{"id":2411,"date":"2020-07-10T12:38:45","date_gmt":"2020-07-10T12:38:45","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=2411"},"modified":"2021-08-12T11:47:39","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T11:47:39","slug":"amore-lasciati-andare","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/amore-lasciati-andare\/","title":{"rendered":"Ti amo, ma devo lasciarti andare"},"content":{"rendered":"

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Caro \"Amore Indeterminato\",<\/i><\/p>\n

I remember the first time we met. I didn\u2019t like you that much. It was weird. I didn\u2019t like you but I had the unbearable need to be around you.<\/p>\n

Ogni piccola cosa che dicevi mi dava sui nervi. Ogni piccola cosa che facevi mi infastidiva. Ma nonostante ci\u00f2, volevo starti vicino.<\/p>\n

Maybe that should have been my first clue not to meddle with you. But I never listen to what my life has to say. If I want something, I\u2019ll take it at all costs.<\/p>\n

And I wanted you\u2026<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

So, I got you\u2026<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

It\u2019s crazy though\u2014we were really meant to be. We were equals, we listened to the same music, we had the same desires, and we shared the same dream. We were simply meant to be\u2014perfect for each other!<\/p>\n

\"Una<\/p>\n

L'unico problema ero io. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Then, we had the chance to walk away from each other if we didn\u2019t agree on something. Back then, you couldn\u2019t see my faults and I couldn\u2019t see yours.<\/p>\n

We were young and foolish, thinking that what we had was enough\u2014thinking it was all there is to it. But of course, it wasn\u2019t.<\/p>\n

Ce ne siamo resi conto quando ci siamo sposati e abbiamo iniziato a vivere insieme. \u00c8 stato allora che sono iniziati i veri problemi. \u00c8 stato allora che la vita vera ci ha colpito duramente, dritto in faccia. \u00c8 stato allora che abbiamo imparato cosa significa veramente essere adulti.<\/p>\n

Vedi anche: <\/strong>Ci sono 5 fasi dell'amore, ma purtroppo molte coppie si fermano alla fase 3<\/a><\/p>\n

You realized I had some problems. Heck, I realized I had some problems. In the past, nothing could have made me stay in the same place and with the same person if I didn\u2019t want to for any reason. Up to this point\u2014a point with you\u2014I was able to run away every time my f**ked up psyche kicked in.<\/p>\n

This time I didn\u2019t want to run away but I had to. Something, buried deep inside me, made me run away, sad to be leaving you.<\/p>\n

\"ragazza<\/p>\n

I never realized I always laid the blame on others when it was me all the time. And while all of this kept happening I always had the ticket out\u2014with no attachments and no regrets.<\/p>\n

But now I had you. I loved you. I still do. But I can\u2019t be with you.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

I will ruin your life. I will unconsciously prevent you from living your dream because I\u2019m too selfish. I really tried to get it out of my head but I simply can\u2019t. It is eating me alive and I can\u2019t help it. I\u2019m aware of it and yet I can\u2019t make it go away.<\/p>\n

I can\u2019t understand the old soul you are. Hardly anyone can understand you. But, I\u2019m not blaming you. I\u2019m blaming others and especially me for being so narrow-minded\u2014for not being able to appreciate the beautiful person you are.  That\u2019s why I have to let you go because I\u2019m slowly ruining your life. I don\u2019t want that.<\/p>\n

Maybe one day you will find someone who knows how to act around you and with you\u2014someone who knows how to love you and not to cause you pain at the same time. That someone is not me. I love you but my love is hurting you really badly.<\/p>\n

\"coppia<\/p>\n

I see it every day. I see it in the way you behave. You\u2019re unhappy. We both are. We love each other but we are unhappy. Talk about irony\u2026<\/p>\n

Come \u00e8 possibile una cosa del genere?<\/i><\/p>\n

My love, I\u2019m writing you this with tears in my eyes and an endless storm in my head. Forgive me my love for causing you pain; I was simply trying to love you.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Ma ho fallito.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

I will never stop loving you. I\u2019m sorry.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Goodbye\u2026<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

\"Ti<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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