{"id":24907,"date":"2020-07-02T11:56:27","date_gmt":"2020-07-02T11:56:27","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=24907"},"modified":"2022-01-24T13:57:07","modified_gmt":"2022-01-24T13:57:07","slug":"ecco-come-hai-perso-la-ragazza-che-ti-amava-a-prescindere-da-tutto","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/ecco-come-hai-perso-la-ragazza-che-ti-amava-a-prescindere-da-tutto\/","title":{"rendered":"Ecco come hai perso la ragazza che ti amava a qualunque costo"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>La ragazza che avevi al tuo fianco era speciale. Era la ragazza che ti ha dato il suo cuore che portava sulla manica e la ragazza che ti ha amato incondizionatamente e a prescindere da tutto.<\/p>\n<p>La ragazza che era pronta a sopportare le tue stronzate e la ragazza che era disposta a fare qualsiasi cosa pur di vederti felice.<\/p>\n<p>You know very well that she never asked for much in return for all of her sacrifices. She just wanted your love and appreciation. But you couldn\u2019t get yourself to give her even that.<\/p>\n<p>Invece di trattarla come si meritava, lei <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/love\/10-tipi-di-fidanzati-che-renderanno-la-vostra-vita-un-inferno\/\"> ha reso la sua vita un inferno <\/a> .<\/p>\n<p>And when she finally saw that you weren\u2019t going to change and when she saw that she was about to lose herself completely next to you, she left you.<\/p>\n<p>When she finally realized that you were breaking her, she walked away from you. When she finally saw that you weren\u2019t worthy of her, you lost her for good.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-110450\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/sad-man-looking-through-the-window.jpg\" alt=\"uomo triste che guarda attraverso la finestra\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/sad-man-looking-through-the-window.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/sad-man-looking-through-the-window-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/sad-man-looking-through-the-window-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/sad-man-looking-through-the-window-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/sad-man-looking-through-the-window-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/sad-man-looking-through-the-window-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/sad-man-looking-through-the-window-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/sad-man-looking-through-the-window-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><b>But no, you didn\u2019t lose her overnight. You may not know it but your behavior was <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/non-allontanare-mai-una-ragazza-che-fa-queste-7-cose-per-te\/\">allontanare questa ragazza<\/a> per un certo periodo di tempo. <\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>Forse non ne siete consapevoli, ma in realt\u00e0 l'avete persa gradualmente per anni.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>La stavi perdendo ogni volta che la mettevi per ultima.<\/b> Ogni volta che l'hai trattata come <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/leggete-questo-se-vi-sentite-la-sua-seconda-scelta-2\/\"> una seconda scelta <\/a> come piano di riserva e come ultima risorsa.<\/p>\n<p>Every time you made her think that she wasn\u2019t worthy of your time or effort.<\/p>\n<p>La stavate perdendo lentamente in ogni situazione in cui sceglievate gli altri al posto suo e in cui le dimostravate che era in fondo alla vostra lista di priorit\u00e0.<\/p>\n<p><b>Si allontanava da voi ogni volta che le facevate elemosinare piccole briciole del vostro amore e della vostra attenzione e ogni volta che si sentiva come se vi costringesse a stare con lei.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-110452\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/worried-woman-standing-on-balcony.jpg\" alt=\"donna preoccupata in piedi sul balcone\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/worried-woman-standing-on-balcony.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/worried-woman-standing-on-balcony-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/worried-woman-standing-on-balcony-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/worried-woman-standing-on-balcony-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/worried-woman-standing-on-balcony-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/worried-woman-standing-on-balcony-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/worried-woman-standing-on-balcony-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/worried-woman-standing-on-balcony-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Forse non lo sapete, ma la verit\u00e0 \u00e8 che nel corso degli anni avete fatto sentire questa ragazza non amata e non desiderata, e queste sono le ultime cose che chiunque vuole sentire.<\/p>\n<p><b>La respingevi ogni volta che la facevi piangere. <\/b> Every time she cried herself to sleep and every time you weren\u2019t around to wipe her tears away.<\/p>\n<p>Every time you didn\u2019t make an effort to put a smile back on her face.<\/p>\n<p>Remember all those nights you stood her up and left her hanging? All those times you didn\u2019t pick up the phone and all those nights you left her waiting?<\/p>\n<p>Ebbene, indovinate un po'? <b>La stavi perdendo sempre di pi\u00f9 ogni volta che si addormentava, tutta vestita e con il telefono in mano, aspettando disperatamente che tu la chiamassi.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>L'hai allontanata perch\u00e9 la davi per scontata.<\/b> Perch\u00e9 pensavate che sarebbe rimasta, non importa quanto male le aveste fatto e come l'aveste trattata.<\/p>\n<p><b><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/piu-si-gioca-con-lei-e-piu-velocemente-le-conchiglie-perdono-interesse-2\/\">La stavi perdendo ogni volta che cercavi di giocare con lei.<\/a>.<\/b> Ogni volta che hai approfittato di tutto l'amore che provava per te e ogni volta che hai usato il suo cuore vulnerabile.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-110453\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/sad-woman-crying-in-hands.jpg\" alt=\"donna triste che piange tra le mani\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/sad-woman-crying-in-hands.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/sad-woman-crying-in-hands-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/sad-woman-crying-in-hands-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/sad-woman-crying-in-hands-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/sad-woman-crying-in-hands-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/sad-woman-crying-in-hands-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/sad-woman-crying-in-hands-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/sad-woman-crying-in-hands-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><b>La stavi perdendo ogni volta che sceglievi un'altra ragazza al posto suo.<\/b> Ogni volta che l'hai fatta confrontare e competere con tutte le altre donne intorno a te.<\/p>\n<p>Every time you didn\u2019t give her the place she deserved in your life.<\/p>\n<p><b>You were pushing her away every time you weren\u2019t faithful or loyal.<\/b> Ogni volta che ti ha sorpreso a messaggiare con altre ragazze e ogni volta che ti ha perdonato per averla tradita.<\/p>\n<p><b>You lost her because you didn\u2019t want to commit. <\/b> Perch\u00e9 vi siete rifiutati di dare un'etichetta alla vostra relazione e perch\u00e9 avete fatto finta di essere <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/life\/la-verita-e-che-non-e-emotivamente-distrutto-e-solo-uno-stronzo\/\"> emotivamente distrutto, mentre tu eri solo uno stronzo <\/a> .<\/p>\n<p><b>You lost her because you made her feel like she wasn\u2019t enough.<\/b> Perch\u00e9 avete alimentato le sue insicurezze, invece di aumentare la sua autostima.<\/p>\n<p>Perch\u00e9 eri la sua debolezza invece della sua forza. Perch\u00e9 hai usato le sue vulnerabilit\u00e0 invece di proteggere quelle parti di lei.<\/p>\n<p><b>L'hai persa perch\u00e9 le hai mentito.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-110454\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/sad-woman-looking-through-rainy-window.jpg\" alt=\"donna triste che guarda attraverso una finestra piovosa\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/sad-woman-looking-through-rainy-window.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/sad-woman-looking-through-rainy-window-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/sad-woman-looking-through-rainy-window-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/sad-woman-looking-through-rainy-window-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/sad-woman-looking-through-rainy-window-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/sad-woman-looking-through-rainy-window-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/sad-woman-looking-through-rainy-window-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/sad-woman-looking-through-rainy-window-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Perch\u00e9 le hai mentito dicendo che avevi solo bisogno di tempo per rimetterti in sesto, l'hai manipolata facendole credere che era l'unica ragazza della tua vita e che le cose sarebbero andate bene tra voi due.<\/p>\n<p>She left because you made all of those fake promises that you\u2019d change and that you\u2019d start treating her the way she deserved.<\/p>\n<p><b>L'hai allontanata perch\u00e9 non sei mai stato pronto a scendere a compromessi o a incontrarla a met\u00e0 strada.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Perch\u00e9 non hai mai preso in considerazione i suoi bisogni e perch\u00e9 ti sei sempre comportato come un idiota egoista che si \u00e8 preso cura solo di se stesso.<\/p>\n<p>La verit\u00e0 \u00e8 che <b>Questa ragazza si \u00e8 stancata di inseguirti e di aspettare che tu cambi.<\/b> Stanco di fare sacrifici e di impegnarsi.<\/p>\n<p>Stanco di <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/love\/ha-dato-tutto-e-non-ha-ricevuto-nulla-in-cambio\/\"> dandoti tutta se stessa mentre non riceveva nulla in cambio. <\/a> .<\/p>\n<p><b>La verit\u00e0 \u00e8 che la stavate perdendo lentamente ogni volta che le spezzavate il cuore.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-110449\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/This-Is-How-You-Lost-The-Girl-Who-Loved-You-No-Matter-What-pinterest.png\" alt=\"Ecco come hai perso la ragazza che ti amava a qualunque costo\" width=\"540\" height=\"810\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/This-Is-How-You-Lost-The-Girl-Who-Loved-You-No-Matter-What-pinterest.png 540w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/This-Is-How-You-Lost-The-Girl-Who-Loved-You-No-Matter-What-pinterest-200x300.png 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/This-Is-How-You-Lost-The-Girl-Who-Loved-You-No-Matter-What-pinterest-150x225.png 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 540px) 100vw, 540px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>The girl you had by your side was special. This was the girl who gave you her heart that she wore on her sleeve and the girl who loved you unconditionally and no matter what. The girl who was ready to put up with your bullshit and the girl who was willing to do whatever&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":110459,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29618],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-24907","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-moving-on"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29618,"label":"moving on"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/This-Is-How-You-Lost-The-Girl-Who-Loved-You-No-Matter-What-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29618,"name":"moving on","slug":"moving-on","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29618,"taxonomy":"category","description":"When nothing else works - inspiring stories about moving on are bound to help you let go of people and situations you never thought you could live without.\r\n","parent":38,"count":200,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29618,"category_count":200,"category_description":"When nothing else works - inspiring stories about moving on are bound to help you let go of people and situations you never thought you could live without.\r\n","cat_name":"moving on","category_nicename":"moving-on","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/24907","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=24907"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/24907\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/110459"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=24907"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=24907"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=24907"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}