Who-Has-Been-Too-Strong-For-Too-Long-Pinterest.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/To-The-Girl-Who-Has-Been-Too-Strong-For-Too-Long-Pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/To-The-Girl-Who-Has-Been-Too-Strong-For-Too-Long-Pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/To-The-Girl-Who-Has-Been-Too-Strong-For-Too-Long-Pinterest-768x1152.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/To-The-Girl-Who-Has-Been-Too-Strong-For-Too-Long-Pinterest-150x225.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>You are one of a kind. And this world should feel proud to have someone like you. You are the rock who anybody can rely or lean on but more importantly, you can always count on yourself. Because you are a warrior. One of a kind. The little secret is you\u2019ve been through the worst&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":41,"featured_media":119483,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29653],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-2373","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-letters"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29653,"label":"letters"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/To-The-Girl-Who-Has-Been-Too-Strong-For-Too-Long-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Martha Sullivan","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/martha-sullivan\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29653,"name":"letters","slug":"letters","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29653,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Regardless if you're looking for moving on, romantic, emotional, or open letters on various topics, you can be sure that you'll find it all here. 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