There is only one thing they want from you. It\u2019s your energy, your capability to make them happy. It\u2019s called a \u2018narcissistic supply\u2019 and for as long they are getting it from you, they will stick around.<\/p>\n
Se interrompete la fornitura, passeranno alla vittima successiva e si comporteranno come se non vi avessero mai incontrato, cosa che vi renderebbe molto felici.<\/p>\n
After so much bullying, because narcissists are indeed bullies, the only thing you\u2019d want is for them to leave you alone.<\/p>\n
Perch\u00e9 rifornisce un narcisista?<\/strong><\/p>\n You\u2019re not doing it on purpose. It is in human nature (at least most humans) to help others when they need it, especially if we\u2019re talking about someone close to you, a loved one.<\/p>\n You\u2019re completely going to ignore your needs and run to save someone you love. Whether it\u2019s your child, or any of your family members, that\u2019s the thing your instinct will make you do.<\/p>\n Now, the man you\u2019ve sadly fallen in love with happens to be a narcissist. Of course, you could never see that coming. He was charming, a real piece of work. And that, of course, also changed over time.<\/p>\n All that charm and kind of suspiciously good behavior disappeared overnight, and he showed his true colors. B then, though, it was too late. You\u2019d already loved him, and you couldn\u2019t just walk away.<\/p>\n This is their game. This is what they do best. They fool you long enough to fall for them, and then they start terrorizing you because they know you won\u2019t leave that easily.<\/strong><\/p>\n Poich\u00e9 lo amavate, pensavate di poterlo aiutare. Questo \u00e8 stato il vostro pi\u00f9 grande errore, ed \u00e8 cos\u00ec che lo avete rifornito.<\/p>\n Every time he did something awful, every time he hurt you, you backed down and showed compassion. You fed him enough energy to keep on living until he runs out. Then he\u2019d do it all over again.<\/p>\n Per disarmarlo e sfuggirgli, bisogna essere pi\u00f9 intelligenti di lui. Devi essere pi\u00f9 preparato, e intendo dire preparato a tutto.<\/p>\n Ci sono alcuni tipi di narcisisti<\/a>e non tutti si comportano allo stesso modo. Che ci crediate o no, ci sono narcisisti che sembrano essere timidi alla prima impressione, narcisisti che hanno una relazione solo per i soldi, o quelli tradizionali, classici, che fingono di essere qualcosa che non sono.<\/p>\n You have to define what type of narcissist you\u2019re dealing with in order to learn everything about his behavior, to try to understand why he does certain things and why he acts the way he acts.<\/p>\n Devi imparare il suo gioco se vuoi batterlo. Devi essere un passo avanti a lui.<\/p>\n This is not an easy step to do. You\u2019ll have to swallow your pride and put up with a lot of shit to complete this one. It\u2019s not easy, and not everyone has the nerve and courage to complete it.<\/p>\n What you have to do is to shut up, agree with everything they say, practically make him think that everything is fine and continue playing his game, but don\u2019t let him doubt your commitment to him.<\/p>\n Don\u2019t make him doubt that you\u2019re doing all of this just to get his mind off of the fact that you might leave him. You have to fool him into thinking that everything\u2019s fine, and it has never been better.<\/p>\n When you have everything planned out and when you\u2019ve firmly decided that you can leave him and never see him again, then do it.<\/p>\n Ma prima dovete trovare un posto dove vivere, assicurarvi di avere un sostegno e di essere circondati da persone che vi amano.<\/p>\n Decidete quali sono i vostri limiti, ma c'\u00e8 un'altra cosa che dovete fare.<\/p>\n Since narcissists have the power to twist everything you\u2019ve said and to convince you that some things which actually happened didn\u2019t\u2014or they happened differently from what you are claiming\u2014the smartest thing would be if you write down your boundaries, so he doesn\u2019t trick you into thinking something else.<\/p>\n This way, you have written on a piece of paper exactly what you\u2019ve said, and no one can convince you otherwise.<\/p>\nChe tipo di narcisista \u00e8<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\nFingere che tutto vada bene<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\nE al momento giusto lasciare<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\nStabilire i confini<\/h2>\n
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