{"id":26291,"date":"2020-07-19T07:54:25","date_gmt":"2020-07-19T07:54:25","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=26291"},"modified":"2022-02-06T17:24:12","modified_gmt":"2022-02-06T17:24:12","slug":"tornare-a-cio-che-ti-ha-rotto-non-ti-aggiustera","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/tornare-a-cio-che-ti-ha-rotto-non-ti-aggiustera\/","title":{"rendered":"Tornare a ci\u00f2 che ti ha rovinato non ti aggiuster\u00e0"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Per favore, abbiate rispetto per voi stessi. Non tornare dalla persona che \u00e8 scappata dal tuo amore.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t go back to the person who turned his back on you, leaving you all alone and vulnerable, while you were begging him to stay. Don\u2019t go back to the one who broke all of his promises.<\/p>\n<p>Meritate qualcuno che non prenda mai in considerazione l'idea di lasciarvi sole e confuse. Meritate un amore che vi faccia sentire sicuri.<\/p>\n<p>L'amore che pu\u00f2 proteggere dal dolore e dal crepacuore.<\/p>\n<p>Ti meriti qualcuno che non ti far\u00e0 mai venire le lacrime agli occhi. Qualcuno che non potrebbe mai sopportare di vedervi versare lacrime per qualcosa che vi ha fatto.<\/p>\n<p>I get it. It\u2019s easy to take him back when he\u2019s telling you everything you want to hear. When he\u2019s promising you that this time, it WILL be different.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-107600\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/man-begging-woman-for-forgiveness.jpg\" alt=\"uomo che implora la donna di perdonarlo\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/man-begging-woman-for-forgiveness.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/man-begging-woman-for-forgiveness-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/man-begging-woman-for-forgiveness-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/man-begging-woman-for-forgiveness-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/man-begging-woman-for-forgiveness-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>This time, he has changed. And it\u2019s easy to believe what you want him to tell you. It\u2019s way too easy loving someone you shouldn\u2019t love anymore.<\/p>\n<p>But hear me out. When he\u2019s on his knees begging you to take him back, and saying that things are really going to be different this time, he will be telling you that because he knows that\u2019s what you need to hear from him.<\/p>\n<p>He knows that you need reassurance if you\u2019re going to go back into the hole that he had dug for you, so please, don\u2019t believe him.<\/p>\n<p>Ha gi\u00e0 mostrato la sua vera natura <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/non-accontentatevi-di-un-uomo-che-vi-ha-gia-lasciate-una-volta\/\">la prima volta che ti ha lasciato<\/a>. Ti ha gi\u00e0 dimostrato quanto poco gli importi di te quando ti ha lasciato cos\u00ec facilmente, senza voltarsi.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t be crazy to think he actually changed.<\/p>\n<p>I know that you desperately want to feel loved, just like the rest of us. I know that you want to feel adored and be without a care in the world when you\u2019re with him.<\/p>\n<p>Ma la persona che vi ha lasciato una volta, lo far\u00e0 di nuovo. La persona che vi ha lasciato non sar\u00e0 mai la persona che vi guarir\u00e0.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-107603\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/sad-woman-holding-a-phone.jpg\" alt=\"donna triste con in mano un telefono\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/sad-woman-holding-a-phone.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/sad-woman-holding-a-phone-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/sad-woman-holding-a-phone-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/sad-woman-holding-a-phone-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/sad-woman-holding-a-phone-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Quindi, <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/love\/alla-ragazza-che-vuole-tornare-da-lui-non-hai-bisogno-di-lui\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">don\u2019t go running back<\/a> the minute he realizes what he has lost and wants you back. Don\u2019t be the one to fill the emptiness he now feels.<\/p>\n<p>Lui sa che lo amate. Sa che state aspettando pazientemente la sua chiamata e che tornerete nel momento in cui lui vi vorr\u00e0.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t give him the satisfaction. Don\u2019t do this to yourself. He broke you once, and he will do it again.<\/p>\n<p>The only reason he wants you to come back is because he can\u2019t be alone. Don\u2019t run back to him simply because it is convenient for him.<\/p>\n<p>He will find a reason to break you again. And then, it\u2019s going to be twice as hard to heal from it.<\/p>\n<p>Amare prima di tutto se stessi. Metti te stessa al primo posto per una volta. Correte dall'altra parte se lui bussa alla vostra porta.<\/p>\n<p>Proprio come ha fatto quando avevi bisogno che restasse. Ricordate sempre che.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-107604\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/worried-woman-sitting-outdoor.jpg\" alt=\"donna preoccupata seduta all&#039;aperto\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/worried-woman-sitting-outdoor.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/worried-woman-sitting-outdoor-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/worried-woman-sitting-outdoor-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/worried-woman-sitting-outdoor-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/worried-woman-sitting-outdoor-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Siete innamorati. \u00c8 del tutto naturale, lo capisco.<\/p>\n<p>But don\u2019t you want someone who will appreciate you, value you and ultimately adore you, the way you feel for him now?<\/p>\n<p>Il tipo di amore che \u00e8 disposto ad offrire non \u00e8 <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/love\/non-ottenere-amore-meritano\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">il tipo di amore che meriti<\/a>. Se tornate da lui, non smetterete mai di stupirvi. Saprete sempre cosa \u00e8 capace di fare.<\/p>\n<p>Dopo tutto, lo avete vissuto in prima persona. Questo da solo non vi dar\u00e0 mai la pace della mente. \u00c8 questo che volete per voi?<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t do it. Protect you heart and say, \u2018No.\u2019 Remember that he broke you once already and still has the guts to appear at your door again.<\/p>\n<p>Please, don\u2019t go back to false hope again. Don\u2019t go back to fake promises, lies and tears.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-107608\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/sad-woman-in-deep-minds.jpg\" alt=\"donna triste in una mente profonda\" width=\"800\" height=\"535\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/sad-woman-in-deep-minds.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/sad-woman-in-deep-minds-300x201.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/sad-woman-in-deep-minds-768x514.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/sad-woman-in-deep-minds-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/sad-woman-in-deep-minds-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t go back to his games and tricks. You deserve so much more than him.<\/p>\n<p>I know it\u2019s scary to hear this now because you feel like you are at a crossroads. I know you are afraid of being alone if you don\u2019t take him back.<\/p>\n<p>You might even believe him when he tells you he\u2019s a changed man and that leaving you the first time was the biggest mistake of his life.<\/p>\n<p>Ma siate coraggiosi e considerate i vostri sentimenti e la vostra felicit\u00e0.<\/p>\n<p>After some time, you will realize that saying, \u2018No\u2019 to him was the best decision of your life.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-107598\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/Going-Back-To-What-Broke-You-Wont-Fix-You-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"Tornare a ci\u00f2 che ti ha rovinato non ti aggiuster\u00e0\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/Going-Back-To-What-Broke-You-Wont-Fix-You-pinterest.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/Going-Back-To-What-Broke-You-Wont-Fix-You-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/Going-Back-To-What-Broke-You-Wont-Fix-You-pinterest-150x225.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Please, have some respect for yourself. Don\u2019t go back to the person who ran away from your love. Don\u2019t go back to the person who turned his back on you, leaving you all alone and vulnerable, while you were begging him to stay. Don\u2019t go back to the one who broke all of his promises&#8230;.<\/p>","protected":false},"author":13,"featured_media":107611,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29628],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-26291","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-dealing-with-breakup"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29628,"label":"dealing with breakup"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/Going-Back-To-What-Broke-You-Wont-Fix-You.jpg",800,540,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"April Callaghan","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/april\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29628,"name":"dealing with breakup","slug":"dealing-with-breakup","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29628,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Breakups are painful but worry not; you don't need to go through all of it alone. 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