{"id":26056,"date":"2019-10-17T08:03:49","date_gmt":"2019-10-17T08:03:49","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=26056"},"modified":"2021-08-11T10:50:27","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T10:50:27","slug":"penso-troppo-perche-tu-mi-mandi-segnali-contrastanti","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/penso-troppo-perche-tu-mi-mandi-segnali-contrastanti\/","title":{"rendered":"Penso troppo perch\u00e9 tu mi mandi segnali contrastanti"},"content":{"rendered":"

Yes, I analyze everything regarding you and our \u2018relationship\u2019. <\/span>Seziono ogni tua mossa, alla ricerca di significati nascosti. Metto in discussione e controllo letteralmente ogni parola che esce dalla tua bocca prima di crederti.<\/b><\/p>\n

Sono in grado di immaginare un centinaio di scenari diversi su ci\u00f2 che \u00e8 successo prima di arrivare in fondo alle cose.<\/span><\/p>\n

The truth is that I don\u2019t believe any word you say. That I constantly doubt your intentions and that I assume you are always lying, even when you are probably not.<\/span><\/p>\n

S\u00ec, la verit\u00e0 \u00e8 che sono un <\/b>sovrapensiero<\/b><\/a>. E non \u00e8 una cosa di cui vado fiero. <\/b><\/p>\n

Anzi, a volte penso addirittura che la mia analisi mi far\u00e0 impazzire completamente.<\/b><\/p>\n

The truth is that for a long time, I\u2019ve used overthinking as a form of a defense mechanism. <\/span><\/p>\n

Non ho mai saputo quale fosse la mia posizione con te, n\u00e9 cosa aspettarmi, e pensavo che sarei stato in grado di prevedere la tua prossima mossa e di risparmiarmi un sacco di dolore, se solo fossi andato a fondo della tua misteriosa personalit\u00e0.<\/span><\/p>\n

But after all these years, I finally understand that you were never complex or mysterious\u2014you were just an asshole. And I was crazy for letting you mistreat me and for allowing you to change me.<\/span><\/p>\n

Per molto tempo ho incolpato me stessa per il mio modo di essere. Mi sentivo in colpa per essere un'eccessiva pensatrice, supponendo che la mia eccessiva analisi non facesse altro che danneggiare la nostra relazione.<\/span><\/p>\n

Ma poi ho finalmente capito che il mio sovrappensiero non \u00e8 mai stato colpa mia. Forse \u00e8 l'ultima cosa che vorresti sentire, ma la verit\u00e0 \u00e8 che sono un sovrappensiero perch\u00e9 tu mi hai fatto diventare tale.<\/b><\/p>\n

You know very well that I wasn\u2019t like this when we first met. You know I was a spontaneous, open-hearted girl who believed in people.<\/span> <\/b><\/p>\n

Ma poi hai iniziato a giocare con la mia mente e con il mio cuore. <\/b><\/p>\n

Allora,<\/b> you started confusing me to the point where I didn\u2019t have the slightest clue of what was going on between us. <\/b><\/p>\n

Poi hai iniziato a mandarmi <\/b>segnali contrastanti<\/b><\/a> which I didn\u2019t have any way of interpreting.<\/b><\/p>\n

\"Penso<\/p>\n

A quel punto ho iniziato a passare notti insonni, cercando di capire quali fossero le tue vere intenzioni. <\/span><\/p>\n

Ti \u00e8 mai importato di me? O ti piaceva solo avermi intorno? Cosa significava quando hai trascorso un'intera settimana ignorandomi completamente e poi sei tornato strisciando da me, promettendomi il tuo amore eterno la settimana successiva? <\/span><\/p>\n

All of these questions were going through my mind and I wasn\u2019t getting the answers I needed to get from you.<\/span><\/p>\n

Fu allora che iniziai a cercare di leggere i tuoi messaggi tra le righe per poter almeno intuire le tue vere intenzioni. Quando ho iniziato ad ascoltare attentamente il tono della tua voce per poter sentire anche le cose che non mi dicevi.<\/b><\/p>\n

A quel punto sono diventata ossessionata dai suoi account sui social media, cercando di trovare indizi di altre ragazze nella sua vita. <\/span><\/p>\n

When I started questioning why you didn\u2019t reply to my texts, when I started doubting why you were too busy to see me and when I lost all of my trust in you.<\/span><\/p>\n

Da quel momento in poi, mi sono impegnato al massimo per cercare di indovinare i suoi pensieri e le sue prossime mosse. <\/b><\/p>\n

Ho profuso tutti i miei sforzi per decriptare il modo in cui mi guardavi, mi mandavi messaggi e mi chiamavi. Ho fatto di tutto per cercare di decifrarti senza successo.<\/b><\/p>\n

E tutto questo mi ha reso un pensatore eccessivo. In realt\u00e0, sei tu che hai fatto di me un pensatore eccessivo.<\/span><\/p>\n

Because if you had been honest about your intentions from the start, I wouldn\u2019t have been forced to analyze your every signal. I would never have been torn apart between being convinced that you loved me and thinking you couldn\u2019t care less about me in the very next moment. <\/span><\/p>\n

If you had been clear about your feelings, I wouldn\u2019t have had to search for non-existent clues of your love for me.<\/span><\/p>\n

Se foste stati pronti a <\/span>put a label on our \u2018relationship<\/span><\/a>\u2019, I wouldn\u2019t have spent endless nights trying to decode you. If you had been consistent, I wouldn\u2019t have had to question every little detail of your personality, trying to find a reason for your behavior.  <\/span><\/p>\n

If you hadn\u2019t been this unpredictable and if I had known what to expect from you, I wouldn\u2019t have had to wonder if you ever cared about me at all. <\/span><\/p>\n

If you hadn\u2019t been disappearing from my life and coming back the way you wanted, I wouldn\u2019t have had to try to decipher every single move you made.<\/span><\/p>\n

If you hadn\u2019t played mind games with me, I wouldn\u2019t have wasted years of my life trying to figure you out. <\/b><\/p>\n

If you hadn\u2019t sent me all those mixed signals, I would have known exactly where I stood and I wouldn\u2019t have had the need to overthink. <\/b> <\/p>\n

\"Penso<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Yes, I analyze everything regarding you and our \u2018relationship\u2019. I dissect every move you make, in the search of hidden meanings. I question and check literally every word that comes out of your mouth before I believe you. I am able to come up with a hundred different case scenarios of what happened before I…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":26060,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29619],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-26056","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-stories-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29619,"label":"stories"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/velizar-ivanov-1103339-unsplash-4.jpg",800,589,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29619,"name":"stories","slug":"stories-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29619,"taxonomy":"category","description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","parent":38,"count":424,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29619,"category_count":424,"category_description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","cat_name":"stories","category_nicename":"stories-love","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/26056","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=26056"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/26056\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/26060"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=26056"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=26056"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=26056"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}