{"id":26369,"date":"2018-10-19T11:43:02","date_gmt":"2018-10-19T11:43:02","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=26369"},"modified":"2022-02-21T19:32:38","modified_gmt":"2022-02-21T19:32:38","slug":"e-cosi-che-si-ama-una-ragazza-abituata-a-stare-per-conto-suo","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/e-cosi-che-si-ama-una-ragazza-abituata-a-stare-per-conto-suo\/","title":{"rendered":"Ecco come si ama una ragazza abituata a stare da sola"},"content":{"rendered":"

Have you ever met a girl who doesn\u2019t need anyone to complete her? A strong and independent woman who doesn\u2019t ask for anyone\u2019s financial or emotional support and guidance? Have you ever met a girl who is so used to being on her own that with time, she has become completely self-sufficient?<\/span><\/p>\n

If you have, you\u2019ll know that this girl is different than any other girl that passed through your life. You’ll know how special and unique she really is. If you have ever met a girl like this, you’ll know that she is one of a kind.<\/span><\/p>\n

Don\u2019t get me wrong. I am in no way trying to convince you that she is perfect because she is far from that. This girl is challenging, and she is everything but easy to get.<\/span><\/p>\n

Stare con questa ragazza richiede un grande impegno perch\u00e9 lei vi dar\u00e0 molto, ma chiede anche molto in cambio.<\/span><\/p>\n

But if you really want to love her, you\u2019ll be patient, and everything will be worth it.<\/span><\/p>\n

The difference between her and all those other women is that she wants to be with you even though she doesn\u2019t have to or need to. From all those men around her, she chose only you to be the one holding her hand when times get rough.<\/span><\/p>\n

Ha scelto voi per essere la sua compagna in questo viaggio chiamato vita. Ha scelto di essere il suo partner in tutti i sensi di questa parola.<\/b><\/p>\n

Don\u2019t you ever think that this girl is with you just because she is afraid that she\u2019ll <\/span>finire da soli<\/span><\/a> because that can\u2019t be further from the truth. She isn\u2019t with you just to have someone around when she needs a plus one or when she misses sex.<\/span><\/p>\n

She didn\u2019t scegliere voi<\/a> because she had no other option than to settle with the first guy which came into her life. She didn\u2019t do it because she needed someone\u2019s support or guidance.<\/span><\/p>\n

She won\u2019t be lost and incomplete without you. Her life will still have meaning even if she doesn\u2019t have you.<\/b><\/p>\n

When she chooses to be yours, she doesn\u2019t need you to be whole. She\u2019ll never think of you as her other half, and she can live without you just fine, but she prefers sharing her life with you.<\/p>\n

\"Ecco<\/p>\n

And when a girl like this chooses you, you can consider yourself to be pretty damn special. Because she doesn\u2019t let people in just like that.<\/span><\/p>\n

You know, she has been through a lot. Everyone she\u2019s trusted betrayed her. Everyone she\u2019s loved abandoned her.  <\/span><\/p>\n

And with time, she learned that she couldn\u2019t count on anyone but herself. She learned that she can only rely on herself because everyone else will betray her sooner or later.<\/span><\/p>\n

With time, she became scared of letting someone in. She became scared that she\u2019d get used to needing someone the same way she got used to being on her own.<\/b><\/p>\n

She got scared that she\u2019d get used to having someone to have her back through thick and thin. Scared of getting used to having qualcuno che la prenda quando cade<\/a> e qualcuno che raccolga i suoi pezzi ogni volta che si rompe.<\/span><\/p>\n

Questa ragazza ha passato anni a costruire muri emotivi forti e spessi per proteggere il suo cuore. E se avete intenzione di abbattere questi muri, siate pronti a rimanere.<\/span><\/p>\n

Don\u2019t do it if you will break her heart, assuming that nothing can hurt her. Don\u2019t enter her life if you don\u2019t plan on becoming a part of it.  <\/span><\/p>\n

Don\u2019t do it if you plan on walking away at the first hint of trouble. Don\u2019t make her fall for you if you can\u2019t commit to stay with her even on the darkest of days.<\/span><\/p>\n

Don\u2019t make her put you in front of herself, if you plan on treating her like she belongs to the bottom of your priority list. Don\u2019t manipulate her into prioritizing you if you plan on treating her like your <\/span>seconda scelta<\/span><\/a>.<\/span><\/p>\n

Don\u2019t make her trust you if you plan on playing with that trust. Don\u2019t make her think that she can rely on you if you plan on backing out on her when she starts to need you.<\/span><\/p>\n

Perch\u00e9 l'ultima cosa che vuole \u00e8 essere ferita ancora una volta. L'ultima cosa che vuole \u00e8 abituarsi ad avere qualcuno intorno solo per essere lasciata in sospeso ancora una volta.  <\/span><\/p>\n

So, if you plan on loving a girl who is used to being on her own, do it right or don\u2019t do it at all. If you plan on tearing down her walls, make sure you are worth it.<\/b> <\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Have you ever met a girl who doesn\u2019t need anyone to complete her? A strong and independent woman who doesn\u2019t ask for anyone\u2019s financial or emotional support and guidance? Have you ever met a girl who is so used to being on her own that with time, she has become completely self-sufficient? If you have,…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":39,"featured_media":26370,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29641],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-26369","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-dating-tips-for-him"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29641,"label":"dating tips for him"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/farrel-nobel-388381-unsplash-1.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Owen Scott","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/hase\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29641,"name":"dating tips for him","slug":"dating-tips-for-him","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29641,"taxonomy":"category","description":"These are not just any dating tips. These are the tips that you'll proudly stick to the wall of your man cave because they're that important (and THEY WORK).","parent":29638,"count":110,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29641,"category_count":110,"category_description":"These are not just any dating tips. These are the tips that you'll proudly stick to the wall of your man cave because they're that important (and THEY WORK).","cat_name":"dating tips for him","category_nicename":"dating-tips-for-him","category_parent":29638}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/26369","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/39"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=26369"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/26369\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/26370"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=26369"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=26369"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=26369"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}