{"id":24617,"date":"2020-02-20T07:17:39","date_gmt":"2020-02-20T07:17:39","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=24617"},"modified":"2022-01-30T21:15:42","modified_gmt":"2022-01-30T21:15:42","slug":"ho-smesso-di-inseguirlo","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/ho-smesso-di-inseguirlo\/","title":{"rendered":"20 cose che ho imparato dopo aver smesso di inseguirlo"},"content":{"rendered":"

1. You can\u2019t catch happiness.<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Non potete forzarla a bussare alla vostra porta. Succeder\u00e0, ma non quando lo vorrete voi. Accadr\u00e0 quando sar\u00e0 il momento giusto.<\/p>\n

2. Nessun uomo \u00e8 degno di tutto questo tempo.<\/h2>\n

\"uomo<\/p>\n

Mi stava solo facendo perdere tempo e mi stava prendendo in giro. Sapeva che non sarebbe successo nulla tra noi due, ma gli piaceva ricevere attenzioni. Cos\u00ec, io ha smesso di inseguirlo<\/a> e ho iniziato a dare pi\u00f9 valore a me stesso e al mio tempo.<\/p>\n

3. Waiting for a text for more than an hour means he doesn\u2019t like you.<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Se gli piacessi davvero, sarebbe impaziente e avrebbe con s\u00e9 il telefono. nel caso in cui tu gli abbia mandato un messaggio<\/a>. He couldn\u2019t wait to hear from you.<\/p>\n

Qualsiasi altra cosa significa che non \u00e8 interessato.<\/p>\n

4. Finiamo sempre per inseguire quelli sbagliati.<\/h2>\n

\"ragazza<\/p>\n

The moment I realized he wasn\u2019t worth chasing or giving him any kind of attention, and I gave up, another man walked into my life.<\/p>\n

A man who deserved to be chased but a man who didn\u2019t let me chase him.<\/p>\n

Un uomo che mi ha inseguito.<\/p>\n

5. A volte bisogna essere brutalmente onesti.<\/h2>\n

\"giovane<\/p>\n

That\u2019s the only way to salvarsi dalle relazioni sbagliate e dai colpi di fulmine<\/a>. You have to be straight about what you like and don\u2019t like.<\/p>\n

Dovete essere trasparenti su ci\u00f2 che volete.<\/p>\n

6. Mi sentivo indesiderata a causa sua.<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Mi ha fatto sentire cos\u00ec. In un certo senso mi ha rifiutato. Non ha mai pronunciato quelle vere e proprie parole di rifiuto, ma il fatto che abbia tenuto la bocca chiusa \u00e8 stato di per s\u00e9 un rifiuto.<\/p>\n

So, I felt like shit, I felt undesirable but just because he didn\u2019t like me, that didn\u2019t mean no one else did. I was just blind to see that. I saw only him.<\/p>\n

7. Io volevo l'amore vero e lui voleva qualcosa a parte.<\/h2>\n

\"coppia<\/p>\n

Let\u2019s say we weren\u2019t on the same page.<\/p>\n

8. I ragazzi giocano, a differenza degli uomini.<\/h2>\n

\"uomo<\/p>\n

Men are honest and mature. Men don\u2019t string you along. Men mean what they say.<\/p>\n

9. Le relazioni sono quasi una tortura.<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

You\u2019re always chasing someone who cannot be caught. You\u2019re trying your best, you\u2019re making their wishes come true but there is nothing in it for you.<\/p>\n

Si finisce a mani vuote e feriti.<\/p>\n

10. Sei tu che meriti di essere inseguito.<\/h2>\n

\"bella<\/p>\n

You\u2019re smart and beautiful, and men should have to fight over you. Don\u2019t let yourself chase anyone, it never ends well.<\/p>\n

11. You\u2019ll wonder if there is something wrong with you.<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

You\u2019ll feel like you\u2019re not good enough because despite your efforts, that person still doesn\u2019t appreciate you.<\/p>\n

A bunch of insecurities will come to the surface and a lot of time will have to pass for you to realize that it wasn\u2019t your fault he sent you segnali contrastanti<\/a>.<\/p>\n

12. You\u2019re allowed to plan one or two dates but nothing more.<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

If you\u2019re the one planning where you\u2019ll go next, it means that you\u2019re the only one trying.<\/p>\n

13. Never get up and go to him in the middle of the night, especially if you haven\u2019t heard from him in a few days.<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

He\u2019s only calling because he needs someone by his side. He needs fun, distraction or whatever. He is not serious about you.<\/p>\n

14. Don\u2019t date him if he is not sure about you from the start.<\/h2>\n

\"uomo<\/p>\n

He isn\u2019t going to change his mind. He is going to string you along until something better comes along.<\/p>\n

A man in love won\u2019t spend a second longer than he needs in order to be with you.<\/p>\n

15. You can\u2019t force someone to date you.<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Se ti piace, ok, ma se il sentimento non \u00e8 reciproco, la migliore delle ipotesi \u00e8 che tu finisca in una relazione unilaterale.<\/p>\n

16. Non c'\u00e8 alcun significato nascosto nelle sue parole.<\/h2>\n

\"giovane<\/p>\n

I know that every time he messages you or sends you something, you\u2019re trying to figure out whether he meant something else.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re hoping that his indifference toward you is actually love, in a hidden meaning.<\/p>\n

17. You\u2019re going to hate him for making you give him everything and getting nothing in return.<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

L'infatuazione iniziale si trasformer\u00e0 in risentimento.<\/p>\n

18. No matter how attractive he is, don\u2019t fall for him.<\/h2>\n

\"uomo<\/p>\n

He\u2019s picked up so many women like that before you and it always ended up the same. They were all chasing him.<\/p>\n

19. Una cosa \u00e8 certa: non cambier\u00e0 mai idea.<\/h2>\n

\"giovane<\/p>\n

So if you comfort yourself with the thought that he\u2019ll change, you\u2019re wrong. That is only prolonging your agony.<\/p>\n

20. La rincorsa non finisce mai bene.<\/h2>\n

\"giovane<\/p>\n

Cercate qualcuno a cui piacciate quanto lui piace a voi. Questa relazione ha il potenziale per essere felice.<\/p>\n

\"20<\/p>\n

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