{"id":23945,"date":"2020-03-07T07:55:09","date_gmt":"2020-03-07T07:55:09","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=23945"},"modified":"2022-01-05T16:50:41","modified_gmt":"2022-01-05T16:50:41","slug":"il-flirt-e-un-tradimento-7-modi-per-essere-infedeli-senza-nemmeno-saperlo","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/il-flirt-e-un-tradimento-7-modi-per-essere-infedeli-senza-nemmeno-saperlo\/","title":{"rendered":"Flirtare \u00e8 tradire? 7 modi per essere infedeli senza accorgersene"},"content":{"rendered":"<h2>Flirt innocuo: Fino a che punto \u00e8 troppo?<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-78961\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/man-flirting-with-woman-in-the-bar.jpg\" alt=\"uomo che flirta con una donna al bar\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/man-flirting-with-woman-in-the-bar.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/man-flirting-with-woman-in-the-bar-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/man-flirting-with-woman-in-the-bar-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Uomini e donne hanno opinioni distinte su <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/6-cose-che-contano-come-tradimento-anche-se-non-sono-fisiche\/\"> cosa si intende per imbroglio <\/a> e ci\u00f2 che non lo \u00e8.<\/p>\n<p>There are liberal people who are okay if their partner flirts with others, and they don\u2019t see anything bad about it.<\/p>\n<p>But, on the other hand, there are people who see flirting as cheating, and if their partner did that, they probably wouldn\u2019t be okay with it.<\/p>\n<p>There are people who believe that harmless flirting could never do severe damage to a relationship and destroy their significant other with that emotional affair , but that would be a huge blow to their partner&#8217;s self-esteem .<\/p>\n<p>I traditori sono estremamente ingegnosi quando si tratta di trovare scuse per il loro comportamento discutibile che \u00e8 coperto di bandiere rosse (se si aprono gli occhi su di esse).<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-78964\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/man-flirting-with-sexy-woman.jpg\" alt=\"uomo che flirta con una donna sexy\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/man-flirting-with-sexy-woman.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/man-flirting-with-sexy-woman-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/man-flirting-with-sexy-woman-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>They may say it&#8217;s just silly banter , but in reality, it is an emotional connection that is going to result in an eventual break up .<\/p>\n<p>Il divertimento innocuo raramente \u00e8 solo questo. Non esiste un tipo di flirt in cui l'interesse sessuale \u00e8 nullo.<\/p>\n<p>In a healthy relationship , you work on your sex life if it needs to be worked on, and you don&#8217;t just flirt around, hoping to catch that high with another person.<\/p>\n<p>Una relazione sentimentale \u00e8 una relazione impegnata.<\/p>\n<p>This person is your best friend , and even if it&#8217;s just &#8216;harmless&#8217; texting with a colleague of the opposite sex, think hard on how it may be perceived by your partner. He might see it as one of the legit <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/20-segni-inequivocabili-di-simpatia-per-un-collega-che-vuole-qualcosa-di-piu\/\">Segni di simpatia per un collega<\/a> (e voi ricambiate).&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>At the end of the day , like I always say in my own relationship : never do things to your partner that you wouldn&#8217;t be okay with them doing to you. It&#8217;s as simple as that.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-78966\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/woman-looking-at-man-in-cafe.jpg\" alt=\"donna che guarda un uomo in un caff\u00e8\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/woman-looking-at-man-in-cafe.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/woman-looking-at-man-in-cafe-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/woman-looking-at-man-in-cafe-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s time to take responsibility for your actions and realize once and for all that just because you feel a certain vibe with an attractive woman who isn&#8217;t your partner, it doesn&#8217;t make it okay to engage in any kind of flirting .<\/p>\n<p>Se avete una relazione monogama, dovete rispettarne la sacralit\u00e0. La prima volta che decidete di flirtare potrebbe essere solo l'inizio di qualcosa di pi\u00f9 grave.<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s in human nature to be curious, but it&#8217;s also important to control your illicit impulses.<\/p>\n<p>Molte persone trovano che il flirt del proprio partner sia estremamente preoccupante, ma non direbbero mai nulla.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;ve contacted many relationship experts in hopes of finding out where that line really is and help people not to cross it ever again.<\/p>\n<p>That\u2019s why I decided to make a list of the most common ways people actually cheat without even knowing it.<\/p>\n<p>And now I\u2019ve made it, you can check it and see for yourself how thin the line really is and if you\u2019re about to cross it.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline reset\">Messaggi su diversi social media<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-78973\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/happy-woman-looking-at-phone.jpg\" alt=\"donna felice che guarda il telefono\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/happy-woman-looking-at-phone.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/happy-woman-looking-at-phone-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/happy-woman-looking-at-phone-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Al giorno d'oggi tutti noi utilizziamo diversi siti di social media per rimanere in contatto con i nostri amici e conoscenti, e non c'\u00e8 nulla di sbagliato in questo.<\/p>\n<p>I messaggi di testo e Snapchat sono diventati la nostra seconda natura.<\/p>\n<p>Ma il problema \u00e8 che alcune persone sconosciute possono comparire nell'elenco dei contatti. Magari c'\u00e8 un ragazzo a cui piaci molto e che ti manda un messaggio su un sito di social media.<\/p>\n<p>Volete essere gentili, quindi gli rispondete con un messaggio e in un batter d'occhio lui vi chiede cosa indossate e vi dice che gli piacerebbe stare con voi in questo momento.<\/p>\n<p>Poi ti rendi conto di quello che \u00e8 appena successo, cancelli tutti i suoi messaggi e lo blocchi.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Essere vicini a un collega<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-78970\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/young-people-working-together.jpg\" alt=\"giovani che lavorano insieme\" width=\"800\" height=\"530\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/young-people-working-together.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/young-people-working-together-300x199.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/young-people-working-together-768x509.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Tutti abbiamo un collega che ci fa sentire meglio e ci dimostra che non tutto \u00e8 cos\u00ec bianco o nero. Ma il problema \u00e8 fino a che punto ci si spinge in una relazione con loro.<\/p>\n<p>Il vostro lavoro \u00e8 solo professionale o parlate di cose profondamente private con i vostri colleghi?<\/p>\n<p>\u00c8 qualcuno che viene da voi alla fine di una giornata di lavoro per massaggiarvi il torcicollo e accompagnarvi a casa?<\/p>\n<p>Oppure avete un rapporto strettamente professionale e lavorate insieme?<\/p>\n<p>Le relazioni con i colleghi di lavoro possono essere molto complicate, perch\u00e9 all'improvviso pu\u00f2 accadere qualcosa di grave.<\/p>\n<p>Maybe you think that the guy you are sitting with in the office doesn\u2019t find you attractive, but maybe he fantasizes about you all day long.<\/p>\n<p>So, be careful how you act in the office, and don\u2019t forget it is a place where a job needs to be done.<\/p>\n<p>Ma non quella a cui state pensando in questo momento.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Messaggi regolari con il vostro ex<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-78971\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/woman-typing-on-phone.jpg\" alt=\"donna che scrive al telefono\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/woman-typing-on-phone.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/woman-typing-on-phone-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/woman-typing-on-phone-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>I really don\u2019t understand people who still have contact with their ex. He cheated on you and hurt you, but you still text him every day to check up on him.<\/p>\n<p>Yeah, right. I mean, there are people who decided to separate in a nice way because they realized they didn\u2019t have anything in common.<\/p>\n<p>And reaching out to their ex from time to time is quite okay if their new partner doesn\u2019t have any problem with that.<\/p>\n<p>But if you are talking to your ex on a daily basis and then deleting your texts because you don\u2019t want your partner to see them, you have a problem.<\/p>\n<p>Siete consapevoli del fatto che il vostro partner si sentirebbe ferito se vedesse quei messaggi, ma lo fate lo stesso. E anche se pensate che non sia un problema, in realt\u00e0 si tratta di un tradimento.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Condividere la propria intimit\u00e0 con qualcuno<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-78976\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/couple-cuddling-in-bed.jpg\" alt=\"coppia che si coccola a letto\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/couple-cuddling-in-bed.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/couple-cuddling-in-bed-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/couple-cuddling-in-bed-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>So che il tradimento fisico \u00e8 piuttosto grave, ma potete solo immaginare come si senta il tradimento emotivo per una persona che frequentate da molto tempo.<\/p>\n<p>Se il vostro cuore \u00e8 diviso in due parti, dove in una parte c'\u00e8 il vostro attuale partner e nell'altra met\u00e0 c'\u00e8 una persona con cui avete fatto clic, temo che stiate tradendo.<\/p>\n<p>Non state dando tutto voi stessi al vostro partner, ma state condividendo la vostra intimit\u00e0 con qualcun altro, e vi sentite bene.<\/p>\n<p>E anche se pensate che sia giusto farlo, immaginate come vi sentireste se il vostro partner lo facesse a voi.<\/p>\n<p>It wouldn\u2019t feel good, right? I know people like to make bonds with other people as well as their partner, but there are things that should be kept just for them.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Condividere le proprie fantasie sessuali con qualcuno che non sia il proprio partner<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-78978\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/tattoo-man-cuddling-with-woman.jpg\" alt=\"tatuaggio uomo che coccola la donna\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/tattoo-man-cuddling-with-woman.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/tattoo-man-cuddling-with-woman-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/tattoo-man-cuddling-with-woman-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>It is often said that cheating doesn\u2019t happen when we want it but when the situation is right.<\/p>\n<p>Forse amate davvero il vostro partner, ma con un paio di bicchieri di vino in pi\u00f9 vi ritrovate a parlare delle vostre fantasie sessuali con uno sconosciuto incontrato quella sera.<\/p>\n<p>Se state immaginando come vi piacerebbe andare a letto con qualcuno che non sia il vostro partner e se vi divertite a pensarci, \u00e8 considerato un tradimento.<\/p>\n<p>Se si dispone gi\u00e0 di alcuni <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/life\/le-10-principali-fantasie-sessuali-di-tutti-gli-uomini\/\"> fantasie sessuali <\/a> Allora dovreste provarle con il vostro partner e non con una persona a caso incontrata al bar quella sera.<\/p>\n<p>So, don\u2019t find excuses for being a bit drunk or for going through a rough period in your relationship; if you really love someone, you would never do something like this to them.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Si passa molto tempo a parlare con qualcuno<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-78979\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/couple-talking-in-cafe-1.jpg\" alt=\"coppia che parla in un caff\u00e8\" width=\"800\" height=\"530\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/couple-talking-in-cafe-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/couple-talking-in-cafe-1-300x199.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/couple-talking-in-cafe-1-768x509.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>It can be sitting in a caf\u00e9 and talking or it can be messaging on social media sites, but if you spend more time with someone who is not your partner than with them, it means you are on a slippery slope .<\/p>\n<p>You don\u2019t even have to exchange some flirty texts with someone. The fact that you are spending more time with them than with your man says enough.<\/p>\n<p>In realt\u00e0 state mettendo quella persona al primo posto e volete essere presenti ogni volta che ha bisogno di parlarvi.<\/p>\n<p>Pensate a come si sentirebbe il vostro partner se gli confessaste che vi piace di pi\u00f9 passare il tempo con qualcun altro che con lui.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Lo si fa con le intenzioni sbagliate<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-78980\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/smiling-woman-flirting-with-man.jpg\" alt=\"donna sorridente che flirta con un uomo\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/smiling-woman-flirting-with-man.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/smiling-woman-flirting-with-man-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/smiling-woman-flirting-with-man-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Se flirtate con tutti quelli che incontrate solo perch\u00e9 la situazione a casa non \u00e8 delle migliori, state gi\u00e0 tradendo.<\/p>\n<p>\u00c8 solo questione di tempo quando il tradimento avverr\u00e0 o diventer\u00e0 fisico.<\/p>\n<p>Se non siete soddisfatti del vostro matrimonio o della vostra relazione, potete cercare di risolvere il problema e non peggiorarlo ulteriormente.<\/p>\n<p>Nobody deserves to be cheated on and if you are doing it on purpose, then you really don\u2019t deserve someone who will love you unconditionally.<\/p>\n<p>Lo scopo di una relazione non \u00e8 quello di sparire quando il gioco si fa duro. Quando le cose non sono perfette come all'inizio della vostra relazione, fate qualcosa.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t give up just because of one problem. Remember why you chose that person in the first place, and don\u2019t do anything that could hurt them.<\/p>\n<p>\u00c8 il minimo che si meritano dopo aver accettato di condividere la loro vita con voi.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-78955\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/Is-Flirting-Cheating-7-Ways-To-Be-Unfaithful-Without-Even-Knowing-It-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"Il flirt \u00e8 un tradimento 7 modi per essere infedeli senza nemmeno saperlo\" width=\"735\" height=\"1102\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/Is-Flirting-Cheating-7-Ways-To-Be-Unfaithful-Without-Even-Knowing-It-pinterest.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/Is-Flirting-Cheating-7-Ways-To-Be-Unfaithful-Without-Even-Knowing-It-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/Is-Flirting-Cheating-7-Ways-To-Be-Unfaithful-Without-Even-Knowing-It-pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 735px) 100vw, 735px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Harmless Flirting: How Far Is Too Far? Men and women have separate opinions about what is considered to be cheating and what is not. There are liberal people who are okay if their partner flirts with others, and they don\u2019t see anything bad about it. But, on the other hand, there are people who see&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":78981,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29626],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-23945","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-affair"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29626,"label":"affair"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/Is-Flirting-Cheating-7-Ways-To-Be-Unfaithful-Without-Even-Knowing-It.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29626,"name":"affair","slug":"affair","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29626,"taxonomy":"category","description":"If you want to learn more about affairs, here you'll learn about different types of infidelity, how affairs happen, how to recognize a cheater, and more.","parent":29620,"count":132,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29626,"category_count":132,"category_description":"If you want to learn more about affairs, here you'll learn about different types of infidelity, how affairs happen, how to recognize a cheater, and more.","cat_name":"affair","category_nicename":"affair","category_parent":29620}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/23945","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=23945"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/23945\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/78981"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=23945"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=23945"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=23945"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}