{"id":25454,"date":"2020-03-10T11:07:14","date_gmt":"2020-03-10T11:07:14","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=25454"},"modified":"2021-08-12T08:50:20","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T08:50:20","slug":"10-segni-che-sta-solo-giocando-con-le-tue-emozioni","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/10-segni-che-sta-solo-giocando-con-le-tue-emozioni\/","title":{"rendered":"10 segni che sta solo giocando con le vostre emozioni"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Sometimes we\u2019re so fixed on searching for \u2018<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/love\/17-segnali-del-linguaggio-del-corpo-che-gli-piaci-segretamente-e-che-e-interessato-a-te\/\">segni che gli piaci<\/a>\u2019 that we fail to see the huge, red flags glowing in the dark.<\/p>\n<p>Non riusciamo a capire che \u00e8 uno stronzo totale e manipolatore il cui divertimento pi\u00f9 grande \u00e8 torturarti e trasformare la tua vita in un inferno.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s frustrating to face the fact that all you\u2019ve wanted was someone to love, someone who loves you back and you\u2019ve got a manipulative, immature, toxic person who feeds himself with pain and suffering.<\/p>\n<p>You\u2019re his supply, he needs you, so he manipulates you into staying.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019ve been through this hell and thank God I managed to run away from it. I dumped his sorry ass and went no contact. I don\u2019t want to know whether he is alive or not.<\/p>\n<p>I don\u2019t even want to know <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/se-gli-manchero-se-lo-lascio-solo-e-qualcosa-che-vale-la-pena-di-scoprire\/\">se gli manco<\/a>. That\u2019s how little I think of him.<\/p>\n<p>I went through all of this but there is something I learned after all. No matter what kind of a relationship you\u2019re in, a guy will play with your emotions if he wants to.<\/p>\n<p>Potete pensare che vi ami fino alla luna e ritorno, ma pu\u00f2 essere solo una grande e grossa bugia.<\/p>\n<p><b>Signs he\u2019s playing with your emotions<\/b><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">La vostra relazione sta cambiando in peggio<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-78906 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/man-arguing-with-woman-while-she-looking-away.jpg\" alt=\"uomo che discute con una donna mentre lei guarda altrove\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/man-arguing-with-woman-while-she-looking-away.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/man-arguing-with-woman-while-she-looking-away-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/man-arguing-with-woman-while-she-looking-away-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Instead of meeting his friends and family, he\u2019s keeping you a secret. Your relationship should have gone to another level by now. Instead, it\u2019s decreasing in quality.<\/p>\n<p>He isn\u2019t asking to spend more time with you, he seems to be getting away more often.<\/p>\n<p>Tutti questi sono segnali che indicano che lui non fa sul serio con voi e che vi sta solo usando per divertirsi.<\/p>\n<p>He is not taking your emotions into consideration because he doesn\u2019t care about you.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Fa cose che vi fanno arrabbiare<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-78907 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/man-yelling-at-woman.jpg\" alt=\"uomo che urla contro una donna\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/man-yelling-at-woman.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/man-yelling-at-woman-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/man-yelling-at-woman-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><br \/>\nEravate arrabbiati per qualcosa che aveva fatto e lo avete affrontato. Gli avete detto che si \u00e8 comportato in modo maleducato e che ha ferito i vostri sentimenti, ma nonostante il fatto che vi siate aperti con lui e abbiate mostrato vulnerabilit\u00e0, lui continua a fare la stessa cosa.<\/p>\n<p>He still hurts you the same way. He does this because he doesn\u2019t care how you feel. He is playing with your emotions and he doesn\u2019t feel sorry for you.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\"> He\u2019s not that available anymore<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-78914 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/young-girl-sitting-at-coffee-bar-and-looking-at-phone-screen.jpg\" alt=\"giovane ragazza seduta al bar che guarda lo schermo del telefono\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/young-girl-sitting-at-coffee-bar-and-looking-at-phone-screen.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/young-girl-sitting-at-coffee-bar-and-looking-at-phone-screen-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/young-girl-sitting-at-coffee-bar-and-looking-at-phone-screen-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>This right here shows you how much he\u2019s interested in being with you or in a relationship. At first, this wasn\u2019t an issue, you were only starting to get to know each other.<\/p>\n<p>Ma mentre passavate pi\u00f9 tempo insieme, lui voleva passare meno tempo con te.<\/p>\n<p>Usually, he uses some lame excuse as to why he can\u2019t come and see you, he cancels dates last-minute and he has slowly distanced himself.<\/p>\n<p>Lui non \u00e8 pi\u00f9 cos\u00ec presente e voi state lentamente perdendo la sensazione di avere una relazione.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\"> He is interested in you when you\u2019re not there<\/h2>\n<h2><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-78916 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/man-typing-on-his-phone-outside.jpg\" alt=\"uomo che scrive al telefono all&#039;esterno\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/man-typing-on-his-phone-outside.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/man-typing-on-his-phone-outside-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/man-typing-on-his-phone-outside-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><br \/>\nQuando un uomo gioca con le vostre emozioni, ha una tattica perfetta per tenervi con s\u00e9.<\/p>\n<p>When you are next to him, he won\u2019t give you the time of day. He\u2019ll push you away from him and he\u2019ll try to see you as little as possible.<\/p>\n<p>Ma quando prenderete in mano la situazione e prenderete le distanze da lui, vi chiamer\u00e0 in continuazione.<\/p>\n<p>If you\u2019re out with a friend and you hadn\u2019t announced a week earlier that you were going to be, he will bomb you with texts that<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/9-signs-misses-actually-mean\/\"> gli manchi <\/a>e ti vuole al suo fianco.<\/p>\n<p>These men do this because they don\u2019t want to let you out of their grasp that easily.<\/p>\n<p>They don\u2019t want to be with you but they still want to have you as an option, so they give you enough attention to keep you hooked.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Mostra interesse per altre donne<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-78918 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/smiling-man-standing-and-typing-on-his-phone-in-living-room.jpg\" alt=\"uomo sorridente in piedi che digita sul suo telefono in salotto\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/smiling-man-standing-and-typing-on-his-phone-in-living-room.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/smiling-man-standing-and-typing-on-his-phone-in-living-room-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/smiling-man-standing-and-typing-on-his-phone-in-living-room-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s one thing when he does it when you don\u2019t see it but completely another when he does it in front of you.<\/p>\n<p>When you don\u2019t see it, you don\u2019t know it and it can\u2019t hurt you despite the fact that he is a great douche. But when he does it right in front of you, it hurts like hell.<\/p>\n<p>He is proving to you that he doesn\u2019t care about you or respect you. Him flirting with other women is just proof he is playing with your emotions.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">He makes you feel you\u2019re not good enough for him<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-78920 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/lonely-woman-sitting-on-the-roof.jpg\" alt=\"donna sola seduta sul tetto\" width=\"800\" height=\"531\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/lonely-woman-sitting-on-the-roof.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/lonely-woman-sitting-on-the-roof-300x199.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/lonely-woman-sitting-on-the-roof-768x510.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Around him, you feel you\u2019re not pretty enough or that you\u2019re not smart enough. This is not on you.<\/p>\n<p>You wouldn\u2019t feel that way if he didn\u2019t treat you that way. His snarky comments and his mean jokes are killing your confidence in a second.<\/p>\n<p>He sees that as having fun because it makes him laugh. He doesn\u2019t care that the things he says are not even the slightest bit funny to you.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">\u00c8 perfetto quando ha bisogno di qualcosa da te<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-78923 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/young-couple-enjoying-coffee-at-cafe.jpg\" alt=\"Giovane coppia che prende un caff\u00e8 al bar\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/young-couple-enjoying-coffee-at-cafe.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/young-couple-enjoying-coffee-at-cafe-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/young-couple-enjoying-coffee-at-cafe-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>When you are the only person who can help him, he is the official winner of the \u2018boyfriend of the year\u2019 prize.<\/p>\n<p>He\u2019s there for you, he supports you, he listens to you, he basically does everything that a normal boyfriend should do.<\/p>\n<p>And once he gets what he wants, he shuts you down again because he\u2019s done with you. You\u2019ve given him what he needed so he can continue to treat you like shit.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Mandare segnali contrastanti \u00e8 il suo forte<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-78925 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/An-angry-girl-looks-at-the-phone.jpg\" alt=\"Una ragazza arrabbiata guarda il telefono\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/An-angry-girl-looks-at-the-phone.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/An-angry-girl-looks-at-the-phone-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/An-angry-girl-looks-at-the-phone-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>\u00c8 il re assoluto quando si tratta di questo. Nessuno pu\u00f2 batterlo o agire in modo cos\u00ec subdolo come lui.<\/p>\n<p>One day you\u2019re his world, his love, his everything and the next he is capable of walking by you in the street without even saying hello.<\/p>\n<p>Queste montagne russe emotive provocano un dolore emotivo che pu\u00f2 facilmente trasformarsi in un vero e proprio dolore fisico. Potete letteralmente ammalarvi a causa dei continui abusi emotivi, del terrore o della sua indifferenza.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\"> Si aspetta da voi il perdono<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-78927 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/girl-alone-at-home-sitting-in-living-room.jpg\" alt=\"ragazza sola a casa seduta in salotto\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/girl-alone-at-home-sitting-in-living-room.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/girl-alone-at-home-sitting-in-living-room-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/girl-alone-at-home-sitting-in-living-room-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>He can get away with everything but you don\u2019t. His double standards are ridiculous.<\/p>\n<p>When he doesn\u2019t call you for days, he doesn\u2019t show up on a date or doesn\u2019t text you back, you\u2019re supposed to let it slide and forget all about it after his pitiful \u2018sorry\u2019.<\/p>\n<p>Ma quando la situazione si inverte, quando sei tu a prenderti la libert\u00e0 di comportarti come lui, come un farabutto, allora si scatena l'inferno.<\/p>\n<p>He calls you, he goes out looking for you and he makes a scene. And God knows how long he will be mentioning that one \u2018fallout\u2019 and rubbing it in your face while he is doing the same thing.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Mente sempre<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-78928 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/man-talking-to-bored-woman-at-cafe.jpg\" alt=\"uomo che parla con una donna annoiata in un caff\u00e8\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/man-talking-to-bored-woman-at-cafe.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/man-talking-to-bored-woman-at-cafe-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/man-talking-to-bored-woman-at-cafe-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><br \/>\nFirst, you notice those \u2018white\u2019 lies and you tell yourself how they are not that big of a deal.<\/p>\n<p>But later on, those \u2018white\u2019 lies become way too frequent. Later on, you find out that lying is in his blood.<\/p>\n<p>He\u2019s capable of lying about everything\u2014his past, about what he\u2019s doing, he\u2019s even changing some facts about him so people would like him. He is a manipulator in disguise.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-78932 size-large\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/10-Signs-Hes-Only-Playing-With-Your-Emotions-Pinterest-724x1024.jpg\" alt=\"10 segni che sta solo giocando con le vostre emozioni \" width=\"724\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/10-Signs-Hes-Only-Playing-With-Your-Emotions-Pinterest-724x1024.jpg 724w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/10-Signs-Hes-Only-Playing-With-Your-Emotions-Pinterest-212x300.jpg 212w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/10-Signs-Hes-Only-Playing-With-Your-Emotions-Pinterest-768x1086.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/10-Signs-Hes-Only-Playing-With-Your-Emotions-Pinterest-1086x1536.jpg 1086w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/10-Signs-Hes-Only-Playing-With-Your-Emotions-Pinterest-1448x2048.jpg 1448w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/10-Signs-Hes-Only-Playing-With-Your-Emotions-Pinterest.jpg 1587w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 724px) 100vw, 724px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Sometimes we\u2019re so fixed on searching for \u2018signs he likes you\u2019 that we fail to see the huge, red flags glowing in the dark. We fail to see that he is a total, manipulative asshole whose biggest fun time is torturing you and turning your life into a living hell. It\u2019s frustrating to face the&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":42,"featured_media":78933,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29648],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-25454","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-dating-tips"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29648,"label":"dating tips"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/10-Signs-Hes-Only-Playing-With-Your-Emotions.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Selma June","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/selmajune\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29648,"name":"dating tips","slug":"dating-tips","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29648,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Learn to date like a pro and avoid making some of the biggest mistakes in texting, flirting, winning a man's heart, and commitment. 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