{"id":2471,"date":"2020-06-11T07:15:31","date_gmt":"2020-06-11T07:15:31","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=2471"},"modified":"2022-01-10T00:50:14","modified_gmt":"2022-01-10T00:50:14","slug":"alla-ragazza-che-continua-ad-allontanare-le-persone","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/alla-ragazza-che-continua-ad-allontanare-le-persone\/","title":{"rendered":"Perch\u00e9 allontano le persone: La verit\u00e0 dietro le tue paure"},"content":{"rendered":"

Allontani le persone, \u00e8 una tua caratteristica, vero?<\/p>\n

Despite this, you keep asking yourself why you can\u2019t let people in, and yet, whenever somebody gets near you, you do the same thing again. You shut everything down, and you push them even further away.<\/p>\n

Si costruiscono di nuovo i muri e quel qualcuno rimane senza di te.<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t even bother explaining because you often catch yourself not knowing why you do it in the first place. So it\u2019s easier just leaving without a trace than explaining something you\u2019re not sure of.<\/p>\n

Tu <\/b>allontanare<\/b><\/a> anybody who could care for you\u2014why is that?<\/b><\/p>\n

\u201cYou can\u2019t always be pushing people away. Someday, nobody will come back.\u201d- The Dear One<\/p>\n

Nessuno pu\u00f2 essere duro con voi quanto voi potete esserlo con voi stessi. Nessuno pu\u00f2 abbatterti quanto lo fai tu con te stesso.<\/b><\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

You\u2019ve been through way too much. Nobody can possibly fathom the trauma and loss you had to endure in your young life.<\/p>\n

Nobody knows those things because you don\u2019t let anyone see what you are trattare con<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Non permetti mai a nessuno di starti cos\u00ec vicino.<\/a>. The minute somebody steps too close, you take a step back. Always creating a gap between you two, aren\u2019t you?<\/p>\n

Regardless of what you\u2019ve \u00e8 stato attraversato<\/a> nella vita, si cerca di vedere il bene nelle persone.<\/b> Fate del vostro meglio per credere che vi aspettino giorni migliori, ma non vi concedete mai abbastanza spazio per farli entrare davvero.<\/p>\n

Sometimes, it\u2019s just not possible to look brightly on the things that are coming towards you. There is always a dose of scepticism and doubt inside you.<\/b><\/p>\n

You\u2019re the type of person that thinks about everyone but herself. You\u2019re always the last person on your priority list.<\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

You\u2019re the type of person who\u2019s there for everyone in the blink of an eye, and the first one to make the rest of the world happy, even if they don\u2019t deserve it.<\/p>\n

You weren\u2019t abbastanza buono<\/a> per le persone che avete amato durante la vostra crescita.<\/p>\n

There was always that \u2018something\u2019 they expected of you, and no matter what you did, it just wasn\u2019t enough. Nobody told you that all this is not your fault.<\/p>\n

Hai continuato a pensare (e continui a pensare) di meritare il dolore che ricevi nella vita.<\/b><\/p>\n

You somehow feel you caused it for yourself\u2014you must have done something wrong, so now God is \u2018returning the favor\u2019, and you never dare question it.<\/p>\n

You feel like you need to pay the price for something, but you just can\u2019t wrap your mind around what that is.<\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Cos\u00ec, quando vi ritrovate da soli con la vostra oscurit\u00e0, continuate ad annuire quando quell'oscurit\u00e0 viene ad abbracciarvi e la abbracciate con la tristezza negli occhi.<\/p>\n

You just don\u2019t let people see it.<\/p>\n

Si rifiuta di fare la vittima.<\/b> Avete deciso di non farvi vedere da nessuno in ginocchio. Cos\u00ec, qualsiasi cosa la vita ti lanci, la affronti da solo.<\/p>\n

Nessuno potr\u00e0 mai vedere le tue lacrime<\/a> perch\u00e9 continuate a credere che se dimostrate una cosa, nulla vi impedir\u00e0 di mettere a nudo la vostra pelle.<\/p>\n

If you let it all out, you are frightened you\u2019ll never be able to stop, and it will only push people away even more\u2026 and that\u2019s what scares you the most.<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t want to scare people away. You can\u2019t live with that. You\u2019d rather push them away. That\u2019s something you can live with.<\/b><\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

It\u2019s never the right time.<\/b><\/p>\n

There is always something more important than relationships, from bonding with people. You always have so much on your plate, and you just can\u2019t handle anything else. It\u2019s better to wait.<\/p>\n

There\u2019s always that one little thing that prevents you from letting anyone in.<\/b><\/p>\n

There is always a small flaw or an imperfection, and because of that flaw, you simply can\u2019t let that person into your life. It just creates a wall between the two of you that is insurmountable.<\/p>\n

The real truth is you\u2019re scared.<\/b><\/p>\n

You\u2019re just too scared to admit it or you\u2019re just too scared to let people in. You keep finding these stupid excuses to comfort yourself with.<\/p>\n

Scuse che fanno sentire meglio l'allontanamento di tutti. Ma non \u00e8 mai cos\u00ec.<\/p>\n

\"La<\/p>\n

You keep rationalizing your actions when in fact, they have nothing to do with reason. It\u2019s all about your heart, and your heart is scared.<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t want to be like that. You don\u2019t want to be scared, and you don\u2019t want to push people away. It\u2019s just way less painful to push them away <\/b>prima<\/i><\/b> che farli entrare e vederli andare via da soli.<\/b><\/p>\n

The thing is, and you wouldn\u2019t admit it for anything in this world, you just want someone to tell you it\u2019s OK.<\/p>\n

And it is OK. For real, it\u2019s fine.<\/b><\/p>\n

Arriver\u00e0 qualcuno a dimostrarti che ti sbagli, ok?<\/p>\n

Somebody who will show you that the world isn\u2019t as dark and twisted as you make it seem in your head.<\/p>\n

Ci sono cos\u00ec tante opportunit\u00e0 straordinarie l\u00e0 fuori per voi, e voi vi rifiutate di vederle. Ci sono cos\u00ec tante persone che sono buono per te<\/a> and your soul\u2014you just need to open your eyes to see them.<\/p>\n

\"tre<\/p>\n

There will come a person who\u2019ll be able to see your worth and who\u2019ll let you see how worthy you are.<\/b><\/p>\n

He\u2019s going to be the one to prove to you that there are people out there who deserve you, and people who can make you happy. There is someone out there who won\u2019t hurt you, you know.<\/b><\/p>\n

Bisogna solo resistere ancora un po'.<\/p>\n

You\u2019ll know when the \u2018right\u2019 person enters your life\u2014just don\u2019t push this one away.<\/p>\n

Quando arriver\u00e0 quella persona, far\u00e0 sembrare tutto migliore. Avr\u00e0 un modo per farvi sentire forti, potenti e belle.<\/p>\n

E quando questa persona entra nella vostra vita, concedetevi il privilegio di essere amati nel modo in cui meritate di essere amati.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t push this one away because he is going to be the one who finally makes everything seem worthwhile.<\/i><\/p>\n

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