{"id":24099,"date":"2020-03-24T09:08:37","date_gmt":"2020-03-24T09:08:37","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=24099"},"modified":"2022-01-17T23:17:22","modified_gmt":"2022-01-17T23:17:22","slug":"15-cose-che-ho-imparato-dopo-essermi-liberata-da-una-relazione-tossica","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/15-cose-che-ho-imparato-dopo-essermi-liberata-da-una-relazione-tossica\/","title":{"rendered":"15 cose che ho imparato dopo essermi liberato da una relazione tossica"},"content":{"rendered":"

1. A volte l'amore non basta.<\/strong><\/p>\n

2. You listen to people who love you. At the time, you didn’t listen. You loved him more than anything, and you thought your best friend was overreacting. It turned out, they were right all along. Now you know better. Now you know they were only trying to help you.<\/p>\n

3. You have to set boundaries. You can\u2019t let anyone have control over you. When you say something, stick to it; otherwise, they\u2019ll walk all over you.<\/p>\n

4. Words don\u2019t mean anything. They are only spoken to give false hope. He did that to me all the time. He promised all kinds of thing just to calm and fool me. Words don\u2019t mean anything. Actions are what counts.<\/p>\n

5. Forgiveness is a blessing. You can\u2019t stay mad forever. The sooner you forgive yourself and make peace with what happened, the better you\u2019re going to heal. It\u2019s the hardest and most important lesson I\u2019ve learned.<\/p>\n

6. Don\u2019t put yourself at stake just to save a relationship that is actually not worth saving. Nothing will go down the drain. Life won’t stop if you break up with him. On the contrary, things will be better, and you\u2019ll be happier. Nothing is worth destroying yourself over.<\/p>\n

7. Dealing with difficult people gets easier. You\u2019re not going to make the same mistake again. Next time, you\u2019ll see all the signs, and you won\u2019t shut your eyes and go for it. No, your heart is too precious for that.<\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

8. If there is only one person who cares in the relationship, then you know there\u2019s something wrong with that picture. Don\u2019t even bother to stay and find out what\u2019s next. It\u2019s pain.<\/p>\n

9. Combattete per una relazione che ne valga la pena. After you\u2019ve been in a toxic relationship<\/a>, you know what it feels like to be at rock bottom, and that\u2019s why you\u2019ll give it your all to fight for the relationship that is worth it.<\/p>\n

10. Take care of yourself. After you\u2019ve been around someone who never gave a fuck about how you feel and who always thought of you as less important, it\u2019s essential that you take care of yourself. Bring back your confidence and devote all the time in the world to yourself until you get better. Do. it.<\/p>\n

11. Your gut is not lying to you. You felt that something was wrong at the beginning, but you didn\u2019t want to admit it because you were having a great time. You didn\u2019t think about the future, but it turned out that the future bit you in the face. If you feel that something\u2019s wrong, then it probably is.<\/p>\n

12. Don\u2019t compromise on everything. Set rules, and be clear about what can be changed and what cannot. This may look a bit selfish, but it\u2019s not. It\u2019s just taking care of yourself.<\/p>\n

13. Your beliefs shouldn\u2019t change. You should stay the same, and your perception and moral codes should never change. If a man loves you, he\u2019ll respect you for who you are, and he won\u2019t try to change any of those things. He\u2019ll embrace them.<\/p>\n

14. Love yourself. Learn to take care of yourself and finally put yourself first. Do things you love and things that make you happy because life is shit if you aren\u2019t happy. And you get only one, so\u2026<\/p>\n

15. You can\u2019t change someone and make them a better person. You can see the potential in someone, but you can\u2019t innamorarsi del potenziale<\/a>. Bisogna innamorarsi di una persona cos\u00ec com'\u00e8.<\/strong><\/p>\n

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1. Sometimes, love is just not enough. 2. You listen to people who love you. At the time, you didn’t listen. You loved him more than anything, and you thought your best friend was overreacting. It turned out, they were right all along. Now you know better. Now you know they were only trying to…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":20,"featured_media":85335,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29625],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-24099","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-toxic-relationship"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29625,"label":"toxic relationship"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/15-Things-Ive-Learned-After-Breaking-Free-From-A-Toxic-Relationship.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Christine Keller","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/christine\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29625,"name":"toxic relationship","slug":"toxic-relationship","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29625,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Are you in a toxic relationship without even knowing it? What should you do if you find yourself in one? Here's all you need to know!","parent":29620,"count":228,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29625,"category_count":228,"category_description":"Are you in a toxic relationship without even knowing it? What should you do if you find yourself in one? Here's all you need to know!","cat_name":"toxic relationship","category_nicename":"toxic-relationship","category_parent":29620}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/24099","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/20"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=24099"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/24099\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/85335"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=24099"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=24099"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=24099"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}