{"id":24930,"date":"2018-10-03T06:47:44","date_gmt":"2018-10-03T06:47:44","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=24930"},"modified":"2022-01-20T15:44:48","modified_gmt":"2022-01-20T15:44:48","slug":"non-si-deve-mai-cambiare-cio-che-si-e-per-diventare-materiale-da-moglie","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/non-si-deve-mai-cambiare-cio-che-si-e-per-diventare-materiale-da-moglie\/","title":{"rendered":"Non dovreste mai cambiare ci\u00f2 che siete per diventare \"materiale da moglie\"."},"content":{"rendered":"

Che cos'\u00e8 esattamente il materiale della moglie? Chi scrive le regole? Chi stabilisce gli standard? Chi garantisce che rientrare nella categoria delle mogli sia garanzia di un matrimonio felice?<\/p>\n

I really started to worry when I read some articles about what makes good wife material. It\u2019s like the 1950\u2019s all over again.<\/p>\n

In sostanza, si dice che la donna deve essere obbediente e servire il marito, che deve avere un istinto materno ed essere una casalinga, e cos\u00ec via.<\/p>\n

And all I can say is that is all BS. A woman doesn\u2019t have to do anything or be anything unless she wants to. For the right men, that will constitute perfect wife material.<\/b><\/em><\/p>\n

There are so many things people say a woman should and shouldn\u2019t do, but there is only one that is true: all you should do is stay true to yourself, and be honest about it.<\/p>\n

So what if you don\u2019t want to give up your career, ambitions and dreams to fit the role of a wife? The two shouldn\u2019t exclude one another.<\/p>\n

Why wouldn\u2019t you cook and prepare delicious meals if you enjoyed doing that? Why wouldn\u2019t you be a stay-at-home mom if you wanted to?<\/p>\n

Quando si tratta di relazioni, le etichette<\/a> sono una cosa positiva. Ma quando si tratta di etichettare una donna, le etichette sono del tutto inutili.<\/p>\n

Potete fare ed essere qualsiasi cosa vi prefiggete con la mente e con il cuore. Dopo tutto, siete una donna.<\/b><\/em><\/p>\n

\"Potete<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t let anybody shape you to fit their box. Don\u2019t let them tell you that a woman who is wife material laughs when she feels like crying.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t let them tell you that a woman stays silent when she feels the need to speak. Problems should be faced and discussed, not mopped under the carpet.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t let them tell you that a woman should sacrifice her own happiness for the man she loves. When love is true, there is no need for sacrifice and putting yourself last.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t let them tell you that you should put up with somebody’s poor behavior, cheating or abuse because you are his wife on paper. If you were truly a wife in his heart, he would never treat you like that.<\/p>\n

L'uomo con cui dovreste stare vi accetter\u00e0 cos\u00ec come siete. Ammirer\u00e0 le vostre virt\u00f9 e accoglier\u00e0 i vostri difetti come voi farete con i suoi.<\/p>\n

He won\u2019t cercare di cambiarvi<\/a>. He won\u2019t push you to do anything you don\u2019t want to do. He will never try to make you feel less. Instead, he will adore your uniqueness.<\/p>\n

La verit\u00e0 \u00e8 per l'uomo giusto, la tua anima gemella<\/a>Se il vostro migliore amico e il vostro amante vi faranno diventare una moglie senza cercare di esserlo, sarete la migliore moglie che ci sia, perch\u00e9 lui vi amer\u00e0 tutte cos\u00ec come siete. Sarete la moglie migliore che ci sia, perch\u00e9 lui vi amer\u00e0 tutte cos\u00ec come siete.<\/b><\/em><\/p>\n

\"Non<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

What is wife material exactly? Who writes the rules? Who makes up the standards? Who guarantees that fitting the box of wife material will guarantee a happy marriage? I really started to worry when I read some articles about what makes good wife material. It\u2019s like the 1950\u2019s all over again. Basically, they are saying…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":42,"featured_media":24931,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29648],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-24930","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-dating-tips"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29648,"label":"dating tips"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/jose-martinez-776754-unsplash.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Selma June","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/selmajune\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29648,"name":"dating tips","slug":"dating-tips","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29648,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Learn to date like a pro and avoid making some of the biggest mistakes in texting, flirting, winning a man's heart, and commitment. ","parent":29643,"count":442,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29648,"category_count":442,"category_description":"Learn to date like a pro and avoid making some of the biggest mistakes in texting, flirting, winning a man's heart, and commitment. ","cat_name":"dating tips","category_nicename":"dating-tips","category_parent":29643}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/24930","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/42"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=24930"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/24930\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/24931"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=24930"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=24930"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=24930"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}