{"id":25056,"date":"2019-10-04T11:10:56","date_gmt":"2019-10-04T11:10:56","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=25056"},"modified":"2022-02-23T11:18:31","modified_gmt":"2022-02-23T11:18:31","slug":"la-cosa-piu-coraggiosa-che-tu-possa-mai-fare-e-amare-di-nuovo","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/la-cosa-piu-coraggiosa-che-tu-possa-mai-fare-e-amare-di-nuovo\/","title":{"rendered":"La cosa pi\u00f9 coraggiosa da fare \u00e8 amare di nuovo"},"content":{"rendered":"

Only the ones who have been hurt beyond repair know how hard it is to love again. How hard it is to place your heart in somebody’s hands and pray that they won\u2019t drop it.<\/p>\n

You are marked by your past, and there\u2019s nothing you can do about it. You want love, but you don\u2019t want the risk that comes with letting somebody in.<\/p>\n

Ormai la storia la conoscete fin troppo bene. Inizia come un sogno e finisce per essere un incubo. Ti solleva e finisce con te in rovina. Inizia con le risate e finisce con le lacrime.<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t want that again. You don\u2019t want your mind to be messed with. You don\u2019t want to trust in somebody and get betrayed. You don\u2019t want your emotions played with.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s why you guard your heart. You built walls so high that it seems they are impossible to climb. It\u2019s easier that way.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s safer than giving love a chance and picking up the pieces once more. It\u2019s safer than opening up and being vulnerable. It\u2019s safer to be alone.<\/p>\n

You are used to be on your own after all. It\u2019s not so much different than the relationships you are used to. They left you feeling so lonely that being alone actually feels better.<\/p>\n

Sono d'accordo, stare da soli \u00e8 sempre meglio che avere una relazione sbagliata. Ma \u00e8 davvero una risposta chiudersi emotivamente e stare lontano dalle relazioni?<\/p>\n

Certo che no, e ve ne renderete conto uno di questi giorni.<\/p>\n

You will realize that nothing in this life is worth it like love. It\u2019s worth the risk. It\u2019s worth the hurt. It\u2019s worth all the wrong ones if they pave the path for the right one.<\/p>\n

Una volta che ve ne sarete resi conto, vedrete che avete pi\u00f9 coraggio di quanto pensiate. Sarete disposti a mettervi in gioco e a fare un altro tentativo con l'amore.<\/p>\n

Non ne siete nemmeno consapevoli, ma tutto quello che avete passato ha ispessito la vostra pelle. Vi ha reso pi\u00f9 forti. Vi ha reso pi\u00f9 <\/b><\/em>resistibile. Vi ha trasformato in una persona che si rialza sempre, indipendentemente dalla difficolt\u00e0 della caduta.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

Vi ha fatto anche filtrare il buono e il cattivo. Vi ha fatto notare le bandiere rosse. Vi ha reso pi\u00f9 cauti. Vi ha reso pi\u00f9 perspicaci e in grado di giudicare meglio le persone.<\/p>\n

It made you see what you want and what you absolutely won\u2019t tolerate. It made you establish standards and not go beneath them. It made you see your own worth, so you would never again settle for less than you deserve.<\/p>\n

And even though there is no guarantee that you won\u2019t get hurt again, it will give you a head start and better odds in choosing in whom you place your trust.<\/p>\n

Potrebbe sembrare impossibile ora, ma amerai di nuovo<\/a>. Incontrerete qualcuno che sar\u00e0 diverso da tutti quelli che avete conosciuto finora.<\/p>\n

Incontrerete qualcuno che render\u00e0 le vostre pareti cadere a terra<\/a>. You will meet someone who will make you realize why it didn\u2019t work with anyone else before.<\/p>\n

It won\u2019t be easy for you to give love a chance. It will take all of your strength. It will make you face your fears and conquer them. And you will\u2014there is no doubt about it.<\/p>\n

You will love again, and it\u2019ll be the bravest thing you\u2018ll ever do.<\/p>\n

\"La<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Only the ones who have been hurt beyond repair know how hard it is to love again. How hard it is to place your heart in somebody’s hands and pray that they won\u2019t drop it. You are marked by your past, and there\u2019s nothing you can do about it. You want love, but you don\u2019t…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":25057,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29618],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-25056","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-moving-on"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29618,"label":"moving on"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/matias-saw-783045-unsplash.jpg",800,537,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29618,"name":"moving on","slug":"moving-on","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29618,"taxonomy":"category","description":"When nothing else works - inspiring stories about moving on are bound to help you let go of people and situations you never thought you could live without.\r\n","parent":38,"count":200,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29618,"category_count":200,"category_description":"When nothing else works - inspiring stories about moving on are bound to help you let go of people and situations you never thought you could live without.\r\n","cat_name":"moving on","category_nicename":"moving-on","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/25056","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=25056"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/25056\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/25057"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=25056"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=25056"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=25056"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}