{"id":2436,"date":"2019-07-11T10:42:17","date_gmt":"2019-07-11T10:42:17","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=2436"},"modified":"2021-08-24T13:25:38","modified_gmt":"2021-08-24T13:25:38","slug":"lamore-unilaterale-non-merita","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/lamore-unilaterale-non-merita\/","title":{"rendered":"L'amore unilaterale non \u00e8 quello che vi meritate"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u201c…unrequited love does not die; it’s only beaten down to a secret place where it hides, curled and wounded. For some unfortunates, it turns bitter and mean, and those who come after pay the price for the hurt done by the one who came before.\u201d<\/i><\/b> \u2013 Elle Newmark<\/span><\/p><\/blockquote>\n

Dear \u201cWhoever is reading this\u201d,<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

A love that is a one-way street in which you are steering the wheel is not what you deserve. It’s not what anyone deserves.<\/span><\/p>\n

Maybe it\u2019s hard for you to understand and admit to yourself that you are l'unico nella vostra relazione che se ne frega.<\/a> I get it. I\u2019ve been there. I\u2019ve felt that.  <\/span><\/p>\n

Esso <\/span>IS<\/span><\/i> hard, but as soon as you stop fooling yourself into believing things are great and that they couldn\u2019t be better, it is going to be easier for you to finally understand you\u2019re <\/span>MISERABILE<\/span><\/i>.   <\/span><\/p>\n

Prima ve ne renderete conto, prima vi sar\u00e0 risparmiato il dolore paralizzante di un amore unilaterale.<\/span><\/p>\n

Se pensate di essere bloccati in quel circolo vizioso in cui si d\u00e0 amore e non lo si riceve indietro, tiratevi fuori e aprite gli occhi.<\/span><\/p>\n

Ti meriti di meglio.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

L'amore unilaterale \u00e8 una tortura.<\/h2>\n

It\u2019s giving yourself entirely to someone who is totally indifferent. It\u2019s the constant fear that someone will leave you because their eyes are blank, empty when they look at you.<\/span><\/p>\n

Everyone\u2019s eyes are windows of their souls and one simple look will tell you how they actually feel about you.<\/span><\/p>\n

Don\u2019t deceive yourself into thinking they care for you when you see they don\u2019t. By doing that, you are only torturing yourself.<\/span><\/p>\n

Parlando per esperienza, so che \u00e8 difficile affrontare il fatto che la vostra relazione non sta andando da nessuna parte. Siete disposti a fare qualsiasi cosa in vostro potere per farla funzionare, ma purtroppo siete gli unici.<\/span><\/p>\n

Ti meriti di meglio.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

L'amore unilaterale \u00e8 uno strazio.<\/h2>\n

It\u2019s seeing people are as cold as ice while you are burning up with all the love you have to give.<\/span><\/p>\n

Voi siete disposti a fare il passo pi\u00f9 lungo della gamba per loro, mentre loro si rifiutano di fare un piccolo passo. <\/span>Isn’t that selfish?<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

You are left with the void in your heart and there\u2019s no one there to fill it. It\u2019s as if they are so bored, so they decided to kill some time by being in a relationship with you.<\/span><\/p>\n

\"Ragazza<\/p>\n

That leaves someone crying (you) and someone smiling (them). You are the one left to cry and you know they are not worth your tears, but you still don\u2019t give up on them and your relationship because you care too much when you shouldn’t.  <\/span><\/p>\n

Ti meriti di meglio.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

L'amore unilaterale sta distruggendo la vostra autostima.<\/h2>\n

You might deny this while it\u2019s happening, but when it\u2019s all over, you are left broken and alone. You will probably not be able to love someone that way anytime soon.<\/span><\/p>\n

A causa della sua mancanza di apprezzamento, si rimane in dubbio, <\/span>\u201cWhat did I do wrong? I gave him everything, why couldn\u2019t he love me back?\u201d<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

Gli avete mandato messaggi, li avete portati a cene romantiche, gli avete comprato regali e lasciato biglietti carini, ma tutto ci\u00f2 che avete ottenuto in cambio \u00e8 stato un affetto pietoso durato circa 3 secondi.<\/span><\/p>\n

Dopo di che, la loro indifferenza ha ripreso vita. Ecco quanto vi apprezzano.  <\/span><\/p>\n

Mi chiedo: come reagirebbero se assaggiassero la loro stessa medicina? Se c'\u00e8 un po' di giustizia nell'universo, avranno la possibilit\u00e0 di assaggiarla, solo per vedere come vi sentivate e cosa stavate passando.<\/span><\/p>\n

Per quanto vi riguarda, mettete in ghiaccio la loro indifferenza e schiacciatela, perch\u00e9 nessuno ha il diritto di farvi dubitare di voi stessi.<\/span><\/p>\n

Ti meriti di meglio.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

L'amore unilaterale \u00e8 una strada a senso unico.<\/h2>\n

There is always one person who is doing all the work and the other one who lays back and enjoys. It shouldn’t be like that. The two of you should be equals. It’s the only way for a relationship to work\u2014to grow into a life-time partnership.<\/span><\/p>\n

You are the one who is left to choose where you are going to go on a date. You are the one who is initiating all your conversations because if it weren\u2019t for you, uncomfortable silence would dominate.<\/span><\/p>\n

They aren\u2019t able to feel the awkwardness between the two of you because they couldn\u2019t care less.<\/span><\/p>\n

Siete voi a dare il via a queste relazioni, mentre in realt\u00e0 dovreste lavorare insieme.<\/span><\/p>\n

Ti meriti di meglio.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

Vedi anche: <\/strong>6 veri segni che lo amate molto pi\u00f9 di quanto lui ami voi<\/a><\/p>\n

L'amore unilaterale \u00e8 un'ossessione.<\/h2>\n

Being in a one-sided relationship is a 24\/7 job. You won\u2019t quit because you love them and you are giving your best to prove it to them, hoping that things will change. But they won’t and somewhere deep inside, you know that, but you won’t admit it.<\/span><\/p>\n

They have you by their side, but they don\u2019t respect you. They don\u2019t have a problem with making you lose your mind over the success of your relationship. They are turning you into an obsessive maniac.  <\/span><\/p>\n

Real love is not one-sided, it\u2019s reciprocated. Save yourself the trouble if that isn\u2019t the case in your relationship.<\/span><\/p>\n

You will end up obsessing over the fact your relationship is getting sick and you haven\u2019t got the cure to heal it.<\/span><\/p>\n

La vostra relazione \u00e8 una nave che sta affondando e dovete lasciarla per salvarvi.<\/span><\/p>\n

Ti meriti di meglio.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

L'amore unilaterale vi sta facendo perdere la fede.<\/h2>\n

How can it be that one person would sacrifice anything to make a relationship work, while the other one couldn\u2019t care less?<\/span><\/p>\n

Perch\u00e9 queste persone insensibili si impegnano con voi se tutto ci\u00f2 che vi lasceranno \u00e8 una perdita di fiducia nelle persone?<\/span><\/p>\n

Come puoi fidarti di qualcuno dopo che qualcuno ti ha preso in giro?<\/span><\/p>\n

Dovete reagire in tempo e porre fine alla relazione prima che vi paralizzi.<\/span><\/p>\n

Ti meriti di meglio.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

\"Ragazza<\/p>\n

L'amore unilaterale \u00e8 una battaglia.<\/h2>\n

It\u2019s your battle\u2014the one you are struggling with on the inside. One moment you feel you are about to win, and the next moment you are surrendering and counting your dead.<\/span><\/p>\n

You’ve finally realized they don\u2019t reciprocate your love, but you can\u2019t help yourself from trying because you love them.<\/span><\/p>\n

At the end of the day, the ball is in your court. You have the power to end it, so you won\u2019t suffer, but do you have the guts to do it?<\/span><\/p>\n

Certo che s\u00ec, perch\u00e9 voi siete migliori di cos\u00ec.<\/span><\/i><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

\u201c…unrequited love does not die; it’s only beaten down to a secret place where it hides, curled and wounded. For some unfortunates, it turns bitter and mean, and those who come after pay the price for the hurt done by the one who came before.\u201d \u2013 Elle Newmark Dear \u201cWhoever is reading this\u201d, A love…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":53,"featured_media":2437,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29614],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-2436","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-love-talks"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29614,"label":"love talks"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/toa-heftiba-84798.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Ariel Quinn","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/ariel\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29614,"name":"love talks","slug":"love-talks","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29614,"taxonomy":"category","description":"What is love? How does it affect us? How to know someone loves you or show someone you love them? What types of love are there? Learn all that and much more.","parent":38,"count":426,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29614,"category_count":426,"category_description":"What is love? How does it affect us? How to know someone loves you or show someone you love them? What types of love are there? Learn all that and much more.","cat_name":"love talks","category_nicename":"love-talks","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2436","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/53"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=2436"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2436\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/2437"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=2436"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=2436"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=2436"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}