{"id":2555,"date":"2020-10-14T13:15:06","date_gmt":"2020-10-14T13:15:06","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=2555"},"modified":"2021-08-11T11:18:37","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T11:18:37","slug":"amare-qualcuno-di-tossico-significa","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/amare-qualcuno-di-tossico-significa\/","title":{"rendered":"Ecco come ci si sente ad amare qualcuno che \u00e8 tossico"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Se avete mai amato una persona tossica, saprete che razza di montagne russe di emozioni siano.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s magical. It\u2019s demented. It\u2019s exhausting. It\u2019s twisted. It\u2019s bittersweet. One second you\u2019re up, the next one you\u2019re down. Your day depends on that person.<\/p>\n<p>In realt\u00e0, tutto il vostro essere dipende da quella persona. Dalla sua salute e dalla sua psiche.<\/p>\n<p>Vi chiedete come sia possibile amare cos\u00ec tanto una persona?<\/p>\n<p>There are some moments of clear thinking, and in those moments you know you shouldn\u2019t be there.<\/p>\n<p>You shouldn\u2019t be in his insecure arms\u2014arms that are your sanctuary as well as your hell at the same time.<\/p>\n<p>Avete abbracciato questo tipo di amore oscuro. Lo coltivate. C'\u00e8 solo un barlume di speranza che arriva e si allontana da te come un amico ombroso. Dormite e respirate con esso.<\/p>\n<p>Non c'\u00e8 logica. Un momento si \u00e8 fortemente convinti che le cose andranno finalmente meglio, e un momento dopo si sa che si \u00e8 condannati.<\/p>\n<p>Iniziate a mettere in dubbio la vostra sanit\u00e0 mentale. Per un momento vi sentite benedetti, ma poi vi sentite maledetti.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-117663\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-talking-over-phone-being-upset.jpg\" alt=\"donna che parla al telefono e si arrabbia\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-talking-over-phone-being-upset.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-talking-over-phone-being-upset-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-talking-over-phone-being-upset-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-talking-over-phone-being-upset-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-talking-over-phone-being-upset-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-talking-over-phone-being-upset-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-talking-over-phone-being-upset-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-talking-over-phone-being-upset-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Ti sorprendi a pensare <em>questa volta le cose saranno diverse<\/em>, even though you know they won\u2019t?<\/p>\n<p>When you love someone toxic, it feels like an addiction. You know you\u2019ve become a junkie.<\/p>\n<p>You can\u2019t run away from that notion which hurts you in your chest.<\/p>\n<p>You reach a point where you don\u2019t care what will happen next, you just need to be next to that person.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Vedi anche:<\/strong>&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/4-motivi-per-cui-le-donne-rimangono-in-una-cattiva-relazione\/\">4 motivi per cui le donne restano in relazioni sbagliate<\/a><\/p>\n<p>You can\u2019t help it even though you hate yourself because you feel like you can\u2019t live without this person.<\/p>\n<p>Ogni sera ti inventi degli scenari nella tua testa. Immaginate di farla finita una volta per tutte.<\/p>\n<p>But then, all of that fades away once you\u2019re near him. Your determination and courage disappear. Do you even recognize yourself anymore?<\/p>\n<p>Does it seem to you that when things are good, they\u2019re <em>davvero buono<\/em>? And when it\u2019s bad, it\u2019s actually <em>il peggiore<\/em>?<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-117664\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-standing-outdoors-leaning-on-the-car.jpg\" alt=\"donna in piedi all&#039;aperto appoggiata all&#039;auto\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-standing-outdoors-leaning-on-the-car.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-standing-outdoors-leaning-on-the-car-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-standing-outdoors-leaning-on-the-car-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-standing-outdoors-leaning-on-the-car-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-standing-outdoors-leaning-on-the-car-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-standing-outdoors-leaning-on-the-car-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-standing-outdoors-leaning-on-the-car-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-standing-outdoors-leaning-on-the-car-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s tense. I know you feel drained because I feel drained, too. <a href=\"https:\/\/thoughtcatalog.com\/rose-goodman\/2017\/03\/love-shouldnt-be-so-hard\/\" rel=\"noopener\">Relationships shouldn\u2019t be this hard.<\/a><\/p>\n<p>The time will come when you will become so fed up with these feelings. You will have to go through some kind of emotional rehab, but that\u2019s okay.<\/p>\n<p>Alla fine capirete di aver bisogno di aiuto. Naturalmente, vi sentirete intossicati, attraverserete diverse crisi.<\/p>\n<p>Tuttavia, sopravviverete. Sapete che la vostra battaglia sta per iniziare. Ci saranno molte vittime in questa guerra contro l'amore tossico, ma potete vincere, credetemi.<\/p>\n<p>Amare una persona tossica pu\u00f2 insegnarvi molte lezioni. Se le imparate bene, sarete pi\u00f9 forti che mai.<\/p>\n<p>You will be the best version of yourself because there won\u2019t be anyone to keep bringing you down.<\/p>\n<p>Remember, you\u2019re not weak\u2014you\u2019re human. No matter how fragile we may seem, there is so much strength in us.<\/p>\n<p>Spero che tu possa trovarlo nel profondo del tuo cuore e che tu possa finalmente guarire il tuo cuore.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Vedi anche:&nbsp;<\/strong><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/love\/ogni-ragazza-ha-perso-un-uomo-tossico\/\">A tutte le ragazze che hanno perso se stesse a causa di un uomo tossico<\/a><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-117762\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/This-is-How-Loving-Someone-Who-is-Toxic-Feels-Like-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"Ecco come ci si sente ad amare qualcuno che \u00e8 tossico\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/This-is-How-Loving-Someone-Who-is-Toxic-Feels-Like-pinterest.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/This-is-How-Loving-Someone-Who-is-Toxic-Feels-Like-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/This-is-How-Loving-Someone-Who-is-Toxic-Feels-Like-pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/This-is-How-Loving-Someone-Who-is-Toxic-Feels-Like-pinterest-768x1152.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/This-is-How-Loving-Someone-Who-is-Toxic-Feels-Like-pinterest-150x225.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>If you have ever loved a toxic person, you would know what a crazy rollercoaster of emotions that is. It\u2019s magical. It\u2019s demented. It\u2019s exhausting. It\u2019s twisted. It\u2019s bittersweet. One second you\u2019re up, the next one you\u2019re down. Your day depends on that person. Actually, your whole being depends on that person. Your health and&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":20,"featured_media":117662,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29625],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-2555","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-toxic-relationship"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29625,"label":"toxic relationship"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/This-is-How-Loving-Someone-Who-is-Toxic-Feels-Like-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Christine Keller","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/christine\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29625,"name":"toxic relationship","slug":"toxic-relationship","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29625,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Are you in a toxic relationship without even knowing it? 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