{"id":24115,"date":"2020-04-24T09:35:35","date_gmt":"2020-04-24T09:35:35","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=24115"},"modified":"2021-08-12T08:10:37","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T08:10:37","slug":"le-vere-differenze-tra-essere-innamorati-e-amare-qualcuno","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/le-vere-differenze-tra-essere-innamorati-e-amare-qualcuno\/","title":{"rendered":"Le vere differenze tra essere innamorati e amare qualcuno"},"content":{"rendered":"

Mi capitava di confondere questi due termini, come immagino sia capitato anche alla maggior parte di voi. Si confondono facilmente. Non solo come termini, ma anche come sentimenti.<\/p>\n

Ho sprecato cos\u00ec tanto tempo a piangere per degli uomini che non sono mai stati giusti per me, tanto per cominciare.<\/p>\n

I truly believed that by losing them, I lost love. I couldn’t have been more wrong.<\/p>\n

It wasn\u2019t until I met my persona per sempre<\/a> che ho capito davvero la differenza tra essere innamorati e amare qualcuno. <\/b><\/em><\/p>\n

Nulla di ci\u00f2 che ho provato prima pu\u00f2 avvicinarsi a ci\u00f2 che provo ora.<\/b><\/em><\/p>\n

You see, \u2018being in love\u2019 is a form of an addiction we feel towards someone. We are so carried away by them that they are all we can think about.<\/p>\n

Vogliamo essere vicini a loro il pi\u00f9 spesso possibile.<\/p>\n

\u2018Loving somebody\u2019 is what we have when reality kicks in when our hormones stop going wild. It\u2019s not an addiction; it\u2019s reality.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s about mutual happiness and growth. It\u2019s about complimenting each other\u2019s lives. It\u2019s the best thing in the world.<\/p>\n

To make everything clearer, let\u2019s look at the 6 differences between being in love and loving someone:<\/p>\n

L'innamoramento avviene involontariamente, ma amare qualcuno avviene per scelta<\/h2>\n

\"uomo<\/p>\n

Falling in love is beyond our control. It\u2019s about chemistry, lust and infatuation. It\u2019s about idealizing the other person and putting them on a pedestal.<\/p>\n

Loving somebody is what comes after all the infatuation, chemistry and lust. It\u2019s an emotional connection we form.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s not about looking at your partner as a form of perfection. It\u2019s knowing that they are flawed and loving them anyway.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s about choosing to stay even when the sunshiny days pass.<\/p>\n

Essere innamorati \u00e8 una questione di convenienza, mentre amare una persona significa darle priorit\u00e0<\/h2>\n

\"coppia<\/p>\n

Being in love is needing somebody to fulfill your needs. It\u2019s being there when it\u2019s convenient.<\/p>\n

Loving, on the other hand, is selfless. It\u2019s not just about taking; it\u2019s about giving, too.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s about making time for someone. It\u2019s about enjoying the sole fact that your better half is present. It\u2019s about making them feel important.<\/p>\n

Essere innamorati pu\u00f2 essere bisognoso, mentre amare qualcuno non lo \u00e8 mai.<\/h2>\n

\"coppia<\/p>\n

It\u2019s in our human nature to have all kind of expectations from people. It\u2019s the same when we are in love. We expect a person to behave in a certain manner.<\/p>\n

Per esempio, potremmo volere che chiamino o mandino messaggi 24 ore su 24, 7 giorni su 7. Potremmo aspettarci grandi gesti romantici e continue dimostrazioni d'affetto.<\/p>\n

However, the reality might be different. That\u2019s why our aspettative non soddisfatte<\/a> sono i motivi pi\u00f9 comuni di rottura.<\/p>\n

Loving someone is about compatibility. It\u2019s about mutual understanding. It\u2019s about not having to hear from each other 24\/7 but still knowing that you are loved.<\/p>\n

Loving somebody is all about trust while being in love doesn\u2019t have to be<\/h2>\n

\"coppia<\/p>\n

Being in love can also be full of uncertainties. We don\u2019t have to feel safe or completely trust the other person to fall in love with them. We just fall and hope that they will catch us.<\/p>\n

Il vero amore, tuttavia, si basa sulla fiducia. Non c'\u00e8 spazio per l'incertezza o la gelosia. Ci sentiamo al sicuro nel loro abbraccio e vogliamo che loro provino la stessa cosa per noi.<\/p>\n

Essere innamorati significa possedere, mentre amare qualcuno significa liberarlo.<\/h2>\n

\"coppia<\/p>\n

L'innamoramento spesso ci d\u00e0 l'idea sbagliata di essere in debito con un'altra persona. Che ci appartenga.<\/p>\n

Le teniamo troppo strette perch\u00e9 sono le principali artefici della nostra felicit\u00e0.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s why sometimes we sabotage our own chances for finding true love. We force the feelings. We suffocate our partners by wanting them too close.<\/p>\n

Loving someone is about giving them the freedom to love you back. It\u2019s not about trying too hard to keep them in your life.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s about loving them no matter whether they are by your side or not.<\/p>\n

True love should flow, and you should never have to beg for anyone’s attention, affection or presence in your life. It\u2019s about working as a team and growing together.<\/p>\n

Being in love doesn\u2019t have to last while love can be eternal<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Being in love can last for a shorter or a longer period of time, but it has its end. It\u2019s based on infatuation, lust, brain chemicals that give us that addicting feeling of desire.<\/p>\n

Love doesn\u2019t wear off. It doesn\u2019t decrease. It doesn\u2019t fade. L'amore rimane<\/a> no matter what. It\u2019s constant even though the honeymoon phase of the relationship is ancient history.<\/p>\n

In the end, it\u2019s important to remember that under no circumstances, being in love and loving someone excludes self-love.<\/b><\/em><\/p>\n

Al contrario, lo accoglie. Solo quando ci si ama, ci si accetta e ci si apprezza veramente, si \u00e8 in grado di dare gli stessi sentimenti puri a un'altra persona.<\/b><\/em><\/p>\n

\"Le<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

I used to mix up these two terms as I imagine most of you have as well. They are so easily mistaken. Not only as terms, but also as feelings. I wasted so much time crying over some men who were never right for me to begin with. I truly believed that by losing them,…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":53,"featured_media":84249,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29614],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-24115","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-love-talks"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29614,"label":"love talks"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/True-Differences-Between-Being-In-Love-And-Loving-Someone.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Ariel Quinn","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/ariel\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29614,"name":"love talks","slug":"love-talks","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29614,"taxonomy":"category","description":"What is love? How does it affect us? How to know someone loves you or show someone you love them? What types of love are there? Learn all that and much more.","parent":38,"count":426,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29614,"category_count":426,"category_description":"What is love? How does it affect us? How to know someone loves you or show someone you love them? What types of love are there? Learn all that and much more.","cat_name":"love talks","category_nicename":"love-talks","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/24115","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/53"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=24115"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/24115\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":163574,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/24115\/revisions\/163574"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/84249"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=24115"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=24115"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=24115"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}