{"id":25337,"date":"2020-08-09T07:06:21","date_gmt":"2020-08-09T07:06:21","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=25337"},"modified":"2022-04-22T01:03:09","modified_gmt":"2022-04-22T01:03:09","slug":"19-cose-che-ho-provato-dopo-essere-stato-ghosted","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/19-cose-che-ho-provato-dopo-essere-stato-ghosted\/","title":{"rendered":"19 cose che ho provato dopo essere stato spifferato"},"content":{"rendered":"

1. Nessuno merita di essere abbandonato. \u00c8 devastante avere una persona al proprio fianco un attimo prima e un attimo dopo non esserci pi\u00f9. \u00c8 deludente.<\/p>\n

After that, it\u2019s so hard to trust people. You become suspicious and paranoid.<\/p>\n

2. It\u2019s a waste of time scrolling down your phone and rereading all the messages you\u2019ve sent him. You\u2019re not going to find where you went wrong. You didn\u2019t do anything wrong. Your moves were the right ones to make.<\/p>\n

3. The lack of closure feels like someone punched you in the throat. You feel insulted, like you\u2019re worthless.<\/p>\n

4. La vostra autostima subisce un colpo. Potete andare avanti, ma le cose non sono pi\u00f9 le stesse. Almeno per un po'.<\/p>\n

5. Ghosting tells you more about the person who does it than about you. They are rude and immature. And if someone is capable of doing such a thing to another human being, then it\u2019s even better than you don\u2019t date him.<\/p>\n

6. Nel mondo degli appuntamenti, fantasma<\/a> \u00e8 una delle torture pi\u00f9 crudeli che si possano infliggere.<\/p>\n

7. Non rincorrere mai una persona che ti ha fatto il ghosting.<\/p>\n

8. Il dolore emotivo si trasforma in un vero e proprio dolore fisico. Si inizia letteralmente a soffrire.<\/p>\n

9. Vi rendete conto che una persona a cui piacete davvero non vi farebbe mai una cosa cos\u00ec crudele. Pi\u00f9 tardi, ringraziate Dio che hai schivato il proiettile.<\/a><\/p>\n

10. There is no point in trying to save things because even if you succeed, he\u2019s going to do that to you again.<\/p>\n

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11. You feel you need revenge. You feel you need to call him out on it. You want to let him know that you know what he was doing. This will get you nowhere. You\u2019re only going to torture yourself and suffer even more. He won\u2019t care, not even one bit. After all, he ghosted you, not thinking twice about it.<\/p>\n

12. You want to send angry texts and emails but you mustn\u2019t. Just take the high road, because if people find out he ghosted you and you make a scene, no one will side with you and he will be even more glad he ghosted you.<\/p>\n

13. You have the need to delete him out of your life. You have to get rid of everything that reminds you of him. And it\u2019s a good idea. It works and you\u2019ll definitely feel better not having a constant reminder that you dated a ghoster!<\/p>\n

14. If you didn\u2019t set his cat on fire or cut his brakes, it\u2019s not your fault. You did nothing wrong. You\u2019re not a psychopath or a lunatic. It\u2019s not you!<\/p>\n

15. Even if you never were really officially together, you have a right to be upset. You can love someone you never dated. Just because you were never a couple it doesn\u2019t mean you\u2019re not hurt.<\/p>\n

16. Don\u2019t feel like an idiot because you tried and it didn\u2019t work. Now, you\u2019re hurt and you shouldn\u2019t be embarrassed by what you feel. You are a human being. You\u2019re emotional. This too will pass.<\/p>\n

17. If he tries to contact you, don\u2019t even try thinking about getting back with him.<\/p>\n

18. Don\u2019t waste your tears on someone who doesn\u2019t deserve them. You\u2019re way too beautiful for that. Your happiness is right around the corner.<\/p>\n

19. You\u2019re worthy of true love. You\u2019re worthy of being someones prima scelta<\/span><\/a>. You\u2019re not a backup plan. You deserve better.<\/p>\n

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1. No one deserves to be blown off. It\u2019s devastating to have a person by your side one moment and the next, they are completely gone. It\u2019s disappointing. After that, it\u2019s so hard to trust people. You become suspicious and paranoid. 2. It\u2019s a waste of time scrolling down your phone and rereading all the…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":25338,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29619],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-25337","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-stories-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29619,"label":"stories"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/christopher-campbell-588847-unsplash.jpg",800,537,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29619,"name":"stories","slug":"stories-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29619,"taxonomy":"category","description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","parent":38,"count":424,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29619,"category_count":424,"category_description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","cat_name":"stories","category_nicename":"stories-love","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/25337","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=25337"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/25337\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/25338"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=25337"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=25337"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=25337"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}