{"id":26279,"date":"2020-03-19T07:54:36","date_gmt":"2020-03-19T07:54:36","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=26279"},"modified":"2021-08-12T07:35:11","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T07:35:11","slug":"essere-felici-senza-di-lui-e-la-miglior-vendetta","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/essere-felici-senza-di-lui-e-la-miglior-vendetta\/","title":{"rendered":"Essere felici senza di lui \u00e8 la migliore vendetta"},"content":{"rendered":"

La necessit\u00e0 di vendetta <\/a> in itself is never a good idea. Instead of moving on, you\u2019re not giving yourself a chance to heal and are instead, focused on proving something to the other person.<\/p>\n

What\u2019s the point of that?<\/p>\n

It\u2019s understandable to feel a certain way after a messy breakup and to feel the need to show the other person that you don\u2019t need them anyway.<\/p>\n

But instead of proving it to them, you need to make sure that you get it,too. You\u2019re the one you\u2019re left with, remember that.<\/p>\n

Essere felici \u00e8 l'obiettivo, giusto? Ebbene, invece di cercare di far credere a qualcun altro che sia cos\u00ec, concentratevi per assicurarvi di essere davvero sulla strada della felicit\u00e0.<\/p>\n

For starters, let go of everything that you have boiling inside you. It\u2019s unhealthy, and it\u2019s only preventing you from getting over him.<\/p>\n

The minute you decide that you no longer need to prove anything to anyone is when you can proudly tell yourself that you\u2019ve made it. You\u2019re on your way.<\/p>\n

What drives people crazy is seeing that you are doing well without them. It makes them realize they no longer have any control over you, and that\u2019s what your goal should be.<\/p>\n

Invece di pensare a lui e a come farlo ingelosire, concentrati su altre cose della vita. Voglio dire, avevi cose che ti rendevano felice prima ancora di sapere che lui esisteva, giusto?<\/p>\n

Bene, finalmente avete tempo da dedicare a queste cose, quindi non perdete tempo e tornate alla vita che avevate e che amavate prima che lui arrivasse.<\/p>\n

\"due<\/p>\n

Always know that happiness is a choice. Shitty things will always happen, and things won\u2019t always be dreamy.<\/p>\n

Ma quando deciderete di non temere le cose che non potete controllare, vi renderete conto che potete davvero mantenere la vostra sanit\u00e0 mentale e preservare la vostra felicit\u00e0.<\/p>\n

Life is way too short to spend time worrying about people who don\u2019t give a crap about you.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t try to make his life hell. Don\u2019t try to make him jealous by parading someone new around him, just for the sake of it.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s not worth it. It\u2019s also not fair to that person.<\/p>\n

Li usereste solo per fare del male a qualcun altro, ma a farne le spese sarebbero pi\u00f9 persone che non solo la vostra ex. Pensateci un attimo.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t use other people and play with their emotions. That way, you\u2019re no better than your ex. Don\u2019t degrade yourself to his level.<\/p>\n

Superatelo e dimostrategli che potete davvero stare senza di lui.<\/p>\n

This doesn\u2019t mean that you can\u2019t get angry or upset. You can still let yourself feel whatever emozione <\/a> that takes over you. It is all part of the process of letting go. Don\u2019t deny yourself that.<\/p>\n

You can still get sad at times. It\u2019s perfectly normal, as long as you know that it doesn\u2019t define you. A single emotion doesn\u2019t define your life. It will all go away eventually.<\/p>\n

\"giovane<\/p>\n

Bisogna solo permettere a se stessi di elaborare il tutto nel modo giusto.<\/p>\n

Remember those times when you felt like you couldn\u2019t get out of bed?<\/p>\n

Ricordate quando pensavate che non avreste mai dimenticato il ragazzo che all'epoca credevate fosse l'amore della vostra vita?<\/p>\n

Well, look at you now! You\u2019re over it and probably laughing how funny it all seems now.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s exactly how you\u2019ll be feeling about your current situation.<\/p>\n

There\u2019s no need to put anyone down. You just focus on getting back to your happy place, the one you know exists.<\/p>\n

Mancano solo alcuni passi prima di arrivare finalmente a destinazione.<\/p>\n

Tutti gli altri sono irrilevanti.<\/p>\n

L'unica cosa di cui dovete preoccuparvi \u00e8 di rimettervi in carreggiata e di circondarvi di persone che vi aiutino a sentirvi bene con voi stessi.<\/p>\n

Vedervi felici \u00e8 l'unica vendetta che lo far\u00e0 impazzire.<\/p>\n

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