{"id":24258,"date":"2020-06-25T11:11:40","date_gmt":"2020-06-25T11:11:40","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=24258"},"modified":"2021-08-11T12:05:33","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T12:05:33","slug":"6-cose-che-i-ragazzi-fanno-e-che-sembrano-losche-ma-che-in-realta-sono-innocue","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/6-cose-che-i-ragazzi-fanno-e-che-sembrano-losche-ma-che-in-realta-sono-innocue\/","title":{"rendered":"6 cose che i ragazzi fanno e che sembrano losche ma sono davvero innocue"},"content":{"rendered":"

Al giorno d'oggi \u00e8 facile diventare eccessivamente sospettosi o addirittura paranoici. Siamo abituati ad avere a che fare con uomini che si comportano in modo losco.<\/p>\n

So we search for red flags even when there aren\u2019t any.<\/p>\n

Vediamo segni di imbroglio a ogni angolo. Purtroppo, le nostre esperienze negative o quelle delle persone che ci circondano ci hanno insegnato a pensare in questo modo.<\/p>\n

Il pi\u00f9 delle volte saltiamo a pi\u00e8 pari. Arriviamo a conclusioni basate su azioni che spesso possono essere fuorvianti.<\/p>\n

Sabotiamo le nostre relazioni perch\u00e9 abbiamo paura di essere traditi e quindi vediamo minacce ovunque.<\/p>\n

Si tratta di cose che sembrano losche ma che in realt\u00e0 sono innocue:<\/p>\n

1. Impiega molto tempo per rispondere a un testo<\/h2>\n

\"6Inizierete automaticamente a creare diversi scenari. \u00c8 con un'altra donna? Che cosa sta facendo? Ha perso interesse<\/a>? I pensieri rimbombano nella vostra testa.<\/p>\n

In realt\u00e0, potrebbe semplicemente dormire. Pensateci, i ragazzi hanno la tendenza ad addormentarsi pi\u00f9 velocemente di quanto possiate contare fino a tre.<\/p>\n

Se sapete che \u00e8 cos\u00ec, non c'\u00e8 da preoccuparsi.<\/p>\n

Also, not getting an immediate response might signify that he actually works for a living or has friends and family he talks to, so don\u2019t give it too much thought.<\/p>\n

2. A volte copre il telefono<\/h2>\n

\"6This is usually a bad sign and not good at all if it happens all the time. But if it\u2019s just sometimes, odds are he is watching something embarrassing and he is too ashamed to show you.<\/p>\n

Also, he might be in the middle of a private conversation with one of his guy friends and he doesn\u2019t want to share that friend\u2019s business with you.<\/p>\n

Even though this looks pretty bad, don\u2019t overreact unless you believe you have a reason to. There is a huge difference between things that happen all the time and just sometimes.<\/p>\n

3. Frequentate sempre la vostra casa e mai la sua.<\/h2>\n

\"6Of course, your instincts are telling you that there is some shady business going on there. But it usually isn\u2019t as shady as you think.<\/p>\n

If you have been dating for a brief while, he is probably too embarrassed to say that he lives with his mother or a bunch of roommates because he can\u2019t afford his own place or that he is messy as hell.<\/p>\n

Sono tutte cose molto imbarazzanti da ammettere per un uomo. Quindi, dopo aver pensato che sia passato abbastanza tempo, chiedetegli apertamente di dirvi perch\u00e9 non avete mai visto casa sua.<\/p>\n

4. Trascorre molto tempo in compagnia dei suoi amici.<\/h2>\n

\"6Forse anche pi\u00f9 di quanto faccia con voi. Ma c'\u00e8 davvero da preoccuparsi?<\/p>\n

Li conosce da pi\u00f9 tempo di voi, li apprezza e probabilmente \u00e8 molto socievole.<\/p>\n

L'unica cosa di cui dovreste preoccuparvi \u00e8 che vi cancelli all'ultimo minuto o che abbandoni un appuntamento perch\u00e9 ha qualcosa di meglio da fare con i suoi amici.<\/p>\n

That kind of behavior should never be tolerated. You should be at the top, not at the bottom, of his priority list. Don\u2019t let him ti prende per i fondelli.<\/a><\/p>\n

5. He hasn’t introduced you to \u2018his people\u2019<\/h2>\n

\"6If he spends a lot of his time with his friends and you don\u2019t know them yet, that doesn\u2019t have to set alarm bells ringing. Ask yourself if you\u2019ve been dating long enough to get to the phase of introductions.<\/p>\n

The same goes for his family members; maybe he believes that the relationship is still in its beginning stages and he thinks it\u2019s too soon.<\/p>\n

Also, he might not have a good relationship with his family and doesn\u2019t want to get you involved<\/p>\n

But if enough time passes and he has not introduced you to his people, whether we\u2019re talking about his friends or family, it\u2019s time to talk to him because something is off and if he isn\u2019t cheating, he just might not be ready for a serious relationship.<\/p>\n

6. Non dorme mai a casa tua<\/h2>\n

\"6Se tutti gli altri aspetti della vostra relazione funzionano, non c'\u00e8 da preoccuparsi. Se avete appena fatto sesso, vi siete coccolati un po' e lui dice che sta andando a casa a dormire, \u00e8 probabile che sia cos\u00ec.<\/p>\n

Men are very practical and they will go to sleep in their own bed because they are used to it or because it\u2019s more convenient for them to get to work.<\/p>\n

If you were to do the same it wouldn\u2019t hurt them so they don\u2019t see what all the fuss is about.<\/p>\n

If you immediately start to think that he just replaced your bed with some other woman\u2019s bed, you are probably wrong.<\/p>\n

Even though most men like to brag about how many times they can have sex in one night, it\u2019s just pure words. Anything more than once is usually too much for them.<\/p>\n

All in all, think before you react. Nobody’s perfect and all of us have some behaviors that might look shady at first but are harmless in their essence.<\/p>\n

Openly talk to him and see what his deal is. Don\u2019t attack him for cheating or not being into you if you don\u2019t know the whole story.<\/p>\n

Ragazzi bravi e corretti<\/a> out there shouldn\u2019t pay for the sins of all the liars and cheaters of the world.<\/p>\n

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It\u2019s easy to become overly suspicious or even paranoid these days. We are used to guys who are shady AF. So we search for red flags even when there aren\u2019t any. We see signs of cheating at every corner. Sadly, our bad experiences or the experiences of the people around us have taught us to…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":42,"featured_media":24268,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29646],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-24258","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-understanding-men"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29646,"label":"understanding men"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/jez-timms-305915-unsplash.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Selma June","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/selmajune\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29646,"name":"understanding men","slug":"understanding-men","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29646,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Wondering about what's going on inside his head? Or do you need explanations for his actions? Learn to understand men, and your life will become easier.","parent":29643,"count":570,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29646,"category_count":570,"category_description":"Wondering about what's going on inside his head? Or do you need explanations for his actions? Learn to understand men, and your life will become easier.","cat_name":"understanding men","category_nicename":"understanding-men","category_parent":29643}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/24258","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/42"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=24258"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/24258\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/24268"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=24258"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=24258"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=24258"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}