{"id":24829,"date":"2020-06-02T10:39:57","date_gmt":"2020-06-02T10:39:57","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=24829"},"modified":"2022-08-25T12:00:58","modified_gmt":"2022-08-25T12:00:58","slug":"10-cose-che-i-narcisisti-non-fanno-mai","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/10-cose-che-i-narcisisti-non-fanno-mai\/","title":{"rendered":"10 cose che i narcisisti non fanno mai"},"content":{"rendered":"

Si leggono i segnali di allarme ogni volta che si apre un articolo sui narcisisti. Si legge di come riconoscerli, di quali sono i loro tratti e che sono maestri di manipolazione<\/a>, inganno e cos\u00ec via.<\/p>\n

A narcissist will do this and that\u2014they lie, manipulate and act to be something they are not. But isn’t it almost impossible to recognize a narcissist by the things he does because as I recall, the most common warning sign is that they pretend to be something they are not?<\/p>\n

Come si pu\u00f2 sapere se stanno fingendo di essere buoni o se lo sono davvero?<\/b><\/p>\n

Poich\u00e9 ingannarvi e convincervi di una falsa verit\u00e0 \u00e8 praticamente la cosa migliore che fanno, questo non \u00e8 un buon modo per far saltare la loro copertura ed essere sicuri che siano narcisisti.<\/p>\n

Ma quello che si pu\u00f2 fare \u00e8 cercare le cose che un narcisista non farebbe mai<\/a>come qualcosa che non \u00e8 coerente con la loro personalit\u00e0, qualcosa che coinvolge l'empatia o la cura per gli altri.<\/p>\n

No matter how good of an actor he is, a narcissist will never do something that doesn\u2019t concern him, something that doesn\u2019t benefit him.<\/p>\n

Here is where you can catch a narcissist off guard because they won\u2019t expect you to look at things from that angle. Here is where they will definitely make a mistake because they can\u2019t help themselves.<\/p>\n

They can act all they want but they can\u2019t act emotions and they can\u2019t fake good deeds. It\u2019s against who they are and how they think.<\/p>\n

Here is a list of things that will help you blow a narcissist\u2019s cover\u2014a list of things a narcisista<\/a> non lo farebbe mai:<\/p>\n

1. Odiano perdere il controllo<\/h2>\n

 <\/p>\n

Narcissists like acting like they own you, like they are your master. They like to think that you\u2019re completely incapable of doing anything without their supervision or their help.<\/p>\n

Ma per individuare un narcisista basta vedere come si comporta quando perde il controllo, quando non \u00e8 pi\u00f9 padrone della vostra vita. Se il controllo diminuisce e voi rinsavite, loro vanno completamente fuori di testa.<\/p>\n

They\u2019ll become angry and upset and you won\u2019t know the reason why. If this is the case then you can be sure that his behavior is an indicator of a narcissistic personality.<\/p>\n

2. Non mostrano mai chi sono veramente<\/h2>\n

 <\/p>\n

When you first meet them they are perfect, maybe even a bit too perfect, which should be suspicious right from the start. They\u2019ll hide their manipulative behavior by pretending to be sweet and kind.<\/p>\n

They will reveal their true colors but only later when it\u2019s too late for you to walk away no strings attached.<\/p>\n

3. They don\u2019t let anyone prove them wrong<\/h2>\n

 <\/p>\n

Una delle loro armi pi\u00f9 forti \u00e8 l'atto di manipolazione, quando cercano di convincervi di cose che non sono reali, che non sono mai accadute.<\/p>\n

Even if they are caught lying to you, they won\u2019t let it go. They\u2019ll stick to their version of the truth.<\/p>\n

Having a discussion with a narcissist is just a waste of time. You won\u2019t win, that\u2019s for sure, you can only get hurt in this painful process.<\/p>\n

Alla fine, vi manipoleranno per convincervi a comprare la loro storia, anche se avevate ragione fin dall'inizio.<\/p>\n

Correlato: 52 cose manipolatorie che i narcisisti dicono durante una discussione<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n

4. Non si scuseranno mai<\/h2>\n

 <\/p>\n

Not only that they will manipulate you into thinking that you\u2019re wrong but they will truly believe that they are right.<\/p>\n

Pensano di essere incapaci di commettere un errore perch\u00e9 ai loro occhi sono la pura perfezione.<\/p>\n

Even if they make a mistake, you won\u2019t hear an apology. In their mind, everything that goes wrong around them is someone else\u2019s fault and never theirs.<\/p>\n

5. Non vi perdoneranno mai<\/h2>\n

 <\/p>\n

Their expectations is the only thing that matters. And if you fail them, if you don\u2019t live up to what they expect from you, they will never let it go.<\/p>\n

Even if you say that you\u2019re sorry, it won\u2019t cut it.<\/p>\n

Ogni volta che litigate, in qualche modo riportano la discussione a quando avete fatto qualcosa di sbagliato e, nonostante le scuse, vi sbattono in faccia quell'errore. Non lasceranno mai perdere.<\/p>\n

Quando devono scegliere tra il perdono e la vendetta, scelgono sempre la vendetta.<\/p>\n

6. They don\u2019t have an equal<\/h2>\n

 <\/p>\n

Nella loro mente, non c'\u00e8 nessuno migliore di loro. Nessuno \u00e8 intelligente o bello come loro.<\/p>\n

Sono semplicemente il riflesso della pura perfezione. Sono al di sopra di tutti gli altri.<\/p>\n

Quando si vede una persona cos\u00ec sicura di s\u00e9, bisogna capire che c'\u00e8 qualcosa di terribilmente sbagliato. Nessuno dovrebbe avere un'opinione cos\u00ec alta di s\u00e9 e tutti hanno delle insicurezze.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s your huge, red, warning sign right there\u2014his gigantic ego.<\/p>\n

7. Non mostrano mai empatia<\/h2>\n

 <\/p>\n

Other people\u2019s suffering or happiness, whether it\u2019s a good or bad feeling, has no effect on narcissists. They are unable to understand feelings.<\/p>\n

The only thing they care about is themselves. They are extremely insensitive and they won\u2019t think twice about saying something hurtful to anyone because they don\u2019t care how that person is going to react or feel afterward.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t confuse honesty with lack of empathy. Because even when you have to be brutally honest, you\u2019re not going to be indifferent to that person\u2019s feelings.<\/p>\n

8. They don\u2019t listen<\/h2>\n

 <\/p>\n

They will pretend to listen to you until you shut up, and that is when they are going to blurt out everything that is on their mind. What you\u2019ve said doesn\u2019t interest them at all.<\/p>\n

This happens because they don\u2019t respect you or anything that\u2019s on your mind. The only important thing is what they think and how they feel. Others don\u2019t matter.<\/p>\n

9. Non sono educati<\/h2>\n

 <\/p>\n

It doesn\u2019t matter whether they are rude to a stranger on the street or your friends\u2014narcissists can\u2019t be polite because they don\u2019t care about other people\u2019s feelings.<\/p>\n

They will act rudely and be inconsiderate to the people you love because those people don\u2019t mean anything to them. The only person who matters is the narcissist himself.<\/p>\n

10. They don\u2019t give compliments<\/h2>\n

 <\/p>\n

They don\u2019t want others to feel good about themselves. They want others to feel like crap so narcissists can feel better, greater and more important than them.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s why they never give compliments, they just want to get them. If you get a compliment from a narcissist, you should really look into it, because it\u2019s probably just a tactic for something far more serious.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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