{"id":26159,"date":"2020-09-18T07:11:16","date_gmt":"2020-09-18T07:11:16","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=26159"},"modified":"2021-08-12T07:57:43","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T07:57:43","slug":"ama-con-forza-perche-sa-come-ci-si-sente-ad-essere-amati-cosi-poco","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/ama-con-forza-perche-sa-come-ci-si-sente-ad-essere-amati-cosi-poco\/","title":{"rendered":"Ama intensamente perch\u00e9 sa come ci si sente ad essere amati cos\u00ec poco"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>\u00c8 vero. Lei crede ancora nell'amore, nonostante tutto quello che le \u00e8 successo.<\/p>\n<p>\u00c8 stata spezzata cos\u00ec gravemente che \u00e8 riuscita a malapena a ricomporsi. \u00c8 stata privata dell'amore per cos\u00ec tanto tempo che l'ha fatta sentire insensibile per molto tempo.<\/p>\n<p>And yes, the easiest path for her would be to give up on love entirely. But she doesn\u2019t know how to do that. She can\u2019t do that. She loves hard, and she is brave enough to give love a try no matter what the risks.<\/p>\n<p>She believes that love is worth the risk. She believes that it\u2019s still out there. She just needs to find someone who will love as hard as she does.<\/p>\n<p><b>Ama senza trattenersi, perch\u00e9 tutto ci\u00f2 che ha ricevuto \u00e8 stato uno scorcio d'amore. <\/b><\/p>\n<p>She loves loudly and fiercely. She doesn\u2019t know how to hide her emotions, and there is no point in doing that anyway. She will openly show she cares.<\/p>\n<p>She will text back as soon as she sees the message because she doesn\u2019t want to play games or ignore another person. She knows how awful it feels when you are waiting for a reply that always comes too late.<\/p>\n<p>She will find time even during her busiest week for someone who is important. She knows all too well how it feels to get only crumbs of somebody&#8217;s attention. She knows how awful it is to think that they are there just when it\u2019s convenient.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-116895\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/calm-woman-outdoors-with-eyes-closed.jpg\" alt=\"donna calma all&#039;aperto con gli occhi chiusi\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/calm-woman-outdoors-with-eyes-closed.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/calm-woman-outdoors-with-eyes-closed-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/calm-woman-outdoors-with-eyes-closed-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/calm-woman-outdoors-with-eyes-closed-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/calm-woman-outdoors-with-eyes-closed-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/calm-woman-outdoors-with-eyes-closed-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/calm-woman-outdoors-with-eyes-closed-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/calm-woman-outdoors-with-eyes-closed-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>She doesn\u2019t want to cause that pain to another person. Her past hasn\u2019t left her bitter and with a desire for revenge. It taught her <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/life\/8-lezioni-che-ho-imparato-dopo-che-mi-hanno-spezzato-il-cuore\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">lezioni preziose<\/span><\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>She knows that making someone new pay for somebody else\u2019s sins wouldn\u2019t change anything. Instead, she has made it her life\u2019s mission to make sure that she never causes somebody the pain she has endured.<\/p>\n<p><b>Fa pi\u00f9 sforzi del dovuto perch\u00e9 non ne sono stati fatti per lei. <\/b><\/p>\n<p>Un po' di impegno, un passo nella sua direzione, qualcuno che dia almeno la met\u00e0 di quello che lei sta dando era tutto ci\u00f2 di cui aveva bisogno e che non ha mai ottenuto.<\/p>\n<p>She is all in or not there at all. She always gives more, some would say even too much, but she doesn\u2019t know how to give half of herself to someone she feels deeply for.<\/p>\n<p>\u00c8 cos\u00ec premurosa e le piace far sentire le persone speciali, soprattutto quelle di cui \u00e8 innamorata. Trover\u00e0 sempre un modo nuovo per fargli sapere che sta pensando a lui e che le manca ogni volta che non c'\u00e8.<\/p>\n<p><b>Ascolta perch\u00e9 non c'era nessuno ad ascoltarla quando ne aveva pi\u00f9 bisogno. <\/b><\/p>\n<p>Lei ascoltava e sosteneva qualsiasi cosa, ma ancora di pi\u00f9 ora che sa quanto sia difficile stare con qualcuno e sentirsi soli. Non ha mai avuto il sistema di sostegno di cui aveva bisogno.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-116896\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/woman-in-casual-outfit-takes-a-rest-outside.jpg\" alt=\"donna in abiti casual si riposa all&#039;aperto\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/woman-in-casual-outfit-takes-a-rest-outside.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/woman-in-casual-outfit-takes-a-rest-outside-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/woman-in-casual-outfit-takes-a-rest-outside-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/woman-in-casual-outfit-takes-a-rest-outside-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/woman-in-casual-outfit-takes-a-rest-outside-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/woman-in-casual-outfit-takes-a-rest-outside-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/woman-in-casual-outfit-takes-a-rest-outside-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/woman-in-casual-outfit-takes-a-rest-outside-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>She never had somebody to help her carry the burdens. She always had to do it alone. She always carried everybody else\u2019s, too. The weight of the world was on her shoulders.<\/p>\n<p>She knows that she can\u2019t always help. She knows that she can\u2019t solve everybody&#8217;s problems, but she also knows how important it is to listen. She knows that just being there is enough.<\/p>\n<p><b>She had nothing that&#8217;s why she\u2019s ready to give everything to the right person. <\/b><\/p>\n<p>She loves hard because she knows how it feels to be loved so little. She doesn\u2019t want that for anybody. She doesn\u2019t want it for herself either.<\/p>\n<p>Quella terribile sensazione la perseguita ancora. <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/love\/ce-unenorme-differenza-tra-lottare-per-lamore-e-implorarlo\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Love shouldn\u2019t be begged for<\/a>. Love shouldn\u2019t be chased. Love shouldn\u2019t restrain and cage anybody. She knows that now.<\/p>\n<p>Ha imparato la lezione e far\u00e0 del suo meglio per non ripetere gli stessi errori. \u00c8 in grado di individuare tutte le bandiere rosse a chilometri di distanza.<\/p>\n<p>She will do her best to choose better next time love knocks on her door. She will make sure that love is real or she won\u2019t open at all.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-116893\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/She-Loves-Hard-Because-She-Knows-How-It-Feels-To-Be-Loved-So-Little-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"Ama intensamente perch\u00e9 sa come ci si sente ad essere amati cos\u00ec poco\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/She-Loves-Hard-Because-She-Knows-How-It-Feels-To-Be-Loved-So-Little-pinterest.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/She-Loves-Hard-Because-She-Knows-How-It-Feels-To-Be-Loved-So-Little-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/She-Loves-Hard-Because-She-Knows-How-It-Feels-To-Be-Loved-So-Little-pinterest-150x225.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>It\u2019s true. She still believes in love in spite of everything that has happened to her. She was broken so severely that she barely managed to put herself back together. She was love-deprived so long that it left her feeling numb for a long while. And yes, the easiest path for her would be to&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":116897,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29619],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-26159","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-stories-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29619,"label":"stories"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/She-Loves-Hard-Because-She-Knows-How-It-Feels-To-Be-Loved-So-Little-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29619,"name":"stories","slug":"stories-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29619,"taxonomy":"category","description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","parent":38,"count":424,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29619,"category_count":424,"category_description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","cat_name":"stories","category_nicename":"stories-love","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/26159","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=26159"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/26159\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/116897"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=26159"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=26159"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=26159"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}