{"id":24621,"date":"2020-08-28T07:36:15","date_gmt":"2020-08-28T07:36:15","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=24621"},"modified":"2022-01-14T02:08:58","modified_gmt":"2022-01-14T02:08:58","slug":"perche-i-ragazzi-hanno-paura-di-approcciare-le-donne-6-motivi-comprovati","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/perche-i-ragazzi-hanno-paura-di-approcciare-le-donne-6-motivi-comprovati\/","title":{"rendered":"Perch\u00e9 i ragazzi hanno paura di approcciare le donne? 6 motivi comprovati"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Approaching new people is never an easy decision but it gets even harder if a guy likes a girl and wants to get to know her better. He would like to approach her but doesn\u2019t know how.<\/p>\n<p>He is afraid of rejection and he isn\u2019t sure about himself. He is afraid that he will make a fool out of himself if he says something inappropriate. And in most cases, he quits.<\/p>\n<p>Maybe he will try again once he drinks a bit more and gets an ego boost from alcohol but he surely won\u2019t come close to a beautiful girl sober. So, the question is: Why are guys afraid to approach some women?<\/p>\n<p>Siamo cos\u00ec intimidatori da rendere impossibile invitarci per una tazza di caff\u00e8? Trovate le risposte a tutte queste domande nell'elenco che segue!<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Hanno paura del rifiuto<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-109871 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/a-disappointed-man-sits-on-the-couch.jpg\" alt=\"un uomo deluso siede sul divano\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/a-disappointed-man-sits-on-the-couch.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/a-disappointed-man-sits-on-the-couch-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/a-disappointed-man-sits-on-the-couch-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/a-disappointed-man-sits-on-the-couch-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/a-disappointed-man-sits-on-the-couch-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/a-disappointed-man-sits-on-the-couch-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/a-disappointed-man-sits-on-the-couch-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/a-disappointed-man-sits-on-the-couch-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Vedete, quando un uomo vede una donna che gli sembra cos\u00ec attraente, perde immediatamente la testa per lei. Il suo cervello lavora al massimo e cerca di trovare un buon modo per sedurla e farla sua.<\/p>\n<p>Inizia a fare cose che non ha mai fatto e si sente in colpa. Alcuni ragazzi diventano molto nervosi e iniziano ad avere dei tic che sembrano del tutto innaturali. E quando si accorgono di quanto sembrano ansiosi e cattivi, decidono di rimandare quel momento.<\/p>\n<p>The worst thing for them would be if the girl they like so much rejects them because they don\u2019t look as natural as they really are.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Hanno paura di ci\u00f2 che la ragazza che stanno avvicinando penser\u00e0 di loro.<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-111550\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/man-alone-looking-depressed.jpg\" alt=\"uomo solo con lo sguardo depresso\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/man-alone-looking-depressed.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/man-alone-looking-depressed-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/man-alone-looking-depressed-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/man-alone-looking-depressed-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/man-alone-looking-depressed-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/man-alone-looking-depressed-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/man-alone-looking-depressed-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/man-alone-looking-depressed-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>A volte i ragazzi pensano troppo. <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/5-cose-a-cui-la-maggior-parte-degli-uomini-pensa-troppo-in-una-relazione-di-coppia\/\">Pensano troppo alle cose<\/a> that haven\u2019t happened yet and they are scared about what could happen if something goes wrong.<\/p>\n<p>Their wish to approach a girl is considerable but the fear of being ashamed is even bigger. They simply don\u2019t know how the girl they are approaching will react when they show up in front of her. They don\u2019t know what she will think of them.<\/p>\n<p>Penser\u00e0 che sono strani, divertenti o stupidi? E mentre ci pensano troppo, perdono la voglia di avvicinarsi davvero alla ragazza e semplicemente rinunciano.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">They think they don\u2019t deserve her<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-109874\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/a-man-pensively-looks-out-the-window-1.jpg\" alt=\"un uomo guarda pensieroso fuori dalla finestra\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1067\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/a-man-pensively-looks-out-the-window-1.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/a-man-pensively-looks-out-the-window-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/a-man-pensively-looks-out-the-window-1-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/a-man-pensively-looks-out-the-window-1-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/a-man-pensively-looks-out-the-window-1-1536x1024.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/a-man-pensively-looks-out-the-window-1-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/a-man-pensively-looks-out-the-window-1-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/a-man-pensively-looks-out-the-window-1-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Non importa quanto sia bello un ragazzo, quando vuole approcciare una ragazza avr\u00e0 paura. Penser\u00e0 di non essere abbastanza bravo per lei e che lei lo rifiuter\u00e0.<\/p>\n<p>He doesn\u2019t have <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/life\/7-ways-boost-self-esteem\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">sufficiente autostima<\/a> and he thinks that she will think the worst about him. That\u2019s why guys miss many chances to get to know a girl they like so much. Maybe that girl would be glad that a guy is interested in her and she wouldn\u2019t think anything bad.<\/p>\n<p>But since guys don\u2019t know that, they blow their chance of a great relationship.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">They are so anxious that they can\u2019t act normal<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-109875 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/a-man-sits-on-the-floor-pensive.jpg\" alt=\"un uomo siede a terra pensieroso\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1067\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/a-man-sits-on-the-floor-pensive.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/a-man-sits-on-the-floor-pensive-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/a-man-sits-on-the-floor-pensive-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/a-man-sits-on-the-floor-pensive-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/a-man-sits-on-the-floor-pensive-1536x1024.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/a-man-sits-on-the-floor-pensive-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/a-man-sits-on-the-floor-pensive-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/a-man-sits-on-the-floor-pensive-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>There are guys who are open and they don\u2019t have any problems with approaching a girl. But there are also guys who get so anxious when they want to approach a girl that they start having a real panic attack.<\/p>\n<p>Their palms start to get sweat, they feel dizzy, they don\u2019t know how to properly say normal sentences and they act like they have never spoken before. And because of something like this, they simply give up on approaching a girl.<\/p>\n<p>Non importa quanto desiderino quella ragazza e quanto gli piaccia, preferiscono fare un passo indietro e stare da soli perch\u00e9 sono terrorizzati da ci\u00f2 che potrebbe accadere se facessero il primo passo.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Hanno paura di essere criticati<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-109877 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/a-man-drinks-coffee.jpg\" alt=\"un uomo beve il caff\u00e8\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/a-man-drinks-coffee.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/a-man-drinks-coffee-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/a-man-drinks-coffee-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/a-man-drinks-coffee-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/a-man-drinks-coffee-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/a-man-drinks-coffee-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/a-man-drinks-coffee-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/a-man-drinks-coffee-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>There are guys who have a fear that they will be judged and criticized by a woman they want to approach. They fear that she will think they are weird and that they even don\u2019t know how to hit on a woman.<\/p>\n<p>They don\u2019t want to get hurt or to feel bad and that is the reason they hold off from any contact with girls. Only one they drink another glass of wine will they get the ego boost they need to approach a girl and ask her out on a date.<\/p>\n<p>In a situation like that, they won\u2019t be scared of anything and they won\u2019t think about the bad things that could happen in the process.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Pensano di non essere abbastanza bravi<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-109879 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/the-man-is-sitting-on-a-bench-with-his-back-turned.jpg\" alt=\"l&#039;uomo \u00e8 seduto su una panchina di spalle\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/the-man-is-sitting-on-a-bench-with-his-back-turned.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/the-man-is-sitting-on-a-bench-with-his-back-turned-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/the-man-is-sitting-on-a-bench-with-his-back-turned-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/the-man-is-sitting-on-a-bench-with-his-back-turned-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/the-man-is-sitting-on-a-bench-with-his-back-turned-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/the-man-is-sitting-on-a-bench-with-his-back-turned-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/the-man-is-sitting-on-a-bench-with-his-back-turned-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/the-man-is-sitting-on-a-bench-with-his-back-turned-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Quando un ragazzo pensa di non essere abbastanza bravo, non avr\u00e0 mai abbastanza coraggio per approcciare una ragazza. Penser\u00e0 che <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/couldve-better-man\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">pu\u00f2 trovare una madre migliore<\/a>di lui e perder\u00e0 la possibilit\u00e0 di essere felice.<\/p>\n<p>That is their biggest mistake because girls actually just want a normal and good boy who will treat them like they deserve. They will also be anxious and won\u2019t feel so comfortable in the beginning but as soon as they get to know a man, they will feel much better.<\/p>\n<p>That\u2019s why we should never miss out on new things in life because we don\u2019t know which ones of them will be great!<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-109870\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/Why-Are-Guys-Afraid-To-Approach-Women-6-Proven-Reasons-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"Perch\u00e9 i ragazzi hanno paura di approcciare le donne 6 motivi comprovati\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1499\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/Why-Are-Guys-Afraid-To-Approach-Women-6-Proven-Reasons-pinterest.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/Why-Are-Guys-Afraid-To-Approach-Women-6-Proven-Reasons-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/Why-Are-Guys-Afraid-To-Approach-Women-6-Proven-Reasons-pinterest-150x225.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Approaching new people is never an easy decision but it gets even harder if a guy likes a girl and wants to get to know her better. He would like to approach her but doesn\u2019t know how. He is afraid of rejection and he isn\u2019t sure about himself. He is afraid that he will make&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":42,"featured_media":109867,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29646],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-24621","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-understanding-men"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29646,"label":"understanding men"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/Why-Are-Guys-Afraid-To-Approach-Women-6-Proven-Reasons-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Selma June","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/selmajune\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29646,"name":"understanding men","slug":"understanding-men","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29646,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Wondering about what's going on inside his head? 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