{"id":26495,"date":"2020-05-23T07:55:01","date_gmt":"2020-05-23T07:55:01","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=26495"},"modified":"2021-08-31T07:05:04","modified_gmt":"2021-08-31T07:05:04","slug":"se-due-persone-sono-destinate-a-stare-insieme-troveranno-la-strada-per-tornare-indietro","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/se-due-persone-sono-destinate-a-stare-insieme-troveranno-la-strada-per-tornare-indietro\/","title":{"rendered":"Se due persone sono destinate a stare insieme, troveranno la strada per tornare indietro"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I really thought once it\u2019s over there\u2019s no going back. That\u2019s it. End of relationship, end of someone&#8217;s existence in my life. But destiny had other plans.<\/p>\n<p>I always rolled my eyes every time someone would say something along the lines of, \u201cIf it\u2019s meant to be, you will be together again.\u201d I thought it was a myth.<\/p>\n<p>Pensavo che fosse solo una cosa che si dice per consolarsi. Finch\u00e9 non \u00e8 successo a me.<\/p>\n<p><b><i>I don\u2019t know why it had to happen this way. The harder way. Was going through all that mess and awful heartbreak really necessary to have my heart full and beating again? <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p>It seems it had to go that way. I still don\u2019t really understand why, though.<\/p>\n<p>I always knew he was something else. Someone different. Someone mine. I can\u2019t really describe that feeling. It\u2019s something I always longed for but never knew existed.<\/p>\n<p><b><i>Purtroppo, non sono mai stata cos\u00ec sicura dei miei sentimenti come il giorno in cui se n'\u00e8 andato. Il dolore che provai dopo quel giorno fu come non avevo mai provato prima. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p>I felt like I was going to suffocate from all the tears. I thought they would never stop. It\u2019s so hard to feel so much love in one moment and have it all taken away from you the next.<\/p>\n<p>Pensavo che non mi sarei mai ripresa. Non ero mai stata cos\u00ec negativa in vita mia, ma l'amore perduto ha questo modo di cambiarti come nient'altro nella vita.<\/p>\n<p>Nonostante tutto, non l'ho mai odiato. Non ho mai potuto. Lo rimproveravo per il suo essere egoista, per il suo essere <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/love\/segni-che-ha-paura-di-quanto-gli-piaci\/\">paura dei suoi sentimenti<\/a>, for being immature, for not appreciating me, for\u2026. so many things.<\/p>\n<p>But I still kept him in my prayers every single night. It was a habit I formed and I couldn\u2019t shake off. I wanted him to be safe and sound, I wanted him to be happy even if he wasn\u2019t mine.<\/p>\n<p>Credo che un pezzo di lui sia rimasto con me. Anche anni dopo la nostra rottura, anche quando credevo davvero di averlo dimenticato e di essere andata avanti con la mia vita, lui era sempre in fondo alla mia mente.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-83351 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/thoughtful-looking-outside.jpg\" alt=\"sguardo riflessivo verso l&#039;esterno\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/thoughtful-looking-outside.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/thoughtful-looking-outside-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/thoughtful-looking-outside-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><b><i>Credevo davvero che non fosse nel mio cuore, almeno non pi\u00f9. Pensavo che fossero solo i ricordi di ci\u00f2 che \u00e8 stato e di ci\u00f2 che avrebbe potuto essere a tenerlo presente nei miei pensieri. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p><b><i>Finch\u00e9 il suo nome non ha illuminato il mio telefono. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p>My hands were shaking. I was weak at my knees and felt like I was about to faint. I didn\u2019t know whether I should answer or not. I hesitated for a while. But I gave in.<\/p>\n<p><b><i>Il solo suono della sua voce mi riport\u00f2 alla mente tutti i sentimenti che pensavo fossero morti e sepolti. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p>He begged me to talk to him. I couldn\u2019t utter a single sound. I was paralyzed. After I came to my senses, he asked me to meet and I couldn\u2019t say no. I wanted to see him, it was stronger than me.<\/p>\n<p>Dopo un po' di tempo, gli ho dato una seconda possibilit\u00e0. Ho dato una seconda possibilit\u00e0 al nostro amore. L'ho perdonato. Anche se era rischioso. Anche se tutti intorno a me continuavano a dirmi di non farlo. Mi sono fidata del mio istinto e l'ho seguito.<\/p>\n<p><b><i>Because despite everything that had happened, the love hadn\u2019t faded away, it was still there, it was still very much alive. What was different this time was that his love had matured. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p>Sapeva cosa voleva. Sapeva che avrebbe dovuto lavorare a lungo e duramente per guadagnarsi di nuovo la mia fiducia. Sapeva che volevo un impegno totale e che era pronto per questo.<\/p>\n<p>He wasn\u2019t that scared anymore. He was sure about me, about us, and somehow I was able to see that. &nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Questa volta c'era solo lui. Era l\u00ec per rimediare a tutti i torti. Era l\u00ec per baciare le mie cicatrici. Era l\u00ec per restare.<\/p>\n<p>We are getting to know each other all over again. He isn\u2019t the only one who changed. All that I\u2019ve been through shaped me into a person with standards, into someone who demands respect.<\/p>\n<p>Vedete, non ci sono regole chiare quando si tratta di amore, ma una cosa \u00e8 vera quando l'amore \u00e8 reale, quando due persone sono destinate a stare insieme, trovano la strada per tornare.<\/p>\n<p>And though our story wasn\u2019t easy, I would do it all over again. It\u2019s worth it because of everything we have now.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-83348 size-large\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/If-Two-People-Are-Meant-To-Be-Together-They\u2019ll-Find-Their-Way-Back-Pinterest-683x1024.jpg\" alt=\"Se due persone sono destinate a stare insieme, troveranno la strada per tornare indietro\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/If-Two-People-Are-Meant-To-Be-Together-They\u2019ll-Find-Their-Way-Back-Pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/If-Two-People-Are-Meant-To-Be-Together-They\u2019ll-Find-Their-Way-Back-Pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/If-Two-People-Are-Meant-To-Be-Together-They\u2019ll-Find-Their-Way-Back-Pinterest.jpg 735w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I really thought once it\u2019s over there\u2019s no going back. That\u2019s it. End of relationship, end of someone&#8217;s existence in my life. But destiny had other plans. I always rolled my eyes every time someone would say something along the lines of, \u201cIf it\u2019s meant to be, you will be together again.\u201d I thought it&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":53,"featured_media":83349,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29616],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-26495","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-spirituality"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29616,"label":"spirituality"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/If-Two-People-Are-Meant-To-Be-Together-They\u2019ll-Find-Their-Way-Back.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Ariel Quinn","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/ariel\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29616,"name":"spirituality","slug":"spirituality","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29616,"taxonomy":"category","description":"If you feel like you need help staying in touch with your spirituality and higher self, this is where you'll find all the inspiration and strength you lack.","parent":38,"count":147,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29616,"category_count":147,"category_description":"If you feel like you need help staying in touch with your spirituality and higher self, this is where you'll find all the inspiration and strength you lack.","cat_name":"spirituality","category_nicename":"spirituality","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/26495","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/53"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=26495"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/26495\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/83349"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=26495"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=26495"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=26495"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}