{"id":24966,"date":"2020-05-03T11:18:40","date_gmt":"2020-05-03T11:18:40","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=24966"},"modified":"2021-08-11T13:34:03","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T13:34:03","slug":"ecco-perche-non-puo-continuare-a-perdonarti","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/ecco-perche-non-puo-continuare-a-perdonarti\/","title":{"rendered":"Ecco perch\u00e9 non pu\u00f2 continuare a perdonarvi"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Per molto tempo questa ragazza ha creduto a tutte le tue promesse, mentre tu non facevi altro che prenderla per i fondelli.<\/p>\n<p>She kept trying to find excuses for you mistreating her and kept hoping that you\u2019d become the man you swore you\u2019d be.<\/p>\n<p>She kept justifying you and kept waiting for you to change your ways. She kept forgiving you for everything you\u2019d been putting her through.<\/p>\n<p>Avreste potuto pensare che fosse sciocca a credervi e a perdonarvi sempre. Avreste potuto considerarla pazza. Ma la verit\u00e0 \u00e8 che era pazza solo di te.<\/p>\n<p>Perch\u00e9 questa ragazza \u00e8 tutt'altro che stupida. Ed \u00e8 per questo che ha deciso di averne abbastanza. Ecco perch\u00e9 ha deciso di porre fine a questa farsa e di dire la sua... <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/ti-sto-dicendo-il-mio-ultimo-addio\/\"> addio definitivo<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-91099\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/sad-woman-staring-at-one-point-1.jpg\" alt=\"donna triste che fissa un punto\" width=\"800\" height=\"535\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/sad-woman-staring-at-one-point-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/sad-woman-staring-at-one-point-1-300x201.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/sad-woman-staring-at-one-point-1-768x514.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>La verit\u00e0 \u00e8 che lei ha ancora un cuore d'oro, ma non c'\u00e8 pi\u00f9 posto per voi.<\/p>\n<p>\u017eThe truth is that this girl is done with believing in your lies. The truth is that she can\u2019t keep forgiving you and that she doesn\u2019t want to let you play with her anymore.<\/p>\n<p>Lo sai, <b>she can\u2019t keep forgiving you because you\u2019ve violated her trust more than once. <\/b><\/p>\n<p>Perch\u00e9 ogni volta che ha iniziato a credere che questa volta sarebbe stato diverso e che tu saresti finalmente cambiato, hai finito per fare qualcosa di ancora peggiore di prima.<\/p>\n<p>This girl isn\u2019t someone who will cut you off on your first strike because she believes in people. And she believed in you, even when that was the last thing you deserved.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-91100\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/sad-woman-standing-with-man-outdoor.jpg\" alt=\"donna triste in piedi con uomo all&#039;aperto\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/sad-woman-standing-with-man-outdoor.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/sad-woman-standing-with-man-outdoor-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/sad-woman-standing-with-man-outdoor-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>But she doesn\u2019t want to continue forgiving you because you\u2019ve really crossed the line. Because she is sick and tired of giving you endless second chances.<\/p>\n<p>Perch\u00e9 ogni volta che ti ha ripreso e ogni volta che ha deciso di fare un altro tentativo di relazione, tu hai rovinato tutto. Hai sprecato tutte le possibilit\u00e0 che ti ha dato.<\/p>\n<p><b>Non avete mai visto il suo perdono come un'opportunit\u00e0 per fare meglio. Al contrario, vi siete comportati come se vi stesse dando il permesso di continuare a ferirla, come se vi stesse dando il via libera per continuare a spezzarle il cuore.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Non pu\u00f2 continuare a perdonarti <b>perch\u00e9 hai iniziato a darla per scontata<\/b> qualche tempo fa.<\/p>\n<p>Perch\u00e9 hai iniziato a supporre che ci fosse <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/love\/la-triste-verita-e-che-non-ce-nulla-che-tu-possa-fare-per-farmi-smettere-di-amarti\/\"> Non c'\u00e8 niente che tu possa fare perch\u00e9 lei smetta di amarti. <\/a> o che si allontani definitivamente da te, non importa quanto tu l'abbia ferita.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-91101\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/sad-woman-crying-in-the-room.jpg\" alt=\"donna triste che piange nella stanza\" width=\"800\" height=\"532\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/sad-woman-crying-in-the-room.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/sad-woman-crying-in-the-room-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/sad-woman-crying-in-the-room-768x511.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Perch\u00e9 l'hai sempre trattata come se sapessi che sarebbe rimasta al tuo fianco, nonostante tutto il dolore emotivo che le stavi causando.<\/p>\n<p>The truth is that you\u2019ve been taking advantage of her and of the way she loves you.<\/p>\n<p>Che hai usato la sua grazia e il suo cuore indulgente come un'opportunit\u00e0 per trattarla come volevi, senza mai pensare alle conseguenze emotive che il tuo comportamento stava lasciando su di lei.<\/p>\n<p>But most of all\u2014she can\u2019t force herself to continue forgiving you, even if she wanted to because <b>non ti sei mai dispiaciuto per quello che le hai fatto passare.<\/b>.<\/p>\n<p>S\u00ec, le hai detto che ti dispiace centinaia di volte. Ma nessuna delle tue scuse \u00e8 mai stata sincera.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-91102\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/man-apologies-to-woman.jpg\" alt=\"l&#039;uomo si scusa con la donna\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/man-apologies-to-woman.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/man-apologies-to-woman-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/man-apologies-to-woman-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Non avete mai provato a camminare nei suoi panni e a guardare le cose dal suo punto di vista.<\/p>\n<p>You never put in the effort to really understand everything you\u2019d been doing to this girl for years.<\/p>\n<p><b>Non ti sei mai sentito in colpa per tutti i danni emotivi che le hai causato. <\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>Non ti sei mai sentito in colpa per le sue lacrime e non hai mai pensato di essere responsabile dei suoi dolori.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Forse non eri consapevole di tutto il dolore che le avevi causato. Oppure hai cercato di giustificarti non guardando mai la verit\u00e0 negli occhi.<\/p>\n<p>Or you are just an insensitive asshole who doesn\u2019t care what he is doing to someone who loves him.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-91103\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/sad-woman-sitting-on-the-bed.jpg\" alt=\"donna triste seduta sul letto\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/sad-woman-sitting-on-the-bed.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/sad-woman-sitting-on-the-bed-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/sad-woman-sitting-on-the-bed-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><b>Either way, the truth is that you\u2019ve never shown any sign of real resentment. <\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>La verit\u00e0 \u00e8 che <\/b><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/love\/spero-che-farmi-del-male-ti-perseguiti-per-sempre\/\"><b>hurting her doesn\u2019t haunt you<\/b><\/a><b>.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>The truth is that you\u2019ve never shown her that you were honestly sorry for all the bad things you\u2019d done.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>And what is the point of constantly forgiving someone who clearly doesn\u2019t want to be forgiven?<\/b><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-91098\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/This-Is-Why-She-Cant-Keep-Forgiving-You-pinterest.png\" alt=\"Ecco perch\u00e9 non pu\u00f2 continuare a perdonarvi\" width=\"735\" height=\"1102\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/This-Is-Why-She-Cant-Keep-Forgiving-You-pinterest.png 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/This-Is-Why-She-Cant-Keep-Forgiving-You-pinterest-200x300.png 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/This-Is-Why-She-Cant-Keep-Forgiving-You-pinterest-683x1024.png 683w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 735px) 100vw, 735px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>For a long time, this girl believed in all of your promises, while you were doing nothing but playing her for a fool. She kept trying to find excuses for you mistreating her and kept hoping that you\u2019d become the man you swore you\u2019d be. She kept justifying you and kept waiting for you to&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":91104,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29618],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-24966","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-moving-on"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29618,"label":"moving on"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/This-Is-Why-She-Cant-Keep-Forgiving-You.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29618,"name":"moving on","slug":"moving-on","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29618,"taxonomy":"category","description":"When nothing else works - inspiring stories about moving on are bound to help you let go of people and situations you never thought you could live without.\r\n","parent":38,"count":200,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29618,"category_count":200,"category_description":"When nothing else works - inspiring stories about moving on are bound to help you let go of people and situations you never thought you could live without.\r\n","cat_name":"moving on","category_nicename":"moving-on","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/24966","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=24966"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/24966\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/91104"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=24966"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=24966"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=24966"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}