{"id":2597,"date":"2020-05-06T11:28:11","date_gmt":"2020-05-06T11:28:11","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=2597"},"modified":"2022-02-23T01:22:46","modified_gmt":"2022-02-23T01:22:46","slug":"lettera-uomo-maltrattato-emotivamente","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/lettera-uomo-maltrattato-emotivamente\/","title":{"rendered":"Una lettera all'uomo che mi ha maltrattato emotivamente"},"content":{"rendered":"

Vorresti farmi piangere anche stasera davanti agli altri. Vorresti tagliare le mie vene con le tue parole come se stessi usando una lama affilatissima.<\/p>\n

Vorresti rendermi triste anche se sono felice. Vorresti farmi diventare brutta anche se sono la donna pi\u00f9 bella della stanza. Piccola, tutto questo mi \u00e8 ben noto.<\/p>\n

That’s what my life was during the last year spent with you. What are you going to do to me that you haven’t done before?<\/p>\n

Hai tenuto tutti quei duelli senza onore e onest\u00e0. Mi facevi impazzire anche se ero normale.<\/p>\n

You would make me insecure even if I was so sure about things in my life. Now, I decided it’s done. And I have a message for you: \u201cYou can cuddle with me, you can rape me, you can kill me\u2014it’s all the same to me.<\/p>\n

There is no mercy for you anymore. God is leading my hand and tonight, your victim is holding the sword of her abuser.\u201d<\/p>\n

I don’t want to think about you anymore. I don’t want to make my life miserable because you are there.<\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

I am just sad because I couldn’t discover all those latent segni di abuso emotivo<\/a> nel tempo.<\/p>\n

You know what you did to me and you didn’t feel any remorse about that. For everything that happened to you it was \u201cmy fault\u201d. Of course, abusers talk like this.<\/p>\n

Do you remember all those times when you were silent? Now I know it was your way to punish me. You didn’t respect me and you didn’t care about how I felt.<\/p>\n

Avevo paura di parlare davanti a te perch\u00e9 tutto quello che avevo detto era sbagliato. Tu mi hai fatto sentire cos\u00ec.<\/p>\n

So, it was better to keep my mouth shut. Until you approach me first. To tell me another lie again. That I am everything valuable you have. That I am your lucky charm. I can’t believe I was buying that shit.<\/p>\n

I still remember all those ugly jokes about me. You didn’t think twice and you told them to your friends.<\/p>\n

Mi prendevi in giro mentre io ero seduto da solo e mi chiedevo cosa ci fosse di sbagliato in me.<\/p>\n

Ora so che per me era tutto a posto. Il mio pi\u00f9 grande errore<\/a> was to give my heart to an asshole who didn’t know to cherish me.<\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

You never gave me a gift for my birthday. You weren’t there when I delivered our first baby. You didn’t respect my wishes because eri un maledetto psicopatico.<\/a><\/p>\n

Quando ora pompo i freni e mi guardo indietro, Ammiro la mia forza.<\/a> Ma, si sa, anche le donne pi\u00f9 forti alla fine si stancano. Per la mancanza di amore. Dalla mancanza di rispetto. Mancanza di gentilezza e onest\u00e0.<\/p>\n

Anch'io. Avevo delle ragioni per vivere, cos\u00ec ho scelto una vita senza di te. Ed \u00e8 stata la decisione migliore della mia vita.<\/p>\n

Ora c'\u00e8 una persona speciale nella mia vita. Mi ha insegnato ad amare di nuovo. Mi ha mostrato come deve essere una relazione sana.<\/p>\n

E non ci sono parole abbastanza belle per ringraziarlo per averlo fatto. E voi?<\/p>\n

I hope you will find someone who will do to you all the things you have done to me. That’s the only way you can learn a lesson.<\/p>\n

So di aver imparato il mio e non mi accontenter\u00f2 mai di meno nella mia vita.<\/a><\/p>\n

Grazie per avermi mostrato che il mondo \u00e8 abbastanza bello anche se non ne fai parte!<\/p>\n

Il tuo ex amante<\/p>\n

\"Una<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

You would like to make me cry tonight in front of the others again. You would like to cut my veins with your words like you are using the sharpest blade. You would like to make me sad even if I am happy. You would like to make me ugly even if I am the…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":21,"featured_media":92035,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29632],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-2597","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-abuse-and-trauma"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29632,"label":"abuse & trauma"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/A-Letter-To-The-Man-Who-Emotionally-Abused-Me.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Maria Parker","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/maria\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29632,"name":"abuse & trauma","slug":"abuse-and-trauma","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29632,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Learn the signs of emotional and physical abuse and how to protect yourself from toxic patterns in relationships with your partner, friends or family.","parent":22911,"count":138,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29632,"category_count":138,"category_description":"Learn the signs of emotional and physical abuse and how to protect yourself from toxic patterns in relationships with your partner, friends or family.","cat_name":"abuse & trauma","category_nicename":"abuse-and-trauma","category_parent":22911}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2597","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/21"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=2597"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2597\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/92035"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=2597"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=2597"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=2597"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}