{"id":24030,"date":"2020-03-21T11:19:07","date_gmt":"2020-03-21T11:19:07","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=24030"},"modified":"2022-02-27T14:24:24","modified_gmt":"2022-02-27T14:24:24","slug":"alla-ragazza-che-si-e-stancata-di-essere-sempre-forte","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/alla-ragazza-che-si-e-stancata-di-essere-sempre-forte\/","title":{"rendered":"Alla ragazza che si era stancata di essere sempre forte"},"content":{"rendered":"

Da quando hai memoria, sei sempre stato il duro. Quella forte e coraggiosa. Quella che riusciva sempre a sopportare qualsiasi cosa la vita le mettesse davanti.<\/b><\/p>\n

L'unico che conosceva il modo migliore per affrontare ogni possibile sfida e problema.<\/p>\n

La persona a cui tutti si rivolgevano quando avevano bisogno di una guida o di una rassicurazione.<\/p>\n

You were known as a girl who always comes out stronger from every situation which should have destroyed her. As the girl who can\u2019t be hurt.<\/p>\n

Come la ragazza che risorge sempre come una fenice dalle ceneri. Come una ragazza che pu\u00f2 sopportare letteralmente tutto.<\/p>\n

Come una persona che sa come affrontare qualsiasi dolore emotivo. Come una ragazza che non ha mai avuto il cuore spezzato.<\/p>\n

But these days, you feel like you can\u2019t take it anymore. You feel like you\u2019ve had too much of everything and like you just need a break from the world.<\/b><\/p>\n

A break from all the pain you\u2019ve been dealing with in silence. A break from all the people who expect too much from you.<\/p>\n

A break from all the burdens you\u2019ve been carrying for too long. You feel like you need a break from being strong.<\/p>\n

Because you got too tired. Actually, you are exhausted. And I\u2019m not talking about physical exhaustion here.<\/b><\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Siete mentalmente esausti e vi sentite come se il vostro cuore, la vostra anima e la vostra mente stessero per crollare a causa di tutto il peso che il mondo ha messo su di loro.<\/b><\/p>\n

S\u00ec, essendo un'azienda indipendente Femmina alfa<\/a> \u00e8 grande. Spesso le persone ammirano tutto ci\u00f2 di cui siete capaci.<\/p>\n

Ammirano la vostra forza e il vostro coraggio. Ammirano il fatto che non permettiate mai a nessuno di trattenervi o di mettervi in difficolt\u00e0.<\/p>\n

They admire the fact that you never give up and that you don\u2019t need anyone to complete you.<\/p>\n

Che non avete mai bisogno che qualcuno vi stia accanto e che siete pi\u00f9 che capaci di affrontare la vita da soli.<\/p>\n

But, you feel like putting up with this image of a badass gal has become too hard for you. You feel like you can\u2019t take it anymore and that you\u2019ll break into million pieces anytime soon.<\/p>\n

You are tired of meeting people\u2019s expectations. Stanchi di essere al servizio degli altri. Stanchi di essere sorvegliati e <\/b>duro<\/b><\/a>. <\/b><\/p>\n

Stanchi di sorridere nonostante il dolore e stanchi di indossare una maschera di fronte al mondo intero. Siete stanchi di combattere.<\/b><\/p>\n

Siete stanchi di dire a tutti che state bene, anche quando vi sentite morire dentro.<\/b><\/p>\n

\"Due<\/p>\n

Tired of being everybody\u2019s shoulder to cry on, even on the days when you can\u2019t make yourself feel better. Tired of looking after others when there is no one to take care of you.<\/b><\/p>\n

And this is exactly what you need\u2014someone to take care of you. Someone to hold your hand when things get rough. Someone to listen to you and to tell you that everything will be just right.<\/p>\n

Qualcuno che vi ami al meglio e al peggio. You need someone who will catch you whenever you feel like you\u2019ll fall and someone who will pick you up whenever you feel like you\u2019ll break.<\/b><\/p>\n

Well, let me tell you one thing\u2014there is nothing wrong with craving for something and someone like this. There is nothing wrong in feeling like you\u2019ve had too much and like you can\u2019t take it anymore.<\/b><\/p>\n

Because being vulnerable doesn\u2019t make you helpless. Not being tough all the time doesn\u2019t make you weak. <\/b> Avere bisogno di qualcuno che ti ami e che si prenda cura di te non \u00e8 una cosa di cui vergognarsi.<\/p>\n

This doesn\u2019t mean that you\u2019ve become someone you swore you\u2019d never become. It doesn\u2019t mean that you\u2019ve betrayed the girl you\u2019ve always been.<\/p>\n

Dovete ricordare che anche voi siete un essere umano. Che siete fatti di carne e sangue e che avete anche emozioni e un cuore di cui dovete prendervi cura.<\/b><\/p>\n

Remember\u2014you are allowed to feel all the things you\u2019ve been feeling lately. Vi \u00e8 permesso essere esausti e stanchi. E soprattutto, vi \u00e8 permesso chiedere aiuto. <\/b><\/p>\n

Because that doesn\u2019t make you any less of a <\/b>donna forte<\/b><\/a> di voi.<\/b> <\/p>\n

\"Alla<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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