{"id":24561,"date":"2020-05-27T08:09:51","date_gmt":"2020-05-27T08:09:51","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=24561"},"modified":"2021-08-12T10:18:41","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T10:18:41","slug":"11-segni-che-sta-tenendo-aperte-le-opzioni","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/11-segni-che-sta-tenendo-aperte-le-opzioni\/","title":{"rendered":"11 Segni che sta mantenendo aperte le sue opzioni"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Non parlare di etichette \u00e8 diventata una specie di tendenza al giorno d'oggi.<\/p>\n<p>Potreste trovarvi nella situazione in cui state frequentando qualcuno da mesi e non sapete ancora se siete esclusivi o meno.<\/p>\n<p>That\u2019s where assumptions kick in. You assume that if he is the only one you are seeing and you don\u2019t need anybody else, that he feels and acts the same.<\/p>\n<p>But without having \u201cthe talk\u201d, you really don\u2019t know if you are the only woman in his life. Don\u2019t assume, and get to the bottom of things.<\/p>\n<p>Verificate i segnali elencati di seguito e stabilite se sta mantenendo aperte le sue opzioni.<\/p>\n<p>Keep in mind that these signs individually don\u2019t mean much, but if he is ticking most of the boxes, you are probably not the only woman he is dating:<\/p>\n<h2>1. Si trattiene<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-86247\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/close-up-photo-of-man-and-woman-separated-hands-1.jpg\" alt=\"foto ravvicinata di un uomo e una donna con le mani separate\" width=\"800\" height=\"541\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/close-up-photo-of-man-and-woman-separated-hands-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/close-up-photo-of-man-and-woman-separated-hands-1-300x203.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/close-up-photo-of-man-and-woman-separated-hands-1-768x519.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>He is still keeping you at an arm&#8217;s length. He doesn\u2019t seem too eager to open up and let you closer.<\/p>\n<p>You mostly talk about you or some other topics that don\u2019t include him or the two of you as a couple. Whatever you have, it won\u2019t progress any further until he lets you in.<\/p>\n<p>La possibilit\u00e0 di condividere e confidarsi con qualcuno \u00e8 ci\u00f2 che distingue una vera relazione da un appuntamento.<\/p>\n<p>Se vi siete aperti con lui sperando che seguisse il vostro esempio, ma non avete ottenuto nulla, \u00e8 probabile che non sia come <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/7-ways-know-youre-serious-relationship\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">seriamente su di te<\/a>u come volete che sia.<\/p>\n<h2>2. Scrive solo testi<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-86242\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/man-typing-on-his-laptop.jpg\" alt=\"uomo che scrive sul suo computer portatile\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/man-typing-on-his-laptop.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/man-typing-on-his-laptop-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/man-typing-on-his-laptop-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s easier to use texts, especially during the initial phases of dating when you are still getting to know one another.<\/p>\n<p>Ma se questo comportamento continua e se non ricevete altro che pochi messaggi qua e l\u00e0, c'\u00e8 qualcosa che dovrebbe farvi preoccupare.<\/p>\n<p>Un uomo che tiene solo a voi prender\u00e0 il telefono e chiamer\u00e0 per sentire la vostra voce o far\u00e0 una videochiamata per vedervi di tanto in tanto.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s easier to bond this way and make more profound connections\u2014that is if you want them.<\/p>\n<h2>3. Usa termini generici per descrivere i suoi piani<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-86233\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/angry-man-talking-with-his-upset-girlfriend.jpg\" alt=\"uomo arrabbiato che parla con la sua fidanzata sconvolta\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/angry-man-talking-with-his-upset-girlfriend.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/angry-man-talking-with-his-upset-girlfriend-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/angry-man-talking-with-his-upset-girlfriend-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Of course, he\u2019ll have other plans, and he won\u2019t be glued to you 24\/7. But pay attention to the way he explains his whereabouts.<\/p>\n<p>More often than not, you have no clue what he is up to. He has \u201ca family thing\u201d, \u201csomething at work\u201d, \u201csome errands to run\u201d, \u201csomething a friend needs help with\u201d, etc.<\/p>\n<p>Oltre a essere vago sui suoi spostamenti, non li racconta mai pi\u00f9 in seguito.<\/p>\n<p>He never shares where he\u2019s been, what he\u2019s done or how it went. It makes you wonder, doesn\u2019t it?<\/p>\n<h2>4. Ha l'abitudine di cancellare i piani all'ultimo minuto.<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-86249\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/man-having-phone-call-1.jpg\" alt=\"uomo che fa una telefonata\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/man-having-phone-call-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/man-having-phone-call-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/man-having-phone-call-1-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Things happen. Fife is unpredictable, and it\u2019s only natural that plans are going to get moved or canceled sometimes. Sometimes yes, but not most of the time.<\/p>\n<p>If he is juggling a few women at once, it can be pretty hard to manage his schedule. That\u2019s why he gets lost in all of it.<\/p>\n<p>Prestate attenzione. Se gli altri comportamenti sembrano un po' fuori luogo, c'\u00e8 sicuramente un motivo per essere preoccupati.<\/p>\n<h2>5. He doesn\u2019t add you on his social media accounts<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-86248\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/two-woman-and-one-man-using-their-phone-1.jpg\" alt=\"due donne e un uomo che usano il telefono\" width=\"800\" height=\"542\"><\/p>\n<p>Si possono scoprire molte cose su un ragazzo sfogliando i suoi account sui social media.<\/p>\n<p>That\u2019s why a guy who is keeping his options open will try to leave you out of it. He will come up with some great and convincing story.<\/p>\n<p>He might say he usually doesn\u2019t add people he dates, that social media complicates things and creates jealousy or something down that lane.<\/p>\n<p>The odds are he is trying to sell that story to other women, too, and it\u2019s easier to date a few people at once when they have lesser chances of finding out about one another.<\/p>\n<h2>6. Non lascia mai il telefono incustodito<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-86235\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/close-up-photo-of-man-putting-his-phone-in-pocket.jpg\" alt=\"foto ravvicinata di un uomo che mette il telefono in tasca\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/close-up-photo-of-man-putting-his-phone-in-pocket.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/close-up-photo-of-man-putting-his-phone-in-pocket-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/close-up-photo-of-man-putting-his-phone-in-pocket-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>His phone has a better protection system than the Pentagon, and you wouldn\u2019t be able to get in even if you wanted to.<\/p>\n<p>Tuttavia, non ha mai lasciato il telefono vicino a voi e non ha mai lasciato la stanza.<\/p>\n<p>He also never reads his texts or answers his phone around you. He doesn\u2019t want you to see or hear anything you shouldn\u2019t.<\/p>\n<p>He\u2019s also not too eager to give you his phone if you need to use it for some reason. A guy with nothing to hide wouldn&#8217;t act shady in these situations.<\/p>\n<p>You don\u2019t have to know how to unlock his phone, but he will have no problem leaving it around, answering calls or reading texts when you are by his side.<\/p>\n<h2>7. Scompare di tanto in tanto<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-86240\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/man-leaving-upset-woman.jpg\" alt=\"uomo che lascia donna sconvolta\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/man-leaving-upset-woman.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/man-leaving-upset-woman-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/man-leaving-upset-woman-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Per un po' sar\u00e0 carinissimo, attento e ti star\u00e0 addosso, ma poi sparir\u00e0 con te.<\/p>\n<p>It won\u2019t be forever. He\u2019ll be back again, acting like nothing happened or having some lame excuse up his sleeve.<\/p>\n<p>Questo tipo di comportamento \u00e8 inaccettabile. Vi sta mancando di rispetto, vi sta prendendo in giro e potrebbe anche avere qualche <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/10-signs-he-has-a-side-chick\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">ragazza laterale<\/a>. Gi\u00e0 questo \u00e8 un buon motivo per scaricarlo.<\/p>\n<h2>8. Ha troppe amiche donne<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-86237\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/group-of-friends-posing-outside.jpg\" alt=\"gruppo di amici in posa all&#039;aperto\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/group-of-friends-posing-outside.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/group-of-friends-posing-outside-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/group-of-friends-posing-outside-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Sure, he can have a few good female friends but they are all friends you know\u2014or at least you will get to know\u2014when things get a bit more serious.<\/p>\n<p>But if he never talks about them, that\u2019s a red flag right there\u2014especially if you run into them and he introduces you as one more of his many friends. It\u2019s more than obvious that something is off.<\/p>\n<h2>9. Things aren\u2019t adding up<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-86241\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/man-trying-talk-to-upset-woman.jpg\" alt=\"uomo che cerca di parlare con una donna sconvolta\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/man-trying-talk-to-upset-woman.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/man-trying-talk-to-upset-woman-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/man-trying-talk-to-upset-woman-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s just a matter of time before a man who multi-dates gets tangled up in his own web of lies.<\/p>\n<p>Anche se lui <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/life\/9-modi-in-cui-il-bugiardo-patologico-rompe-i-giochi\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">imparato a mentire<\/a> come una delle sue tante abilit\u00e0, \u00e8 destinato a scivolare prima o poi.<\/p>\n<p>La prima cosa che far\u00e0 saltare la sua copertura sar\u00e0 il fatto che ha tutte queste versioni diverse di una stessa storia.<\/p>\n<p>So one day he\u2019ll talk about hanging out with his friends on Friday night, and if you ask him in a few days, he spent that same Friday night chilling at home watching movies.<\/p>\n<h2>10. Parlare di impegno \u00e8 qualcosa che evita abilmente.<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-86238\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/man-and-woman-talking-in-cafe.jpg\" alt=\"uomo e donna che parlano in un caff\u00e8\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/man-and-woman-talking-in-cafe.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/man-and-woman-talking-in-cafe-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/man-and-woman-talking-in-cafe-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>\u00c8 cos\u00ec bravo con le parole e riesce a trasformare ogni situazione in un vantaggio per lui.<\/p>\n<p>You might have even tried to have \u201cthe talk\u201d with him, but he somehow managed to change the topic.<\/p>\n<p>Potrebbe anche non dirlo direttamente, ma accennare al fatto che non \u00e8 impegnato in qualcosa di serio in questo momento.<\/p>\n<p>He has a wild nature and a free spirit. He doesn\u2019t want to complicate things. He needs time, etc.<\/p>\n<p>These indirect things are pretty direct if you look at them closely. Don\u2019t allow him to lead you on.<\/p>\n<h2>11. Your gut is telling you that something\u2019s off<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-86236\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/confused-woman-looking-at-man-in-cafe.jpg\" alt=\"Donna confusa che guarda un uomo in un caff\u00e8\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/confused-woman-looking-at-man-in-cafe.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/confused-woman-looking-at-man-in-cafe-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/confused-woman-looking-at-man-in-cafe-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Quante volte siete finiti in una situazione difficile perch\u00e9 avete scelto di ignorare il vostro istinto? Troppe volte, vero?<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t do it this time. If you think that something is off, talk to him directly.<\/p>\n<p>Chiedigli se sei l'unica con cui si vede e se siete esclusivi o meno. La vita \u00e8 troppo corta per fare il passo pi\u00f9 lungo della gamba e giocare.<\/p>\n<p>If you are not the only woman in his life as you thought you were, it\u2019s time to wave him goodbye.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-86229\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/11-Signs-Hes-Keeping-His-Options-Open-Pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"11 Segni che sta mantenendo aperte le sue opzioni\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/11-Signs-Hes-Keeping-His-Options-Open-Pinterest.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/11-Signs-Hes-Keeping-His-Options-Open-Pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Not talking about labels has become kind of a trend these days. You might find yourself in the situation where you are seeing someone for months and still not know if you are exclusive or not. That\u2019s where assumptions kick in. You assume that if he is the only one you are seeing and you&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":42,"featured_media":86230,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29646],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-24561","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-understanding-men"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29646,"label":"understanding men"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/11-Signs-Hes-Keeping-His-Options-Open.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Selma June","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/selmajune\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29646,"name":"understanding men","slug":"understanding-men","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29646,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Wondering about what's going on inside his head? 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