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<\/p>\nNel cercare di capire il cervello maschile, spesso facciamo certe generalizzazioni su di loro, che decidiamo essere vere, che sia cos\u00ec o no.<\/p>\n
By doing that, we are actually making it easier for ourself after realizing that we simply weren\u2019t enough for a certain guy to decide to change.<\/p>\n
We usually make these assumptions and stick by them after having been through a relationship where a guy wasn\u2019t willing to change his (questionable) ways to make us happy.<\/p>\n
Not only is this wrong but it is insulting, both to us and even more to the men out there who actually give a damn and do not fall into your \u2018jerk\u2019 category by default.<\/p>\n
Here\u2019s what we often get wrong about men:<\/p>\n
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Certo, noi donne siamo pi\u00f9 inclini all'aspetto romantico delle cose, ma questo \u00e8 dovuto soprattutto agli innumerevoli film per ragazze che guardiamo settimanalmente (a volte anche quotidianamente), che ci danno aspettative incredibilmente irrealistiche sugli uomini.<\/p>\n
Movies aren\u2019t real life, it\u2019s ridiculous to even have to say that.<\/p>\n
Just because a guy in a movie hires a plane that spells out I love you in the sky for his beloved leading lady, does not make your boyfriend\u2019s bouquet any less delightful!<\/p>\n
Non \u00e8 realistico aspettarsi che il nostro partner segua questi grandi gesti, soprattutto perch\u00e9 nessuno pu\u00f2 permettersi queste cose nella vita reale.<\/p>\n
Let\u2019s give them a break and appreciate what they do for us. Surely they are more romantic than we give them credit for.<\/p>\n
Let\u2019s learn to appreciate the small gestures that show us they love us. Life isn\u2019t a movie and we aren\u2019t katherine heigl. Everyone\u2019s idea of romance is different!<\/p>\n
Per alcuni, una cena elegante seguita da una passeggiata romantica sulla spiaggia al chiaro di luna \u00e8 l'idea perfetta di una serata romantica, mentre altri trovano che un abbraccio, una bella chiacchierata e una spalla su cui piangere dopo una lunga giornata siano il gesto romantico perfetto.<\/p>\n
A ciascuno il suo!<\/p>\n
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This one is a very common misinterpretation we\u2019ve all heard on tv and in numerous movies.<\/p>\n
Pi\u00f9 e pi\u00f9 volte.<\/p>\n
Sure, there are guys who might not be okay with us ladies being more successful than them, mostly because it hurts their ego if we are financially more independent, and therefore able to afford certain things that they can\u2019t.<\/p>\n
Ma, fortunatamente, ci sono anche molti uomini che sanno che viviamo nel XXI secolo e che le donne sono pi\u00f9 che meritevoli di una pari retribuzione e che non trovano intimidatorio starci accanto.<\/p>\n
Just because you ran into a guy who had a problem with it, does not make it a rule. It\u2019s more of an exception these days and rightfully so.<\/p>\n
Se qualcuno \u00e8 abbastanza insicuro per questo, Dio solo sa quante altre insicurezze ha, che non hanno nulla a che fare con voi e tutto a che fare con lui.<\/p>\n
Aim higher, there are plenty more fish in the sea. You\u2019ll meet a guy who can handle you, just as amazing as you are, and will proudly parade you around every chance he gets. Not everyone is your ex.<\/p>\n
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Non \u00e8 questo il caso. Tutte le ragazze che hanno visto il proprio uomo essere follemente coinvolto emotivamente in una partita di calcio possono testimoniarlo.<\/p>\n
Sure, it can be annoying that he can get so emotional about something as irrelevant as a football match but when it comes to us, we\u2019re lucky if we hear him say I love you once in a blue moon.<\/p>\n
But here\u2019s the thing.<\/p>\n
Guys aren\u2019t like us. Just because he doesn\u2019t profess his love vocally every chance he gets, does not mean he doesn\u2019t love you.<\/p>\n
It\u2019s in the way he acts. Pay attention to his actions. If he makes you tea when you\u2019re feeling under the weather and sits with you under a blanket with his arm around you, you\u2019ve got yourself a keeper.<\/p>\n
What more can you ask for? He doesn\u2019t feel the need to constantly tell you this because he shows it when it counts.<\/p>\n
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It is another common misconception that men can\u2019t control their primitive urges, which makes it hard for them to remain faithful.<\/p>\n
In questo modo, facciamo un'altra falsa generalizzazione su di loro che non ha nulla a che fare con la realt\u00e0 e tutto a che fare con noi che cerchiamo di trovare una scusa per il loro tradimento o di rendere pi\u00f9 facile per noi accettare che siamo stati traditi.<\/p>\n
Solo perch\u00e9 un uomo ha tradito, non significa che questo valga per tutti gli uomini l\u00e0 fuori.<\/p>\n
Let\u2019s stop making assumptions about men when it suits us best and start realizing that, yeah, shit happens, but it doesn\u2019t mean it will keep happening with everyone we encounter.<\/p>\n
Cheating has nothing to do with gender and everything to do with being an insecure, selfish being who doesn\u2019t appreciate what they have.<\/p>\n
Diamo credito agli uomini, ci sono bravi ragazzi l\u00e0 fuori, devi solo uscire dalla tua zona di comfort e cercarli.<\/p>\n
It\u2019s not easy, sure, but don\u2019t give up on all men just because of one bad experience.<\/p>\n
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