{"id":25112,"date":"2020-07-05T07:43:32","date_gmt":"2020-07-05T07:43:32","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=25112"},"modified":"2024-10-28T01:55:37","modified_gmt":"2024-10-27T23:55:37","slug":"una-lettera-alla-donna-che-ero-un-anno-fa","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/una-lettera-alla-donna-che-ero-un-anno-fa\/","title":{"rendered":"Una lettera alla donna che ero un anno fa"},"content":{"rendered":"

Caro me,<\/p>\n

You really couldn\u2019t even guess how much could happen in one year. You never thought that the tears would stop.<\/p>\n

Non avreste mai pensato di riuscire ad addormentarvi senza rigirarvi e pensare troppo.<\/p>\n

You were haunted by your thoughts. You kept asking yourself: \u201c What went wrong?\u201d, \u201cCould I have done something differently?\u201d, \u201cWill he come back?\u201d and, \u201cGli manco?<\/a>\u201d…<\/p>\n

Ma eccovi qui, ora siete calmi. I tuoi pensieri sono stati messi a tacere. Sapete che non si \u00e8 mai trattato di voi.<\/p>\n

There was nothing you could’ve done or said that would have changed the outcome.<\/p>\n

Era sempre lui. Non ha mai visto la vera te. Non ha mai visto quanto fossi unica e speciale.<\/p>\n

Ha giocato con i tuoi sentimenti e ha dato per scontato il tuo amore. E anche se ti ha fatto male, ti ha fatto un favore.<\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

You would still be hooked on him and stuck in something that was never right for you if he wasn\u2019t the one who left. You were too close and too in love that you couldn\u2019t see the real him.<\/p>\n

Guardati ora, hai quasi dimenticato lui e pensavi che quel giorno non sarebbe mai arrivato. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

You finally found the light after all the darkness and I couldn\u2019t be prouder. You are stronger than you gave yourself credit. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

It wasn\u2019t easy to get where you are now. When you are in pain, a year can really feel like a century.<\/p>\n

Sapevi fin dall'inizio che avevi bisogno di tempo, ma sembrava che rallentasse solo per farti un dispetto.<\/p>\n

Tutti quei bei ricordi che avete condiviso sono diventati il vostro peggior nemico. Il pensiero di non poter pi\u00f9 rivivere momenti come quelli con lui continuava a fare a pezzi il tuo cuore.<\/p>\n

La voce ti tremava e ti facevano male le orecchie ogni volta che dovevi dire che vi eravate lasciati e che lui non faceva pi\u00f9 parte della tua vita a qualcuno che vi conosceva entrambi.<\/p>\n

Today those painful feelings have turned into acceptance. You know that things had to go that way and that\u2019s it.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

\u00a0Memories are just memories now and you proudly say you are \u201c<\/i><\/b>single e favoloso<\/i><\/b><\/a>\u201d. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

You have a more positive outlook on life and on yourself. You don\u2019t dwell on the past anymore, your focus is on what’s ahead of you.<\/p>\n

Avete imparato quanto sia importante prendersi cura di s\u00e9 e ricordarsi ogni giorno del proprio valore.<\/p>\n

Credevate di farcela e ce l'avete fatta.<\/p>\n

Avevi la tua fede, i tuoi amici e la tua famiglia al tuo fianco e non c'era modo di fermarti con un sistema di supporto come quello. Sei molto grata a tutti loro.<\/p>\n

Vi sentite come se steste vivendo una vita nuova. Siete felici e vivaci. Esplorate il mondo che vi circonda, andate in posti nuovi e incontrate nuove persone.<\/p>\n

You have new goals to pursue and there\u2019s no stopping you.<\/p>\n

Perdendo lui, avete trovato voi stessi. Avete scoperto di che pasta siete fatti e siete pronti ad affrontare qualsiasi cosa vi capiti a tiro.<\/p>\n

Keep your head up high, your dreams big and just keep on going forward and everything will work out when it\u2019s supposed to. You know that, don\u2019t you?<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n

\"Una<\/figure>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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